Not Merely Academics

The study of godly sexual behavior is not just an academic endeavor. There are few things that influence people as powerfully as the sexual drive, so it is no wonder that Satan uses it to destroy lives and negatively influence society. Sexual attraction has profoundly influenced the course of mankind, and both history and the Bible testify to this. The book of Genesis alone has many examples. Both Abraham and Isaac were afraid that they would be killed by men who wanted their beautiful wives (Gen. 12:10-20; 20:1-17; 26:7-11). Jacob was so attracted to Rachel that he served her father Laban for 14 years so he could marry her (Gen. 29:15-30). Shechem the Hivite so desired Jacob’s daughter Dinah that he talked his entire tribe into being circumcised just so he could marry her (Gen. 34:1-29). Reuben, Jacob’s oldest son, lusted after his father’s wife, and his adultery cost him his birthright (Gen. 35:22; 49:4). Joseph spent years in Pharaoh’s dungeon because a powerful woman framed him when he would not give in to her sexual advances (Gen. 39:6b-20).

The rest of the Bible and history confirm these accounts. The records of Samson and Delilah and David and Bathsheba are well known, but an intriguing and less known incident of sexual attraction is recorded in the book of Numbers. The king of Moab, an enemy of Israel, hired Balaam the prophet to curse Israel and thus destroy them. When that failed, Balaam advised the Moabites to use the lure of the sex that was a part of the Moabite worship to turn the men of Israel away from God (Num. 31:8 and 16). The tactic was successful, and “the men began to indulge in sexual immorality with Moabite women who invited them to the sacrifices to their gods” (Num. 25:1 and 2). Balaam’s strategy worked because people can be easily led away from God by sexual attraction, which can blind the eyes and blur the mind. Just as sexual attraction can lead a person away from God, it can also influence people to be godly, but godliness is achieved when the sexual drive is restrained and channeled by the force of the will to follow godly standards of behavior. Historically, sexual attraction more often than not has led to ungodliness. Understanding the powerful forces involved in the sex drive and determining what is and what is not godly behavior can be a source of blessing both to an individual and to society.

Scripture is clear that God created two different sexes: “male and female” (Gen. 1:27; 5:2; Matt. 19:4). What Scripture states, and a quick look at the difference between the male and female body substantiates, medical science is confirming more and more: there is an intrinsic difference between men and women that is much more than “skin deep.” Some people today want to “deconstruct” the traditional gender identities of male and female, saying that mankind is really “gender neutral.” These people claim that any relation or role that either man or woman feels like fulfilling is fine, because the traditional roles were established only through social evolution anyway. That is not true, and efforts to “reconstruct” men and women to be gender neutral will eventually fail. Attempts to show that the historic concept of male and female is nothing more than “social programming” demonstrate a blindness to biological and psychological facts and are fundamentally in rebellion against God and His created order. Mankind is not the product of physical and social evolution, but was created in God’s image for a magnificent purpose. [1]

There are people who resent Christian morals and claim they are “narrow-minded” and “religiously based,” but that argument is valid only if Christianity is a false religion. If there is a God, and if the Bible is true, then Christian morals are grounded in reality and should be adhered to in order to live healthy and fulfilling lives. There is not a shred of evidence that a “sexually free” society is more “advanced” or more “liberated” than a sexually disciplined one. Instead, the Bible warns, and history teaches, that a sexually immoral society will be one in which people are hurt and hurting. The bonds formed in sex are real, and “breakups” hurt and leave scars. Often, envy, jealousy and violence accompany “sexual freedom.” As we already said, God designed men and women differently, and what each considers “romantic,” and their approach to sex in general, differs considerably. Marriage counselors generally testify that sex and money are the two issues that couples disagree about the most. Some would add communication, but that, for the woman, is usually bundled up in the “love and relationship” category. [2]

For a man to really love a woman the way she needs to be loved requires selfless giving, because her needs are different than his. It is by this selfless giving that both the man and the woman become more like Christ. It is easy to see why “free sex” will never make a great society. For example, a woman having sex with a man before marriage will not help him to become like Christ, because a man offered sex without commitment will not need to discipline himself to godly principles. He will not get to the point where he considers the woman’s needs above his own sexual desires, and thousands of years of prostitutes and harems proves this very well. [3] Thus the woman, who needs a romantic context that includes communication and the feeling of being special, will never receive what she needs from the man and will remain unfulfilled. The “sexually free” lifestyle, while it may sound good to some, is doomed to fail. Men become more selfishly focused on what pleases them, and women, not getting the genuine love God designed them to receive, are then unfulfilled and often become hardhearted. [4]

Just as unrestrained sexual lust can ruin a life, so it can ruin a society. It is available to have a nation that is safe and secure, in which people are well-mannered, kind and helpful. A country can also get to the point that life is dangerous, where the “law of the jungle” is the rule and “every man is for himself.” The availability of sex without commitment hardens both men and women, and the Bible warns against it: “Do not degrade your daughter by making her a prostitute, or the land will turn to prostitution and be filled with wickedness” (Lev. 19:29). This warning certainly flies in the face of the argument that the availability of sex is somehow related to a mature society, an argument advanced by social liberals. But what Leviticus says can be clearly understood: in an environment of sex without commitment, men never learn to be giving and godly. Instead they see women as objects of their selfish desire. This, of course, leads to men not respecting women. Is this not the case today? We are living in a society where “sexual freedom” abounds. Are men more well-mannered than they were a generation ago? No, and thus we see that Leviticus is correct; there is more wickedness in a sexually free society. [5] It is axiomatic that the more immoral a society, the more difficult it is for an individual to be moral. Therefore, the wise person not only disciplines himself or herself sexually, but speaks up for godly rules and regulations in society.

Just as human beings are inherently sexual, they are also inherently spiritual. There is much more to us than just “flesh and electric impulses,” even if it cannot be examined under a microscope. In Scripture, God chooses to describe spiritual unfaithfulness to Him in sexual terms, such as “adultery,” “playing the harlot,” etc. Such language indicates the spiritual aspect of sex. One of the primary functions of sex is to illustrate the oneness that God intended for each of His people to have with Him, a oneness based upon our free will decisions to relinquish our right to ourselves and vulnerably open our hearts in giving worship to Him and receiving all He wants to give us. As Haffner observes:

Sex is a picture of worship that carries spiritual impact, but when it is reduced to a prosaic sport between consenting players for ego gratification and sensual pleasure, something more than archaic religious edict has been violated. Not having sex is not just maintaining moral purity for the sake of self-righteousness, and having sex is not just chipping notches on your bedpost to show how great a lover you are. Rather, sexual intercourse opens the way through an invisible, mystical veil into the spiritual realm. Within the covenantal shroud of marriage, a spirit of bonding entwines the participants and tightens the joy and depth and, yes, the feelings of belonging, and of knowing and being known, satisfying one of the greatest urges of our innermost being. [6]

The Bible says that when a man and woman have sexual intercourse, the two of them become “one flesh.” This is a spiritual reality that goes much deeper than the physical realm, and the Bible calls it “a profound mystery” (Eph. 5:32). Scripture clearly teaches that it is the act of sexual intercourse that makes a man and woman one flesh:

1 Corinthians 6:16
Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.”

When a man visits a prostitute, neither one of them is looking for a relationship. They are both acting from purely selfish motives. Yet in spite of that, the spiritual reality is that they still become “one flesh.” [7] It is folly to deny that sex has a spiritual side to it. That spiritual element is one reason why obedience to God in sexual matters produces blessings, and why disobedience to Him can produce such bondage and suffering. Every Christian should want to obey God and receive the personal blessings that obedience brings.

While unbelievers will continue to seek to gratify “the cravings of [the] sinful nature and [follow] its desires and thoughts” (Eph. 2:3), Christians should have a different lifestyle, characterized by self control and concern for the spiritual growth of others.

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Hearing: 876-SCAM: Jamaican Phone Fraud Targeting Seniors
March 13, 2013
Special Committee on Aging
United States Senate
113th Congress, 1st Session

Wednesday, March 13, 2013 2:00pm
Dirksen Room 562
Hearing: 876-SCAM: Jamaican Phone Fraud Targeting Seniors
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Don’t Let Nigerian Scams
Skin You Alive.

Nigerian Scams are this under developed West African country’s third largest export industry so don’t count on them being shut down any time soon.

Also called 419 scams (referring to article 419 of the Nigerian Criminal Code) they rip off naive internet users to the tune of tens of millions of dollars each year.

The biggest victim was Nelson Tetsuo Sakaguchi, a senior director of Brazilian bank Banco Noroeste S.A. of Sao Paulo who embezzled $242 million between 1995 and 1998 in the 3rd biggest scam in banking history.

The bank went bust. $170 million was eventually recovered after fleets of luxury cars and mansions in Nigeria, Switzerland, and the U.S.A. were seized.

Nigerian Scams And Organized Crime.

Research by Aunshul Rege of Rutgers University, USA in 2009 described in detail how well organized Nigerian Scams function:

Young members with computer skills and speed are recruited from the many cyber cafes.

“Organizers” are put to work constructing fake profiles using phony pictures (e.g. from modeling web sites) and fake documents (some provided by dishonest government officials).

Some of these (often college graduates) work composing romantic letters and mapping out online courtships while others acquire e-mail lists for bulk mailing.

Tech savvy hackers are used to steal credit card details and carry out Identity Fraud.

“Cross-overs” (who hold legitimate government and financial positions) also assist criminal networks with fake letterheads, documents, money orders, stamps, seals, id, etc.

“Communicators” establish contact with the targeted “Mugu” (meaning “fool”, sometimes on genuine dating web sites and sometimes using Identity Theft to open accounts on these sites.

“Executors” who can speak foreign languages then go to work scamming unsuspecting victims via email and phone using their communication skills.

Trained Psychologists are sometimes hired to help coach Executors in how to handle difficult “Mugu” (fools or victims).

“Enforcers” are entrusted to coerce or extort victims to pay up, and to protect the organization should aggrieved victims show up trying to reclaim lost money.

“Money Movers” finally facilitate the flow of scammed monies around the globe.

Scammers work 6-8 hour shifts around the clock.
Statistics And Facts On Nigerian Scams.

Experienced scammers expect a “strike rate” of 1 or 2 replies per 1,000 messages emailed; they expect to land 2 or 3 “Mugu” (fools) each week.

One scammer boasted “When you get a reply it’s 70% sure you’ll get the money”.

Some scam members are as young as six years of age.

Nigerian Scams are the country’s 3rd largest export earner and have defrauded millions of victims.

The internet cafes of Lagos (population 14 million) in Nigeria are the hub of Nigerian Scams.

Scammers aim to earn at least $1,000-$2,000 per month. Some earn thousands per week. The average wage in Nigeria is $1 per day.

Some dating web sites screen new applicants and try to filter out scammers. Australia’s Cupid Media rejects up to 3,000 (around 20%) of the 15,000 new profiles it gets daily, especially from specific countries like Nigeria.

Nigerian Romance Scams target men and women in equal numbers.

Stolen credit cards are often used to buy and send flowers and gifts when courting victims.

Scammers are patient and expect to spend 6-8 months “courting” victims.
The Harm Caused By Nigerian Scams.

1. Scam Victim’s Monetary Losses

…some of the bigger ones include:

1992-1994… American business man from San Diego duped out of $5.2 million dollars.

1995-1998… $242 million scammed from a director of Brazil’s Banco Noroeste S.A. of Sao Paulo. This scam also resulted in two murders

2008… American woman from Oregon cheated out of $400,000 in an inheritance scam.

2009… Australian woman loses $600,000 in a romance scam.

A number of these unfortunate victims end up bankrupt.

2. Scam Victims Commit Suicide.

2003… an English senior technician sets himself alight and dies of his burns.

2006… an American hangs himself in South Africa.

2007… a Chinese student in an English university commits suicide after a lottery scam.

3. Scam Victims Kidnapped.

Some desperate victims have attempted to recover their losses by actually traveling to Nigeria (not a good idea) to track down the scammers… with disastrous consequences.

1996… a Swedish business man is kidnapped and $500,000 is demanded for his release.

1999… a Romanian man suffers the same fate and the same $500,000 ransom is demanded.
2008… a Japanese business man is kidnapped and $5 million ransom demanded from his family.

4. Scam Victims Murdered.

1994-1997… scammers are believed to have murdered at least 15 victims of various nationalities during this time.

1999… Norwegian business man is murdered in South Africa in a scam gone wrong.

2004… a 29 year old Greek man is murdered in South Africa after his family refuses to pay a ransom. (ref:Wikipedia)

Brooklyn riot over teen’s death: 16-year-old shot by cops did not have a gun, says witness
Tishana King says she saw the whole incident from a bird’s eye view in her Brooklyn apartment. She says she’s ‘certain’ slain Kimani (Kiki) Gray ‘didn’t having anything in his hands.’

BY ROCCO PARASCANDOLA AND JOHN MARZULLI / NEW YORK DAILY NEWS

PUBLISHED: WEDNESDAY, MARCH 13, 2013, 12:38 AM

TODD MAISEL/NEW YORK DAILY NEWS

Tishana King says she witnessed the shooting of Kimani Gray, 16, Sunday from her window and she says she saw no gun.
A Brooklyn woman who claims she had a “bird’s-eye view” of the fatal police shooting of 16-year-old Kimani (Kiki) Gray says the youth did not have a gun in his hand.

Tishana King is the only civilian eyewitness to come forward, and her account sharply differs from Police Commissioner Raymond Kelly’s assertion that Gray had pointed a .38-caliber revolver at the cops before they opened fire. “I’m certain he didn’t have anything in his hands,” King told the Daily News.

Moments after the Saturday shooting, one cop put both hands on his head and said, “ ‘Oh, God!’ ” King recalled. “His partner went over to him and put his hand on his shoulder and said, ‘Are you okay, buddy?’ ”

King, 39, a medical records clerk at Kings County Hospital, said she gave a tape-recorded interview to detectives several hours after the shooting. The detectives were aware her 14-year-old son dialed 911 from their apartment after the gunfire. But King, in her nearly eight-minute interview with NYPD investigators at 3 a.m. on Sunday, never said a word about whether Gray was carrying a gun.

Kimani Gray, 16, was shot and killed by police on Sunday. Cops claim Gray had pointed a .38-caliber revolver before he was fired on.

“I couldn’t see what the kids were doing,” she said during the session. The News reviewed the tape of the Q&A conducted in her apartment after the fatal shooting.

Detectives and Internal Affairs Bureau investigators never asked directly if King saw Gray with a gun, and a police source said NYPD policy precludes asking such leading questions.

“They’re just asked to say what happened in as much detail as they can remember,” the source said.

A loaded .38-caliber Rohm’s Industry revolver was recovered from the Brooklyn scene where Kimani Gray was killed. Cops claim Gray pointed the revolver at them, though a witness says the teen was unarmed.

A police spokesman said that when King was asked what she saw by detectives, she told them she couldn’t see what the boys were doing “from the angle I was at.”

But King told The News that, at first, the boys were under her window and that they moved into view when police got out of their car and approached them.

The NYPD has not released the names of the sergeant and cop who fired 11 shots. A police source said the pair initially reported to supervisors that the teen had pulled a gun — and a loaded weapon was recovered at the scene.

King told The News she was drawn to her third-floor East Flatbush window late Saturday night by the sound of loud laughing and talking outside on E. 52nd St.
She said she watched as a burgundy-colored sedan pulled up and a man jumped out of the passenger side, followed by the driver. King initially thought the duo intended to fight with the youths.RELATED: TEEN FATALLY SHOT BY POLICE IN BROOKLYN SATURDAY NIGHT
When the driver yelled, “Don’t move!” it clicked that they were cops, she said. “Kimani started backing up,” King said. “The cop took out his gun and started firing at Kimani.”
King said the area was illuminated by a streetlight and Gray appeared to be cornered by the cops. “His (Gray’s) hands were down,” she said. “I couldn’t believe he let off (fired) his gun. There was no reason. No false move.”
A police source said King never told detectives that Gray was backing up with his hands down.
Kelly said an “earwitness” heard a cop yell, “What do you have in your hands?” but a source said the man was too far away to see the confrontation. The shooting appeared to be within NYPD guidelines, he added.
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NAIROBI — AFRICA must shake off its romantic view of China and accept Beijing is a competitor as much as a partner and capable of the same exploitative practices as the old colonial powers, Nigerian central bank governor Lamido Sanusi has warned.

Reflecting the shifting views of a growing number of senior African officials who fear the continent’s anaemic industrial sector is being battered by cheap Chinese imports, Mr Sanusi cautions that Africa is “opening itself up to a new form of imperialism”.

“China takes from us primary goods and sells us manufactured ones. This was also the essence of colonialism,” he writes in the Financial Times. His remarks are among the most trenchant by a serving African official about the continent’s ties with the world’s second-largest economy.

Trade between China and Africa was worth more than $200bn last year, 20 times what it was in 2000 when Beijing committed to a policy of accelerated engagement.

It has been a period of growth, partly thanks to Asian demand for African resources.

But a boom in commodities, services and consumer spending has coincided with the relative decline of African manufacturing from 12.8% to 10.5% of regional gross domestic product, according to United Nations figures.

African leaders and the African Development Bank have recently urged governments to work with each other to ensure they maximise benefits from relations with their leading trade partner, but they have traditionally cloaked their concerns in emollient diplomatic language.

In contrast Mr Sanusi has thrown down the gauntlet to Beijing. “China is no longer a ‘fellow underdeveloped economy’,” he writes.

“China is the second-biggest economy in the world, an economic giant capable of the same forms of exploitation as the west. China is a major contributor to the deindustrialisation of Africa and thus African underdevelopment.”

An experienced private sector banker, Mr Sanusi is credited with cleaning up Nigeria’s banking system after a crash that wiped out 60% of bank capital in 2009. He has also given Nigeria’s central bank a more activist role. In his article, Mr Sanusi argues that African countries must respond to “predatory” trade practices — such as subsidies and currency manipulation — that give Chinese exports an advantage.

He also says the continent must build infrastructure and invest in education. “Africa must seize the moment and move manufacturing of goods consumed in Africa out of China to the African continent … I cannot recommend a divorce. However, a review of the exploitative elements in this marital contract is long overdue.”

His comments come ahead of South Africa hosting a summit of Brics (Brazil, Russia, India, China and South Africa) nations next week. South Africa, the largest economy in sub-Saharan Africa, was incorporated into the bloc of Brazil, Russia, India and China last year.

President Jacob Zuma last week told western companies to stop warning against the embrace of China. “China is doing business in a particular way and we think we can see the benefits,” he said. “But we are very, very careful,” he added, citing Africa’s experience of colonialism.

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