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I TOOK THIS FROM THE GLEANER

Edward R Johnson
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This “gay” thing. Pre-disposition and pre-deliction genetically is not pre-determination. We are more spiritual/ cultural -if you wish than material – physical. The mind overcomes the body. Homosexuality is not the norm of nature. Heterosexuality is. But aberrations do occur in nature. We correct them, try to help them – those who are dysfunctional like the mentally challenged, recognize their weaknesses and what strength they may have. They do not teach. Have these homo persons the emotional intelligence to counsel and teach the young children in our schools. Problems are said to be there. One does not really laud the weakness. In the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah, because it was the place for homosexuals, over time the population declined and there were not enough people there to keep the place in order and the walls came tumbling down due to disrepair. We need to think on these things quite carefully.

Lesbians Legally Wed
Published: Monday | June 4, 2012 54 Comments

Nicole Dennis-Benn (left) and Dr Emma Benn jump the broom during their re-enacted wedding ceremony at Silver Sands in Duncans Trelawny on May 26. Looking on are close friends and family of the couple. – Contributed
An American couple who tied the knot on Jamaican shores last month has documented their experience getting married in a country whose laws have long been antagonistic to same-sex unions.

But, what took place at Silver Sands in Duncans, Trelawny, was just a re-enactment of the actual wedding which took place in Brooklyn, New York weeks earlier.

“All the paperwork was done here (in the United States). We know Jamaican laws do not support gay marriage, so we had all the legal matters settled before we came to Jamaica,” Nicole Dennis-Benn, who made sure her name in the marriage was made clear, told The Gleaner from the US yesterday.

Dennis-Benn, who grew up in Jamaica, said she wanted to share the experience with her family and friends who could not make it to the US for the actual wedding.

The couple’s loved ones were all open to the wedding, except for both their mothers who did not show up.

“Our mothers accepted the relationship, but they said they could not deal with the wedding part of it,” Dennis-Benn said.

Their story, which captured the couple’s “blissful” moment on the Jamaican north coast two Saturdays ago, has been documented under the heading ‘Revolutionary Love by Nicole Y. Dennis-Benn’ on her Internet blog.

The article gave a flattering description of the scenery at the venue where Nicole Dennis and her partner, Dr Emma Benn, a US native, dared the unthinkable on Jamaican shores.

Dennis-Benn, 30, grew up in Vineyard Town and left Jamaica for college after completing her studies at a prominent high school in Kingston. It was during her final years in high school that she acknowledged herself as a lesbian.

“I found out in fourth form. When I was coming out, I wondered, ‘What the hell?’ because I know I couldn’t stay in Jamaica and be who I wanted to. I felt I was the only lesbian in Jamaica at the time and I grew up in a Christian home. I knew that most Jamaicans were Christian,” she said.

But, despite what some might think, it was not homophobia that mostly fuelled her desire to move to the US, she told The Gleaner.

Classism issues

“It was for a lot of things, but mainly because of the classism. I grew up in Vineyard Town and when I went to (high school), I experienced real classism.”

She left Jamaica for studies at Cornell University in New York City. Dennis-Benn, who has her master’s degree in creative writing, met Benn while working at Columbia University. The two tied the knot on April 6 before coming to Jamaica to relive the moment a little over a month later.

In her blog, the career writer recalled the moment before the couple dared the unthinkable on Jamaican shores.

“My partner joins me in the water and for the next hour, we swim and mingled with our guests who have also been baked and rejuvenated by the sun. ‘You ready?’ my partner whispers, swimming up behind me to encircle her arms around my waist. ‘Yeah, I’m ready.’ We smile at each other, aware in that moment that we’re about to do something big, bigger than us.

The Jamaican native shared that it was her partner who helped her rekindle her love affair with the island after living a refugee life for many years.

“In my vows, I mentioned that because of my partner, I fell in love with my country again. For a long time, I ran away from Jamaica, seeking refuge in the freedom that America offered. However, when I met Emma, she was adamant about visiting Jamaica,” Dennis-Benn said in her blog. ‘Why not?’ she asked when I turned her down a few times. I couldn’t tell her then how much I was hurt by the culture, stifled by the seemingly robust structures of colonialism.
“However, when Emma and I finally returned to the island for our first visit as a couple in 2010, something felt different. At the time, I couldn’t place what it was. There were no words to describe it since my brain had not yet processed it. I felt beautiful, stronger, empowered.”

She said her acceptance of self was part of the reason she decided to have her wedding in Jamaica. However, her decision was strongly criticised by friends in America who claimed to know about Jamaica’s anti-gay culture.

“My friends began to question my sanity once I told them that I’ll be getting married in Jamaica, a country known internationally for its blatant homophobia. ‘Weh di backside yuh mean yuh getting married in Jamaica?'” she further recalled in the blog.

“I had to reassure them that everything would be fine, simultaneously trying to convince myself too. I would constantly ask myself if I’m doing the right thing,” she wrote.

No venue

With that decision out of the way, it now became an uphill task for the couple to find a venue in Jamaica that would be accommodating to their lifestyle.

“My partner and I took turns calling resorts in Kingston, the south coast, and the north coast … . We clutched the receiver with sweaty palms as we prepared to come out as lesbians over and over again. ‘Yes, hello, we would like to inquire about hosting our wedding at your hotel. What’s the estimated cost for space? Great! Just one more thing you need to know … my partner is a woman. Yes, that’s what I said. A woman. Oh. OK. Uh-huh. I understand. Thanks for your time’,” read the blog.

Next stop was at Villa where the two ended up saying “I do”.

“I felt like I’d emerged from a dark tunnel, greeted by her radiating light. My father walked me down the aisle while my partner walked down the aisle with her aunt. We walked together as a couple paired with the most significant people in our lives to Whitney Houston’s My Love is Your Love, she said of her experience.

To read Nicole Dennis-Benn’s blog log on to http://ruminations-of-a-brooklyn-soul.blogspot.com/2012/06/revolutionary-love-by-nicole-y-dennis.html.

Higgler hid scam money in underwear, court hears
BY TANESHA MUNDLE
Monday, June 04, 2012

A higgler who is said to be involved in the multimillion dollar lottery scam was offered $250,000 bail when he appeared in the Corporate Area Resident Magistrate’s Court Thursday.
The accused, Gary Nembhard of Havendale, St Andrew, was charged last Monday after he was caught coming into the island from Trinidad with US$9,500 in his underwear and US$17,000 in an envelope.
Investigators, who have been watching Nembhard for almost a year, said that he was sent to Trinidad to pick up the money, which was sent there by a 75-year-old United States citizen who was informed that she had won US$3.5 million in the lottery.
It was further reported that the complainant was told that she should send US$28,000 to Trinidad for taxes and other charges.
Nembhard was charged with money laundering, conspiracy to defraud, cross border movement of funds, bringing to Jamaica criminal property, and conspiracy.

Read more: http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/news/Higgler-hid-scam-money-in-underwear–court-hears#ixzz1wt1IHv3S

A 27-year-old man on Tuesday morning revealed in a Lusaka Court that his wife has been charging him $140 per sexual encounter as risk allowance because he is HIV positive and she’s not.

James Kasunka of John Howard, a compound south of Lusaka revealed this in a case in which he was sued for divorce by his wife Sela Temba, 24 before Senior Court Magistrate Hilda Choonya.
The court heard that the duo got married in 2005 and has 2 children together. Kasunka objected to the divorce application. Kasunka narrated that since he tested positive to the virus that causes AIDS in 2010, his wife has been giving him a hard time especially in the bedroom.
“Initially, she used to allow me to sleep with her using a condom. But with time, she started refusing. When I asked why, she was saying that it was too risk sleeping with me with or without a condom.
“She then asked that if I wanted to sleep with her, I should be ready to pay her K750,000 per encounter. This money, according to her is risk allowance,” said Kasunka.

Kasunka told the court that because of his strong sexual drive which is allegedly worsened by the ARVs he takes, he had been forced to have sex with Temba very often and has ended up in serious debt which she plans to deduct from his terminal benefits once the monies have been released.
“ I owe my wife not less K13 million Kwacha in sex allowance arrears. I wasn’t paying because I was retrenched when my health condition worsened. So, she told me that she will get her money when my terminal benefits are out,” said the soft spoken Kasunka.
But Kasunka told the court that he does not want to part ways with Temba because he still loves her.
Earlier, Temba had told the court that she wanted to divorce Kasunka because he was still maintaining a string of girl friends despite being HIV-postive. She said she found it difficult to care and love someone who neither cared nor loved their self.
“This man you are seeing here is HIV positive,” she told the court. “But he is a ‘I don’t care type’. He still has about 5 girl friends. He is re-infecting himself. All the money he was given for repatriations and leave days after he was retrenched, he spent it on prostitutes.”
And during cross examination, Temba acknowledged charging Kasunka K750, OOO per sexual encounter as risk allowance but was quick to justify the levy.
“Like I said earlier, this man has multiple partners. He has all types of HIVs because he keeps re-infecting himself. So, the idea to ask him to pay that amount was a way of keeping him off me and also to save money for me instead of squandering it on prostitutes,” she said.
But Temba told the court that she had never ever received any risk allowance from Kasunka because she was offering her services on credit but has no plans to demand payment.
And Temba maintained that she wanted to divorce Kasunka saying she was tired of his immoral behaviour. And although Kasunka offered to change for the better, Temba paid a deaf ear to his pleas for reconciliation.
Senior Court Magistrate Choonya however declined to dissolve the marriage saying she does not find pleasure in divorcing young couples. She asked Temba to think about the matter seriously and come back to court in two weeks time. of John Howard, a compound south of Lusaka revealed this in a case in which he was sued for divorce by his wife Sela Temba, 24 before Senior Court Magistrate Hilda Choonya.
The court heard that the duo got married in 2005 and has 2 children together. Kasunka objected to the divorce application. Kasunka narrated that since he tested positive to the virus that causes AIDS in 2010, his wife has been giving him a hard time especially in the bedroom.
“Initially, she used to allow me to sleep with her using a condom. But with time, she started refusing. When I asked why, she was saying that it was too risk sleeping with me with or without a condom.
“She then asked that if I wanted to sleep with her, I should be ready to pay her K750,000 per encounter. This money, according to her is risk allowance,” said Kasunka.

Kasunka told the court that because of his strong sexual drive which is allegedly worsened by the ARVs he takes, he had been forced to have sex with Temba very often and has ended up in serious debt which she plans to deduct from his terminal benefits once the monies have been released.
“ I owe my wife not less K13 million Kwacha in sex allowance arrears. I wasn’t paying because I was retrenched when my health condition worsened. So, she told me that she will get her money when my terminal benefits are out,” said the soft spoken Kasunka.
But Kasunka told the court that he does not want to part ways with Temba because he still loves her.
Earlier, Temba had told the court that she wanted to divorce Kasunka because he was still maintaining a string of girl friends despite being HIV-postive. She said she found it difficult to care and love someone who neither cared nor loved their self.
“This man you are seeing here is HIV positive,” she told the court. “But he is a ‘I don’t care type’. He still has about 5 girl friends. He is re-infecting himself. All the money he was given for repatriations and leave days after he was retrenched, he spent it on prostitutes.”
And during cross examination, Temba acknowledged charging Kasunka K750, OOO per sexual encounter as risk allowance but was quick to justify the levy.
“Like I said earlier, this man has multiple partners. He has all types of HIVs because he keeps re-infecting himself. So, the idea to ask him to pay that amount was a way of keeping him off me and also to save money for me instead of squandering it on prostitutes,” she said.
But Temba told the court that she had never ever received any risk allowance from Kasunka because she was offering her services on credit but has no plans to demand payment.
And Temba maintained that she wanted to divorce Kasunka saying she was tired of his immoral behaviour. And although Kasunka offered to change for the better, Temba paid a deaf ear to his pleas for reconciliation.
Senior Court Magistrate Choonya however declined to dissolve the marriage saying she does not find pleasure in divorcing young couples. She asked Temba to think about the matter seriously and come back to court in two weeks time.