Babymama Drama
Published: Tuesday | November 20, 2012 2 Comments
Q. I have a dilemma. I have two women pregnant for me at the same time. They do not know about each other as yet. I am not sure which one to marry. The older woman has a child for me already. She also has an adult child, but we do not get along. The younger one is expecting her first child. I am thinking that it might be better to marry the young one because she is more educated. In addition, when I get old, she will be able to take care of me. The older woman would expect me to care for her in her old age. The problem is that I have been in a relationship with the older woman for a while, and my parents know her and like her. She has done many good things for me and took good care of me. She is, however, very jealous and miserable and I do not love her that much anymore. Should I go with my gut and ignore my parents and marry the younger girl?

A. You appear to be a selfish man. You want someone to care for you in your old age but you are not willing to do the same for a woman. Apparently, you do not realise that ill-health can come at any age and based on the marriage vows you would be expected to be loyal, true and faithful in sickness as in health.

In addition, you have not placed much weight on the older woman who cared for you. It appears that you are not only selfish but you are also ungrateful.

Furthermore, you do not appear very responsible in that you have two women pregnant at the same time. Why did you not use contraceptives? You are not engaging in safe sex and you are putting yourself and your multiple partners at risk. You need to control your sexual urges and not run after every skirt.

Jealousy issue

You are complaining that the older woman is jealous, but she has every right to be jealous because you have been unfaithful. Additionally, you are not showing any remorse for impregnating two women. You do not appreciate the enormous responsibility to care for two children with different women at the same time. It might not be long before the younger woman starts to be jealous when she hears about both pregnancies.

Why do you believe that any of these two women would want to marry you? I hope both would send you packing after they have discovered what you have done!

The opinion of your parents should be given respect concerning whom you should marry. However, the final decision is yours. The problem is not so much your parents’ desire but whether you are ready to give unconditional love to either woman.

You need to examine your lifestyle and ascertain whether you are responsible to take on the lifelong, exclusive commitment of marriage. You are not ready as yet, and you need to become mature and start to give love and care.

Email: [email protected]

Message Body:
Simone the ppl then ago come back fi then man

Met please post this. We are trying to get the message across.
The principal and teachers of K++++ Primary School need to find innovative ways to teach and motivate their students and move away from flogging our dear children to get 100% only! It is because of their short comings that they find the need to be flogging innocents children like race horses, that needs to be whipped into better performance! Animal lovers are crying out for the horses being whipped, why should we sit quietly while our children are being flogged for getting grades of 38/40!! When we have our children, especially girls, accept being slapped for these menial things, we are communicating to them an acceptance of this kind of treatment throughout their lives!

GRAMPS MORGAN

“Mr. (Choke) Lumumba, (Buju’s NEW lawyer) I tip my hat off to yuh! Because in the three (3) years, is the CLEAREST I have heard this case!

I know my friend Buju, mi NEVA see him sell drugs yet! Mi neva see him teck drugs yet! And Just like Kunte Kente who get beating fi forget his identity. “BUJU is a WARRIOR who decided NOT to lay down!

They, (US Prosecutors) offered Buju Banton THREE (3) years (If Buju would plead GUILTY to the charges) and him say: “MI NAAH BOW!”

He said he is going to ((( FIGHT!!))) Cause if him did accept that deal, mi and Buju would be eating ackee and salt fish right now! But him say: I DON’T want the world to believe that I am a drug dealer, and he decided to FIGHT!

We are at WAR! But, it’s NOT a gun war, it’s a CULTURAL WAR! I beg of you to spread this word about our brother BUJU, because he decided NOT TO LAY DOWN & that is why he is in PRISON. Meck we STAND UP and FIGHT fi we bredren Buju and BE AWARE! BE AWARE OF HOW WE WALK IN THIS SOCIETY! (((( FREE BUJU )))

Gramps MORGAN, Reggae Artist, FRIEND & BROTHER to Buju Banton and a member of Buju Banton’s Defense Committee.

Tens of villagers from Busia County flocked at Busia Hospital to witness the shocking case of a prisoner who had been rushed to the hospital after changing and started to meow and cry like a cat.

The confused prisoner is alleged to have changed overnight and his shocked mates reported the incident not knowing what was happening. Residents suspect that the 24 year old prisoner may have been bewitched.

A medic at the hospital told the media that he has seen several cases of witchcraft but the case was new to them and they have no idea what to do to save him.

Prison wardens who remained at his side were keen as they feared he may escape even with the cuffing as people flocked from all over to see the prisoner whose eyes were also like those of a cat.

Medics fumbled by the incident secured a private room where he will be staying until a solution is founds. The prisoner is alleged to have been imprisoned last month for the charges of defiling a minor.