Title: Reform life

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Mi no mi fass but mi kinda lass ya now.
Up until a yr and a half ago no one in di party family didn’t know this man was capable of being loyal.
Couple months ago it was mas Glama. And now every minute him a fling up dem pic ya like him in new found love. Di sad part about this is all a him gal dem deh pon him Fb a see it.kaydan,veachy,Glama and serene plus jeneka. My question is this. A try him a try meck dem jealous? Or a di repayment dis him affi meckk fi all a di bunn weh him dash out? Mi seh from di fat boy get suck off Burgs quat and tunn lickel puppy dag unda Tracey. Burgs you future secure she nah go no weh. You can stop di acting and di reform performance now.

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My husband’s half sister is mine too!

Dear Taiwo,

My husband and I are in a dilemma, honestly a way out is not visible or should I say we are yet to get one. This is because the issue at hand is too evident to be ignored and my husband and I are so confused.
I am fortunate to be raised by both parents and we had a happy family and a good background. My parents were into business and we were really comfortable. Their marriage to us their children was a good and perfect one and my younger sister and I used to pray and wish we would eventually marry a man like my father. He was our stereotype of a good husband and the way he treated mum, none of us would ever believe that dad had extra marital affairs.
Tunde, my husband was not that lucky, he lost his father at a very tender age, he told me died in a motor accident when he was two years old while his elder brother was five. His mother raised the two of them alone. She refused to remarry despite pleas and advice from family and friends. His mother eventually had a relationship with a man friend of hers when both of them were away in school.
Adekunle, his elder brother travelled abroad for his Masters, and he was in the university too. He told me he never met the man, but that his mother always told them about him and sometimes when he helped out with their school fees and extras in the house.
According to my husband, the said man, (his mother’s secret friend) was instrumental to his going abroad for his Master’s degree too and that was where we met. When we both finished our studies, we stayed back and started working. It was easy for me because all my siblings did the same and Tunde’s brother too was there to help out as all of us were together in Britain.
According to him, during our stay in the United Kingdom, his mother informed both of them that she was pregnant for her male friend, but he said then that he wasn’t prepared for that type of commitment in their relationship. She never considered abortion as an option, so she kept the baby. As at that time, she had gone into business herself and she was doing well.
With the support of her children, she was able to give their kid sister a very good and sound education. The pregnancy and the birth of the baby girl actually put an end to his mother’s relationship with her friend, but because she is mature and comfortable, she was able to move on without a problem and according to her, the little baby was just what she needed at that time since her children were grown and away from home.
We got married in Britain and both parents attended our marriage and played their roles as our parents. There was nothing like animosity between my father and my mother –in-law and nobody would believe they had ever met themselves before our wedding and traditional introduction.
My husband and I came into the country few years back, because we felt it was high time we did. You won’t believe that my father loved my husband so much that he encouraged him go into his business and he actually helped him to grow it. Both our parents have had cause to meet each other several times during family celebrations, but we had no cause to suspect they were keeping anything from us.
To the glory of God, the little girl has finished her studies, done her NYSC and even travelled to the US for her Master’s degree. She is back home and wants to get
married. You won’t believe the shock my husband received when his mother told him who his little sister’s father is.
I also found it difficult to believe when he told me that my father is his sister’s father. This is shocking, strange and annoying. According to my mother-in-law, she wouldn’t have raised this because she already knew what peoples reaction would be, but his sister insisted on knowing who her father is or was. Even if he was no longer living, she deserved to know.
She told him and felt there was no need keeping it a secret any longer from us since she had already told his sister. The problem now is, I don’t even know what she expected from me. I also don’t know what to do? Should I ask my father? How would my mother take it? Then, what would happen if my sister-in-law insists that her father should be visible in her wedding ceremony?
I am sure you would ask if we didn’t guess by her surname. She had always bore my mother-in-law’s maiden name. I don’t even know what my husband’s thinking is or how he feels about my father now. The worst thing is that he is not talking. Please, Taiwo, how does one handle a situation like this? I am happily married with two children. My husband and I love each other; I don’t want this situation or anything to destroy my home, kindly help out with your counsel.
Anonymous.

Crystal Harrison, Staff Reporter

After another week of much suspense, the DNA result for April’s winners is in. The story dubbed ”Hin Cyaan Breed Nobody’, was last month’s top story and THE STAR revealed the result to the winning former couple yesterday.

It was an elated Grace Mitchellwho accepted word that her seven-year-old daughter doesn’t belong to Bob Junior.

Mitchell, 33, said she now has proof to show the world that she was right all along and her child has the correct father.

“I feel relieved, thank you Jesus. I am so happy I did this test, and I can finally move on with my life in one piece, thank you Jesus,” Mitchell a store operator from Clarendon told THE STAR.

Meanwhile, it was a disappointed Bob Junior, 36, who gracefully thanked THE STAR for the opportunity to do a free DNA test, but not before expressing his unhappiness with the negative finding.

“Mi kinda feel a way still enuh because mi did think that the child is mine because everybody tell me dat di child look like me,” Junior said.

In March, Mitchell contended that her former lover was fighting a losing battle in believing that he was her child’s father.

“I got pregnant when I was in high school and he (Junior) was di guy on di side. Him can’t breed nobody, is just because people a trouble him seh him a fire blank why him a seh di child belongs to him,” Mitchell told THE STAR in March.

However, Junior had expressed to THE STAR that there was a gut feeling that he was in fact the child’s father.

strong feeling

Junior said: As I said, she was the one who told me that the child is mine, and I have a strong feeling that di child is mine because she (the child), has my face and my dimples.

Mitchell said: Him pick mi up one day after school and we went by his father’s house and we had sex only one time. I had to hide in di closest at his father’s house, so that nobody would find out that I was there, and that was it.

Mitchell said: I am 165 per cent sure that the child is not for Junior because about nine months after mi sleep with him that mi did find out that I was pregnant. The baby is for my boyfriend at the time. The child is not Junior’s.

Junior said: We had sex twice and mi coulda feel seh mi get her pregnant. I had that very strong feeling that mi did get her pregnant.

The negative DNA result, Mitchell told THE STAR, has turned out to be a positive for her current relationship.

Mitchell said: Dis issue was a big issue for me, and my partner don’t like him and his family. He was very adamant that my daughter was his and di only ting him eva give her is a bag juice and cheese trix. Him did a cross him fingers and toes fi di test come back positive, but him can’t get nobody pregnant. Me a go spread di news because he has a sister who is mischievous.

When asked if he believes that he can impregnate a woman, Junior shot down Mitchell’s claim.

Junior said: Dat a lie still, as mi seh, mi feel away about di result, but mi nah go hate her or the child.

Junior also confided in THE STAR that he will be making attempts to impregnate his current woman.

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