“It all started well between us some years ago during our NYSC service and we both were close friends during our youth service, people used to call us husband and wife as at then.

After the service, we lost contact and few years later we again met at a Church convention. We reunited and that was how our journey to the marital world started.

He proposed marriage to me and I accepted but on one condition, ‘no pre marital affair’ (because then I was still a virgin and a Born Again child of God) he agreed to my terms and we moved on.

I was afraid because he’s an active guy.

To cut the long story short, we were united in a Holy Matrimony on Saturday, July 16, 1988.

Our marriage is blessed with 4 children.

My husband works with one of the telecommunication companies and always travels out of country.

Precisely last June, he returned from a trip and asked me to ‘go under’ him.

Jesus! I screamed, you mean I should suck your ‘manhood?’ I asked him.

He told me ‘yes’ and I out rightly said NO, that night, I received the beating of my life. My God, I was mad, wishing the earth could open up and swallow me.

It didn’t end there, he promised to continue beating me until I obey his order.

There was a night, he threw me and my daughter out of the house, we slept under the rain. I must confess, I regretted getting married to him that night.

I was inquisitive to know why he suddenly turned a ‘that way’ over night, his friend confided in me that when he travelled to Europe recently, those commercial girls came to “ease him” thought him the act of “going under.”

There was this occasion, he brought in a girl and had slept with her in front of I and my children, he even called me to come and learn from her. (Sobbing)

Last month, he finally threw my loads out of his house and warned me never to return until I’m ready to succumb to his urge.

I’ve been wondering like a vagabond for the past 3 weeks now with my daughter, not even food or water for the innocent girl.

“Please I beg you, I’m tired, I don’t know where to go from here, tell your readers to advise me.

Should I bow to his ugly romance (which is hard for me) or return his daughter to him and continue with my life”

Dear readers, your Candid advise would help this woman out.

SOME GYAL SEH YES AND A GET SO SO STRESS
SOME GYAL SEH LIFE AND A GET SO SO BITE
SO WHEN DEM SI YUH SINGLE AND HAPPY AND DEM STRESS A BITE DEM GET HYPE
SO SO HYPE AND DEM KNOW DI MAN MAN RIGHT
BUT WHEN DEM SI YUH SINGLE LIFE IT A GI DEM CONSCIENCE A FIGHT
IT NUH RIGHT FI BE UNHAPPY INA LIFE
AND IT NUH RIGHT FI ONE MAN COCKEY SO BRIGHT
NO IT NUH RIGHT COCKY HAPPY AND PUSSY STRESS A BWAAY TOO BRIGHT

*****Metty signing out*****

A 38-year-old Nigerian housewife, Mrs Mariam Adunni of Omoda Area, Ilorin,Kwara state has been granted her wish by the town’s Area Court to dissolve her six-year-old marriage.
Her ground for dissolution: her husband has been an untamed chatterbox.
Adunni told the court that her husband,Garba Ajani not only talked too much, but also did not keep family secrets.
“My husband is fond of sharing our family affairs with his relatives and friends,” she told the court, adding that the defendant has had no time for fun with her and their children.
She said: “My husband has no trust in me, instead he shares his problems with friends and relatives who will mislead him.”
The plaintiff informed the court that the marriage was contracted in 2006 and had produced two children.
“I am tired of him because I have tried my best to change him and he is not ready to cooperate,” she said.
The defendant agreed to her request for divorce, saying, “nobody can turn my back against my parents.”
“I am ready to concede to her wish”, he said and urged the court to grant the prayer of the plaintiff.
The presiding Judge, Mr Quadri Ibrahim, in his judgment, dissolved the marriage and issued a certificate of divorce to the plaintiff.

Fellowship Is Essential

Let’s Get Together! Hebrews 10:25 Let’s not give up meeting together.
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Another variable that affects our lives involves the way God relates to groups, nations, or corporate entities, and how everyone in such bodies of people can receive the consequences of corporate sin. There are times when what one person experiences is due to God’s grace, reward, mercy or wrath on an entire group of which he is a part. There are many examples of this in the Word of God. All the Egyptians suffered because of Pharaoh’s hard heart. Another example is in Joshua 7, where the army of Israel was defeated because of the sin of Achan and his family.

Although it may not at first seem “fair” that a person would be dealt with by God as part of a group, rather than on his or her own merits, the Bible and history clearly indicate that this happens. This is one of the main reasons why Christians are to be concerned about “social evils,” and work to keep society free from sin. Certain cultures have been and are much more God-oriented and accepting of spiritual truth than are others. That is one reason why God exhorts believers to pray for community leaders that the laws they make are conducive to Christians being free to live according to the dictates of God’s Word (1 Tim. 2:1ff).

In the category of how God relates to groups of people is something we will call “community faith,” that is, the mutual faith of individual Christians who associate with one another. Jesus alluded to this when he spoke of two or three believers gathered together in his name (Matt. 18:20). Every Christian knows that some churches or fellowships are “hot” and see great movements of God on a regular basis, while other churches are “cold” and have not seen God move powerfully in years. The fervent prayers of a group of Christians who are “of one accord” are synergistic, that is, greater than the sum of their individual prayers. In the spiritual battle, there are times when we as Christians must “link arms” with other brethren in order to be victorious (Acts 4:23-33).

When Jesus Christ walked among people, the love and power in his words and deeds generated great faith in many people. In other words, Jesus himself was a compelling object of faith. Today, Jesus is not living among us in person. But, via the gift of holy spirit, he does live within each Christian. As each of us comes to know the Lord Jesus and exercises his supernatural power resident within us, and as we speak the truth in love one to another, we provide visible examples of God’s goodness, and thus help others grow in faith. This is one reason why dynamic Christian fellowship based upon the truth of God’s Word is indispensable, as the following verses show. Without it, many believers remain weak in faith.

Hebrews 10:23-25
(23) Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.
(24) And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.
(25) Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another — and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

To do what the above verses exhort us to do, we must first be learning the Lordship of Jesus Christ in our individual lives — by prayer, reading the Word and reaching out to others in his stead, among other things. As we do this, our confidence in who we are in the Lord, our awareness of our own function in the Body of Christ and our zeal to diligently carry it out all grow.

Second, we must get together with other Christians, and continue to do so on a regular basis, and in a variety of ways. Third, whenever we do so, our attitude should be, “What can I do to bless someone?” The more secure you are in Christ, the more you are willing to be vulnerable in reaching out to others via loving doctrine, reproof or correction. The more real the Lord Jesus is to you, the more confident you are that he will work in you to help your brethren. This is why fellowship and faith are in one way mutually dependent. It is much more difficult to grow in faith if you are not actively involved in a Christian fellowship that is based upon the truth of God’s Word, practiced in love. [1]

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