why some loser like bill gate sid down inner barber shop a talk bout him f++ me him a look me and him carry me out three time this is the last time him took me out he carried me to dinner him carry me go two party him and him friend dem and a short one from new york whah keep one dance make we have to stand up till him come and when the boy come we have fi go up inner the club and wait 35min before him walk and talk to everybody and then him put liqour pon the table . number one me want the dutty bwoy yah stop call up me name when me go party him with him him couldnt buy liquor him broke like wah a the short boy from new york have to buy we liqour me want him stop say him f__ me me a no one a dem him can use stop call up me name.

http://technorati.com/entertainment/music/article/why-rihanna-is-just-another-domestic/page-2/

Author: Kim Bayne
Published: December 27, 2012 at 5:36 am

I do not have any respect for Rihanna. Why should I? She does not appear to have any for herself. Rumors have been flying about her reconciliation with Chris Brown, the man who was convicted of causing the injuries above to Rihanna in 2009, for months now.
Whether or not they are ‘back together’ has been the hot topic around water coolers since mid July.Confirmation or denial is redundant. Rihanna’s body language around Chris Brown speaks volumes. These pictures show that all is forgiven and that she is ready for Round 2. Pun intended. Rihanna is showing the world that she cares so little for herself that she will happily keep the company of a man who caused her injury. A man who was convicted of and plead guilty to causing her injury. This young woman had photographs taken and displayed around the world of her battered face. Yet three years on, she is indicating from her behavior that she has forgiven him. Her body language is telling the world that its ok to beat up Rihanna, she will forgive, forget and also give you a hefty dose of sexy eyes in public.

Rihanna does not have the respect for herself to keep away from this man. It is perfectly natural that she may miss him. She admitted in an interview with Oprah Winfrey in August of this year that he was the love of her life. Complicating her feelings might be the fact that their initial relationship ended unexpectedly, violently and abruptly. That sort of situation involves a grieving process, so Rihanna could have been forgiven in the immediate aftermath of tha trauma for being confused and unsure of herself.
What she needs to realize now, three years on, is that what Chris Brown did to her was an act of violence. As hard as it is for her to sever her feelings for this man, she must learn or be taught that what he did to her is not acceptable behavior for a person to do to another person at all, let alone someone they are in a relationship with. She must gain the skills necessary to reconcile in her mind that a person who truly loves her would not want to behave like that toward her and that she is the only one who can demand how she is treated by men.

Her behavior now is sending him a message that she will tolerate behavior from him toward her that is violent and abusive. She has demonstrated her self-worth is not important enough to sever the bond she shared with this man. Chris Brown will learn from her behavior that he can get away with unacceptable behavior without consequence from Rihanna. That he can be disrespectful and abusive and she will tolerate it.Rihanna may be a superstar but to me she is another statistic. Another woman who lacked the confidence and self-respect to take a stand and say NO, I am not going to allow myself to be treated this way. Another woman who gave her self-worth a backseat to the fear of being without a man. Rihanna outwardly appears to be a strong, independent women. Yet she is really a victim of domestic violence who believes her abuser’s remorse, more than she believes in her own inner strength and her right to a loving partner who will treat her how she deserves to be treated. Rihanna is just another women who went back to an abusive partner, believing that it would never happen again.

“I don’t know if I continue, even today, always liking myself. But what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself. It is very important for every human being to forgive herself or himself because if you live, you will make mistakes- it is inevitable. But once you do and you see the mistake, then you forgive yourself and say, ‘Well, if I’d known better I’d have done better,’ that’s all. So you say to people who you think you may have injured, ‘I’m sorry,’ and then you say to yourself, ‘I’m sorry.’ If we all hold on to the mistake, we can’t see our own glory in the mirror because we have the mistake between our faces and the mirror; we can’t see what we’re capable of being. You can ask forgiveness of others, but in the end the real forgiveness is in one’s own self. I think that young men and women are so caught by the way they see themselves. Now mind you. When a larger society sees them as unattractive, as threats, as too black or too white or too poor or too fat or too thin or too sexual or too asexual, that’s rough. But you can overcome that. The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself. If we don’t have that we never grow, we never learn, and sure as hell we should never teach.”
― Maya Angelou

A New York-based group has filed a lawsuit in hopes of forcing a hospital in Nairobi, Kenya, to stop detaining new mothers who can’t pay their maternity bills.

NAIROBI, Kenya — The director of the Pumwani Maternity Hospital, located in a hardscrabble neighborhood of downtown Nairobi, freely acknowledges what he’s accused of: detaining mothers who can’t pay their bills. Lazarus Omondi says it’s the only way he can keep his medical center running. Two mothers who live in a mud-wall and tin-roof slum a short walk from the maternity hospital, which is affiliated with the Nairobi City Council, told The Associated Press that the hospital wouldn’t let them leave after delivering their babies. The bills the mothers couldn’t afford were $60 and $160. Guards would beat mothers with sticks who tried to leave without paying, one of the women said. Now, a New York-based group has filed a lawsuit on the women’s behalf in hopes of forcing the hospital to stop the practice, a practice Omondi is candid about. “We hold you and squeeze you until we get what we can get. We must be self-sufficient,” Omondi said in an interview in his hospital office. “The hospital must get money to pay electricity, to pay water. We must pay our doctors and our workers.” “They stay there until they pay. They must pay,” he said of the 350 mothers who give birth each week on average. “If you don’t pay the hospital will collapse.” The Center for Reproductive Rights, which filed the suit this month in the High Court of Kenya, says detaining women for not paying is illegal. The hospital is associated with the Nairobi City Council, one reason it might be able to get away with such practices, and the patients are among Nairobi’s poorest with hardly anyone to stand up for them.

Maimouna Awuor was an impoverished mother of four when she was to give birth to her fifth in October 2010. Like many who live in Nairobi’s slums, Awuor performs odd jobs in the hopes of earning enough money to feed her kids that day. Awuor, who is named in the lawsuit, says she had saved $12 and hoped to go to a lower-cost clinic but was turned away and sent to Pumwani. After giving birth, she couldn’t pay the $60 bill, and was held with what she believes was about 60 other women and their infants. “We were sleeping three to a bed, sometimes four,” she said. “They abuse you, they call you names,” she said of the hospital staff. She said saw some women tried to flee but they were beaten by the guards and turned back. While her husband worked at a faraway refugee camp, Awuor’s 9-year-old daughter took care of her siblings. A friend helped feed them, she said, while the children stayed in the family’s 50-square-foot shack, where rent is $18 a month. She says she was released after 20 days, after Nairobi’s mayor paid her bill. Politicians in Kenya in general are expected to give out money and get a budget to do so. A second mother named in the lawsuit, Margaret Anyoso, says she was locked up in the hospital for six days in 2010 because she could not pay her $160 bill. Her pregnancy was complicated by a punctured bladder and heavy bleeding. “I did not see my child until the sixth day after the surgery. The hospital staff were keeping her away from me and it was only when I caused a scene that they brought her to me,” said Anyoso, a vegetable seller and a single mother with five children who makes $5 on a good day. Anyoso said she didn’t have clothes for her child so she wrapped her in a blood-stained blouse. She was released after relatives paid the bill. One woman says she was detained for nine months and was released only after going on a hunger strike. The Center for Reproductive Rights says other hospitals also detain non-paying patients. Judy Okal, the acting Africa director for the Center for Reproductive Rights, said her group filed the lawsuit so all Kenyan women, regardless of socio-economic status, are able to receive health care without fear of imprisonment. The hospital, the attorney general, the City Council of Nairobi and two government ministries are named in the suit.

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