I was browsing the internet for content as usual when I came upon this young man who is African and obviously openly bisexual.He seems to be living a life many Jamaican men are afraid of and I really wanted to know if there was a harder challenge being a gay Jamaican man opposed to being a gay African, spiritually they are opposed and it is against the law there to be gay. Asiayei, says he is the first male nudist in his country and has dreams of bringing peace there. I hope you enjoy this very different but interesting interview

Hi, what is your name?
Asiayei : My name is Asiayei Perekeye

What does it mean?
Asiayei: In English it means, a rich man, a wealthy man, that is what Perekeye means, Asiayei means someone who knows how to make things happen.

So, is that your real name or your stage name?
Asiayei: No it is my real name, my stage name is ”The Nude Master”.

When did you become the nude master?
Asiayei: I have been this way for about for years now

What made you want to pursue something like this?
Asiayei: Actually, I have three reasons why I been interested in going nude. One of which is, I am looking for fame, two because of the money and three I am actually looking for a way to tell the world about peace, to bring fourth peace in the world. Back home here in Nigeria people are doing so many evil things in secret you know what I mean.

No, I don’t know what you mean
Asiayei: (Laughs) I wouldn’t want to say. This is my way of telling them no matter what they do in secret. No matter how we think things are done in secret, someone is always watching. Just I am naked and everyone is watching and commenting like the things they are doing. So they should stop every pretense and be open. We should be open to each other which means if we are open with each other there would be love. Let me go on the evil deed I mentioned earlier this is a message to Africa and the world at large to stop the fighting. That is my message to Africa, and to Nigeria, we should stop the fighting and all these things because we are not better than who we fight with or criticize . What we need is love. I cannot come as a pastor openly and preach these things I just figured my own way out to express love , peace and freedom

What is freedom to you, freedom to Africa?
Asiayei: To me freedom is allowing the people to do what they want you don’t have to deprive them of their natural right from God. Their right is not from man it is from God.

What do you call their natural right, since you did not go into details?
Asiayei: There is a saying that goes ”when you try to burn, it cries out loud”, what I want to say is this, for instance we have gay men and gay women, we also have straight, I could go on and name as many as I can people tend to want to force them to do this and that which they don’t know how that thing came about. We are not the creator. Of course we know that we cant see God and cant ask God and its all about man and what they think, how are you sure that what you feel is what should be done. You are focusing on another man’s mind, how are you sure that is it not right? The only thing we can do is to act on our feelings forgetting the other man’s feelings. That should be my own way of explaining the natural right from God.

I read your facebook page and I saw where you commented to someone that you don’t really fall inlove, what made you unable to fall inlove ?

Asiayei: Actually, my own opinion on that is this:- Only one true love I know and that is Agape love, the love from God. Every other love I don’t believe in because it changes. To me , human love is temporary it doesn’t last forever.

I also notice on your profile that you are openly bisexual, how do you feel about being bisexual?
Asiayei: To me it is interesting, because you don’t have to be tied down by just one thing.In life the only thing constant is change. We tend, as human being to try different things to satisfy our lifestyle. I found satisfaction with this lifestyle.

At what age did you know that you are bisexual?
Asiayei: That would be around when I was twenty but actually,when I was thirteen and growing up I was admired by both sexes . I was admired in public places, parties, arena and when I go to clubs I never chose them, they chose me.

Ok, it is fair to say both sexes were attracted to you, but what about your attraction to them, are you attracted to both sexes?
Asiayei : Yes I am attracted to both sexes, men and women , they are both attractive to me physically actually I am not gay, I do women more. Because of my work I have a lot of gay men coming close to me I know they are human beings. It is something that God created so I keep them close to me and listen to their problems.

When you decided to be with men and women, who do you enjoy more or do you find pleasure in both?
Asiayei: I find pleasure in both, it depends on the mood.

What role do you play when you are with a man, are you top or bottom?
Asiayei: Top, strictly .

How do you find it in Nigeria, being as open as you are do you have any problems being like that?
Asiayei: Well, there are many many challenges, because it is not part of the country or a part of the culture . For me it is a little easier to be open with my activities , maybe because I am a model , I go naked, that gives me the courage to fight against it.

I am sure you have heard about Jamaica and how it is there-
Asiayei: Of course I have

What have you heard?
Asiayei: Jamaica a lot of males and females are afraid of coming out openly:- they are that or that, do you get what I mean? To me I don’t see them fighting because who you are you cant’t hide it forever, unless you are dead. So if I want to give advice to any Jamaican, shemale or……….. someone who is not comfortable with their attitudes or lifestyle or God given lifestyle I would say that for me I have checked myself and know this is me, nothing can change me I would advise them to come out openly and let the world know who they are because one you are an adult, two you are created by the same God that think they are higher or more better so you have the right to be courageous, love yourself and love God and forget about the rest.

I hear you mention God and say that God made this, but do you really believe that God made man with these types of feelings?

Asiayei: Yes I do, except those people who are into fetish things but from my own experience I would say yes I belive God made them, nobody makes anyone except God, he created everything.

But God said we are born in sin, we born after Adam and Eve were born in sin so now, if we are talking about the same God, our same God goes against men being with men now if you say people are born with these types of feelings, it would also be fair to say, there are men who are born rapists or born with the feeling to rape, you also have men who are born with the feeling to kill, men who are born with the feeling to kill . These people you do not have to teach them how to kill, teach them how to rape or lie , these are things inside of them, I would not say God made them a thief , a rapist or a murderer . So why would you say God made them to have these feelings?
Asiayei: Let me start by saying we cannot question God for one, God’s ways are far far from ours. Sometimes we should try to think about how these things came about, why is this happening and if you cannot come up with a resolvable answer… Of course we know that God can raise a man up to kill another man for someone else to succeed.

No, no no, I have to disagree with that

Asiayei: Okay, let me give you an example do you remember David, was he not God’s beloved?

Yes he was but God did not love him because he was a killer. God loved him because he was a righteous man, a honest man and a repentant man-
Asiayei: Yes but he committed many crimes-

Yes but he repented for the crimes-

TUNE IN TOMORROW TO FIND OUT ABOUT ASIAYEI’S GIRLFRIEND, HIS FAMILY AND HIS PLANS FOR THE FUTURE

April 30, 2012
Lanchester , United Kingdom
After over fifteen years in the business, the recent incident and escalation of the incident caused me to overeact instead of getting to the root of the issue. I feel the following release is needed to bring air to the matter in order to bring understanding and closure to the incident.
Mr. Wrenroy Smith, the promoter in question and I were unable to make sufficeful and satisfactory arrangements as the date he wanted me to work for him, April 7, 2012 was the date I was scheduled for another event, which was booked a year in advance. We spoke in December 2011 and I realized two days after talking to him that I had to do World Clash which I am scheduled to do every year. I did not want to put him out of his way and totally pull out of his event so I called Swatch, the sound that he scheduled to work also at the event and asked them if they would be able to play on April 6, 2012 which was the day before, because I would not be available for April 7th, Swatch said they were available, I proceeded to call Mr. Smith.
I proposed April 6,2012 with Mr. Smith on January 2, 2012 , being that he had contacted me on December 27th, 2011 and sent payment on December 29, 2011. He told me that the 6th of April would not be good as people had already booked plane tickets for his event. It was then I told him that I had to return his money as World Clash is in support of the music industry in its entirety and I was one of the main acts .

Mr Smith told me to hold onto the money and give it to Aidonia as he would be performing for him later on. I told him that was fine. He later called me back and told me that he did not go through with Aidonia, it was then I told him that I would be in Jamaica for my birthday and back travelling for other events and we would meet up and make or reschedule other arrangements concerning the money. To my knowledge an understanding was reached as we both agreed to meet or reschedule, whichever would suit him that was fine. This meeting did not take place nor did I get a chance to reschedule. The number I have for Mr. Smith which I can provide stopped working and I was unable to contact him. I have been travelling since December and have been to Canada,Jamaica, the United States and presently I am in the United Kingdom.

A few days before the World Clash, my manager told me that a promoter had called him, telling him that I owed him money, I was abroad and advised my manager to prepare the money for return to Mr. Smith at World Clash as we were expecting him. Mr. Smith was not present at the event and as I mentioned before, the contact I had for him was out of service.
With over fifteen years under my belt in the industry I would never try to bring disdain to my name by being dishonest or disrespect a promoter, the later not done unless there was reasonable grounds. Mr. Smith has said that he wants to make an example of me by presenting the public with statements that contain half truths. I would like to refute the following:-
I at no time deleted Mr. Smith from my blackberry device, my phone is used internationally and sometimes I change the chip from my phone for service in a certain country, not all my contacts are stored on my phone, some of them are stored on my chip so it is likely Mr. Smith contacted me during one of those times. I am still switching phones because I am still travelling .
Mr. Smith told my management that he would be attending World Clash and did not attend, I in no way tried to get out of not refunding him for services I did not do.
The statement that Mr. Smith made about the event being for charity, I feel was said to deminish my person. A charity event , if held annually , had gone on before without me so it is unlikely that my inattendance would cause Mr. Smith to cancel an event he seemingly had every year.
I returned to Jamaica on April 6, 2012 , my phone was switched off as I left the island two days later for over five cities in the United states, two in Canada and presently I am in the U.K I did not restore my phone service because I was busy getting music for World Clash and I knew I would not be in Jamaica for long.
If Mr. Smith leaves the appropriate contact and not only his name my management will refund his money, to date I still do not have a working phone number for him.

In closing I would like to apologise to my fans worldwide . An incident of this magnitude has never occured in the history of my professional career and will not happen again.

PART 2: Husband Speaks Out – Man Accuses Wife of Sleeping with His Father, Kills Son & Burns Her with Iron1 Comment
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Henry Nnadi, the 38- year-old dry cleaner that killed his 1-year-old son, Ebuka, and burnt his wife, Mercy,36, with hot iron for allegedly sleeping with his 65-year-old father, has finally spoken on the circumstances that led to his beastly act from the confines of his prison cell at Kirikiri, Lagos.

Man Accuses Wife of Sleeping with His Father – Kills Son, Burns Her with Hot Iron & Peels off her Skin
Looking remorseless over the pains he inflicted on his wife of two years, the fair-skinned Henry only showed regrets when the issue of his dead son came up. “That was the worst thing I have ever done in my entire life. When he woke up crying for milk, I looked at him in anger and a voice came saying kill him, he is not your son. In obedience to that voice, I hit him hard on the neck several times.”

Insisting that he was unsure of the paternity of the boy, Henry gave vivid details of what transpired on the fateful Saturday, April 7, 2012. Excerpts:

“I am sure of what I am talking about. My wife, Mercy has been sleeping with my father. Before the incident, I have cautioned her to stop going to my father’s house because I suspected their moves . But she wouldn’t listen. Then one day, when she was about going out, I told her not to leave the house but she disobeyed me and went out. I waited for a while before going straight to my father’s place which is not far from where I live .

And to confirm my claim, immediately I arrived there, I knocked and my father opened the door with a towel round his waist. As I made to go in, he prevented me by blocking the entrance with his hand. I do not know how my wife managed to escape . But after waiting for a while, I left and immediately I got home, my wife had reached the house, I laughed and went to smoke to cool my temper. I was keeping all that in mind until that Saturday night.

“As I was ironing my customer’s clothes, I looked at my wife where she was sleeping on the bed and anger surged inside of me. I then heard a voice instructing me to go and ask her why she was sleeping with my father. By then, the iron was very hot and I thought I could use that to scare her.”

Burning her with the hot iron

I woke her up and asked her to tell me the truth on how many times she had slept with my father. But she refused to talk. Then the voice came to me again to place the hot iron on her and I did. As I was placing it, she told me she had slept with my father three times.

Immediately she mentioned it, I lost my cool and placed it harder on her out of anger. At that point, the child cried, wanting to suck breast. I looked at him wondering if I was actually his father. I thought to myself that it could be possible my father was responsible for the pregnancy that resulted in his birth.

How I killed my son

At this point the suspect kept quiet, bowed his head, shaking it intermittently in self pity. And when he raised his head, his eyes were filled with tears. Thereafter, he rested his chin on his palm and looked at the sky, muttering. After a long pause, this reporter asked him if he actually killed his son.

In reply, he said, “ that is the worst thing I have ever done in my entire life. When Ebuka woke up from sleep that night, crying for breast milk as he always did, I looked at him in anger and the voice came again saying , ‘kill him, he is not your son!’. In obedience to the voice, I hit him hard in the neck several times.”

Asked to described exactly how he did it, he raised his right hand like a boxer, hitting it severally on his left arm, causing this reporter to move backward, for fear of the unknown.

Continuing, he said, “You know he is a baby and very fragile. When my fist landed on him the first time, he screamed. At that point, the mother lifted her hand to prevent my next fist from landing on the boy , but I planted the hot iron on her hand”. Henry, reportedly landed another fist on the little helpless creature . At the third hit, Ebuka, as gathered, could no longer cry. He was still .

When Henry was asked why he was always beating his wife as claimed by neighbours, he admitted that they have had series of quarrel, most of which was caused by his wife’s alleged clandestine relationship with his father. He posited however that “there is no way a man and a woman would live under same roof without quarreling. It is impossible. Yes, we quarreled and settled” .

Asked if he had any regrets for his action, he replied, “sure , I do, mainly because of the death of my son. Why should a child be killed over an offense he knew nothing about? His death will continue to haunt me all the days of my life. I may not live to even atone for this sin but if by sheer providence I do, I will never forgive myself for taking the life of my innocent boy.

All this is the handiwork of the devil. If I had known, I would have not touched my son that night. I know I am going to die because I have killed my son. If it had been my wife, I would not have bothered much . But my son, ah! I have done the unimaginable” he stated in an emotion- laden tone.

When contacted for his reaction to his son’s claim, 65-year- old Theodore Nnadi described the allegation as baseless and unimaginable, wondering how a father could stoop so low as to sleep with his daughter in-law. The light skinned man swore with both visible and invisible substances, denying ever having any feeling of such towards a woman he considered as a daughter. The father of eight who said his name had been dragged in the mud following the allegation and wondered how on earth a son could mete such injustice on his father.

Recalling with pains how he tried all he could to give his son, Henry, a good future, Pa Nnadi revealed that signs of his present predicament reared its ugly head after Henry’s secondary school.

Hear him, “ After his secondary school , he began to move with irresponsible people and street urchins . In order to keep him busy, I took him to a school of engineering where he specialized in factory generator repairs. But before I knew it, that turned out to be my greatest undoing as he went into snatching of motorcycles from riders.

“He would mount a motorcycle, give the rider his destination. But midway, he would pour pepper into the rider’s eyes, causing him to loose balance and in the process make away with the motorbike and sell same at give -away price. He was arrested in one of the occasions and was imprisoned for eight years.

After he finished serving his jail term, I took him to a church where deliverance was carried out on him. Before everybody in the church, he promised never to go back to his past again. After that, he started the dry cleaning job.”

I warned his wife

“After the introduction ceremony and the wife moved in with him, I started getting series of report on how he was maltreating her. Several times, the matter was reported at Ago police station where he was made to write undertaken never to raise his hand on her again. But he never complied. When the beating became unbearable, I personally told his wife never to return to my son when she traveled to her village last year. She stayed for a while, only to come back because my son, as I later learnt, went to beg her.”

Asked if he actually slept with his daughter-in-law, Mr Theodore screamed in anger, “ how can that be? That is an abomination! Before God and man, I never did that. Ah! This child wants to take me to an unprepared grave. I reject that. It is not my portion .I can never try such disgusting thing in my life. Oh my God, at this age?His intention is to soil my name. Go and ask about me where I live, or even from the village I come from. This is unimaginable. Come to think of it, I have a wife.”

Also asked to clarify his son’s claim that he met his wife in his house where the father blocked the entrance, Pa Nnadi replied, almost in tears, “Only God will judge this matter. This child is a bad child. The wife used to sell pap and she usually brings it to my house where she sold to my wife .

Whenever she is leaving my house, my wife would give her some ingredients because my son was not taking care of her and their baby. For instance, when she gave birth to my grandson , Ebuka, it was one of my daughters that brought out N120,000 for the delivery bill because she gave birth through caesarian. But do you know what happened, my son, Henry, stole out of that money from where it was kept and when asked, he argued that the money was too much, that it ought to have been given to him to buy a motorcycle.

He is a pain in the neck. In fact, he had beaten me before in public, simply because I reprimanded him for fighting with his cousin. Since that incident, my people vowed never to visit his house again. I swear to God, I never did that abominable act. I have passed such stage. Besides, I am a God fearing man. Come to think of it, (grins) I live in that apartment with my wife and my other children. How on earth would that happen”?

Emotions, promises, pour in for burnt housewife

Meanwhile, following Mercy’s story published, some concerned Nigerians and groups have continued to call in, signifying their interest to assist Mercy with the medical bill and a possible transfer to another hospital. Among those that called were Zahara Women Foundation, CENTA For Organizational Development, Bimbo Odukoya Foundation and other individuals from different parts of the country and beyond. But none of them, as at Thursday morning, had made any monetary donations.

For Bimbo Odukoya’s Foundation, it promised to visit mercy at the hospital on Thursday evening with a view to carrying out on the spot assessment and proffer possible medical solution.

Zahara Women Foundation on its part, promised to visit the victim yesterday, (Friday),where its co-ordinator who called in from Canada said the foundation would do all within its reach to give Mercy legal backing as well as playing a role on her medical expenses.

Dr Eze of New Revolution hospital located in Ago, Okota area of Lagos hinted that although Mercy was responding to treatment, there are fears that some sensitive parts of the affected area were still to get healed. “For instance, her breast and chest region and her thigh close to the vagina are part of the critical areas.”

Vanguard Crime Guard observation revealed that fluid was still pouring out from under the breast , which seemed to be defiling treatment. The cause, as gathered, was because it was not exposed to air. As a result, the region is always damp with the burns causing sores. She is still going through excruciating pains, with serious anesthetics being administered to her on daily basis.

But the doctor assured that things would take its normal shape with time, disclosing that part of the burns on her back, stomach and hand were getting healed. The doctor also disclosed that as at Thursday evening, only N60,000.00 has been donated by a lady who pleaded anonymity.

But for Mercy to get back quickly on her feet again, she needs funds, first to clear the backlog of close to N600,000 which the hospital claimed was her medical bill. Out of this amount, the hospital said Mercy’s father in-law was only able to pay the sum of N50,000. Presently , Pa Theodore who owns a mini boutique along Ago-Palace Way is finding it difficult to foot the bill.

Crime Guard reliably gathered that the 65-year-old man had resorted to borrowing from people in order to ensure Mercy gets back on her feet again. Plans, as gathered, is on the pipeline to open an account for Mercy where well- meaning Nigerians are enjoined to pay in their widow’s mite, as this will, no doubt, go a long way in ensuring Mercy’s speedy recovery.

And if this is not done on time, there are fears that the burns, particularly in the sensitive areas, could be affected, which unfortunately, can be disastrous for the helpless woman.

Meanwhile, her husband has been charged to the Ebute-Meta magistrate court,where he appeared last Tuesday. But the case could not be heard as his file with charge no G/23/2012 was referred to the Directorate of Public Defender (DPP) for advice.

However, while waiting for the account to be opened, concerned individuals can make their donations in person to the hospital- New Revolution hospital located in Ago, Okota, Lagos or reach Vanguard Crime Editor through: [email protected] or 08023145281.