Why MEN watch PO*N instead of having SEX with their WOMEN in bed
The Kenyan DAILY POSTLove and Relationship 07:48

What’s with men and their p++ addiction?

Ever wondered why men watch p+++ the way they do? Well, here’s an explanation that’ll put your mind at ease.

Most women have always had a problem with men and their interest in porn.

Somehow, realizing that their man ogles at other women in the nude seems to piss them off.
Well, if I were a woman, I’d be pretty pissed off too.

But just like all other guys, if I ever caught my girlfriend sneakily watching porn after dark, I’d be instantly excited instead of feeling two-timed and violated.

So why the big confusion over porn?

Well, it all comes down to the way men and women think.

Men think p+++ is sexy. Women think it’s gross.

Men think p+++ is a way to see many more naked women without really cheating. Women think watching p++ is cheating!

Now not all men and all women feel this way. But certainly, most of them do.

Why can’t a man just watch his woman in bed?

A man could sit up in bed and stare at the beautiful woman sleeping in bed with him, and he may do that too. But he could do that anytime he wants, so really, where’s the novelty in that?

Women should know that most men don’t watch porn every single night. They do it now and then, most often when they’re feeling bored. And even when they watch naked women online, they don’t always see the same girls again and again.

Women should feel mighty pleased to know this, men only care about porn when they’ve got absolutely nothing important to do. It’s true, because most men will forget all about porn if you keep him busy.

Men don’t set an alarm and wake up in the middle of the night just to play pocket pool while watching a perky girl moaning on their laptop. Men usually end up watching porn if they’ve been busy working on their computer all night. And after having finished all their work, they have nothing better to do than watch easily accessible naked women staring back at them while doing naughty things to themselves, other women or other horse-like men.

While all men enjoy a good round of foreplay and sex, it’s just not the same as throttling the little man while watching a few p++ stars. The satisfaction that men feel in these two scenarios is completely different. And one scenario doesn’t affect his interest or performance in the other.

Why men like BLUES

Men like p+++ for a lot of reasons. Here are a few that could help you understand his interest in all things naked on his computer screen.

# A man gets to see more boobies
A man can never see enough of them. All breasts may seem like the same for women, but those subtle dissimilarities between one pair and another make the men want to see all of them.

# Men get to learn new things in bed
Most of the time, men watch porn only to satisfy themselves, but every now and then, men watch porn because it’s funny or completely unique. It’s a fun pastime that men enjoy.

# Masturbation is fun
Almost all men have spent a big part of their single life with the little boy in their pants. And every now and then, he misses the times he’s spent with the little guy. Hanging out with his hands in his shorts can at times, even feel a lot better than sex. There’s no stress, and the fun time can stretch on for hours. And the best part, he gets to see so many naked women while having fun at the same time.

#Men are curious
Every time a man sees an attractive and desirable woman, one of the first things he does is wonder how she looks beneath her clothes. With so much curiosity, it’s easy to imagine why men can’t wait to see and learn about different women’s body parts. And another thing that most men do, each time they see a sexy celebrity on the telly, all they want to do is go online and look for a few nude movie clips of that girl to see how she looks naked.

Will your guy watching porn affect your relationship?
Nope, his interest in watching porn has nothing to do with the relationship status. He used to watch it when he was single, and now he watches it when you’re sleeping. To a man, porn isn’t his way of cheating on you or fantasizing about other women. It’s just one of his favorite pastimes when he’s feeling restless or bored.

But will he ever compare you to a porn star he likes? It’s obvious he will. Has he ever asked you to try something new or kinky in bed all of a sudden? It’s probably an inspiration from his computer. But whether he compares you or not, a man’s mind is developed enough to realize that what he sees on his computer isn’t real, at least to him. It’s just a fantasy girl stripping herself off and moaning at everything she sees. And men like it!

Will he love you less because he sees other naked women?

No, somehow watching porn doesn’t seem to affect most men, unless they’re addicted to it and can’t live with it. No research or scientist has been able to conclusively prove the real reason behind why men like porn just yet. Perhaps, it’s just his desire to see more naked women and feel good about it. After all, no man is ever satisfied with the number of naked women he sees in his lifetime.

But if you look at it from an evolutionary perspective, primitive men just had to have sex with any primitive woman that moves in the old days. He couldn’t waste time on getting an erection or building up the foreplay if he has to have sex with a woman he bumps into, especially if he had to finish the deed before her real mate sees him. Perhaps, this has lead to a man’s wandering eye and his interest in constantly seeing new naked “mating potentials”.
Should a woman be bothered by his curiosity?

Don’t be. Men hardly ever think their interest in porn qualifies as cheating. Instead, cuddle up with him and watch a few movies yourself. Think of it this way.

A woman watches romantic movies all the time. And she would definitely be able to relate to the feelings of love and affection the actors share on screen. A woman may enjoy the movie, but does that mean she’s falling for the actor in the movie because she felt all those emotions?

Heck, she may even wish her man was more like the romantic actor in the movie. But does that really change anything in real life? No!

And that’s the same thing with men and porn. They may watch women flaunting their assets on their computer, but once their date with their little friend is over, they forget all about it. Even if they do wish their women were more like those porn stars!

Now that you know why men watch porn, relax and stop worrying about it. It’s just a movie and that pair is just another one in several breasts that he’ll admire in his lifetime. At the end of the day, you’re the beautiful woman he sleeps with and he likes his life just the way it is!

Love panky

A 43-year-old transporter on Monday asked an Ikorodu Customary Court, Lagos, to dissolve his five-year-old marriage, accusing his wife of sleeping with a policeman and his co-tenant.

The petitioner, Mr Adedapo Sonariwo, who resides at Ajose St., Owutu Agric area of Ikorodu, accused Dora, his 29-year-old hairdresser wife, of infidelity.

“My wife has been having illicit affair with a policeman who lives in the same compound with us,” Sonariwo told the court.

He also accused Dora of insubordination and lack of care for their children.

“After our marriage, she put up a nonchalant attitude towards the family. She does not cook for our children anymore.

“She goes out early in the morning and returns in the midnight and when I talk, my own mother will support her.

“I stopped giving her allowances because she behaves unruly in the house.

“I am fed up and I pray for a divorce,” the petitioner told the court.

However, the defendant, denied the allegations and begged the court to save her marriage.

“Although my husband is very hot tempered, but I still love him. Anytime I received phone calls she would think I am talking to a man,” she said.

The court president, Mrs Risikat Ekerin, adjourned the case to Oct. 30 for possible reconciliation.

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