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JMG FRIDAY THERAPY

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This is the continuation of….. I resent my parent because. Men , we know its not only the women who harbor resentment. We need to hear your issues so we can better understand our son’s as mothers and understand as sister what you went through

Lets begin with; I am male/female and I resent my parent because………

38 Responses to JMG FRIDAY THERAPY

  • Nuni says:

    I am a female and I resent my father for having a second family and always depriving us for them because “your mother will always make a way”

  • Dwrl says:

    That’s what happen when a relationship don’t work out and kids involve. They will never be equal treatment once the man move on and have more children in different households. I real they should stress marriage more before children

  • Met says:

    Nuni I beg to blame the other woman somewhat. A lot of times sometimes it the women who will not open the door to the other children

  • Met says:

    dwrl people whey married can divorce and start another family to eno

  • Nuni says:

    @DWL my parents were married….my father was just pissed cuz my mother left him

  • Nuni says:

    After she found that he was living another life

  • status says:

    Metty you are sooooooo right step parents are the worsttttttttt,well atleast some of them.

  • status says:

    Nuni I feel you a 1000000% When parents move on and start another family it’s never the same. The time/money is split in half and the new family will be the main focus, the kids before fit in whenever. Know this shit from experience.

  • Met says:

    status sometimes is really the step parents..not that mi a tek di blame from the man but some a dem dont want di man other children

  • status says:

    Metty most times it is, right now my dad and I are actually on good terms, but his wife is jealous, my dad treated her daughter like his own,but now that I im back in picture with my girls and I said my peace about everything she did to his kids,you can see the women resent me from head to toe. But I let it be know this is my father and stopped speaking to him for and number of yrs because of you,but it nah happen again, plus my girls need to know their grandfather. My dad has seen my side and I know some of the things he does for me now is out of guilt.

  • status says:

    Nuni until you speak your peace, these kinds of feelings will eat you alive, trust me. If you can clear the air with your dad or at least speak whats in your heart and let it go, it will benefit you in the long run.

  • Met says:

    status how dem claim to love the man n not his kids i dont get that

  • status says:

    Met some women just don’t have love in their hearts, plus now Metty her kids treat her like shit, none ah them can’t be around her for more than a couple of days, and they have zero manners. But when yuh treat children bad/innocents it always turn around on yuh.

  • Met says:

    yes but u know some women can only love their own children…that is not pure love ..from u are a mother u have love for all children

  • status says:

    Metty I have to disagree some what, cause I can’t stand a child without manners. Lord knows lol

  • Met says:

    u can separate a child’s behaviour from the child………not because the child has no manners mean seh u nuh fi love them..

  • 187 Dem says:

    Evening Met,

    @ Status I now what you mean when you say the woman is jealous of the relationship that you have with your dad because I can relate. That was the same thing with my stepmom growing up & she tried to do evth to come in between my dad & I, until I douldnt take it no more & I moved out when I was 18…Been on my own since then & now she & mi dad mash up (not yet divorced). My dad & I have the best reloationship now & bcuz I’m the only girl (all brothers I have) she keeps saying that I’m his favorite. Now she is even more jealous bcuz of how close we are…

    Just con’t to have a great relationship & don’t let no one come between that.

  • Met says:

    evening 187

  • Hotstepper....formerly peeper says:

    I am a female and I resent my mother because she allow her man to treat her kids all kinda way…and when I talk to her about it now, I can understand, but as a mother she can at least sey “kids I am so sorry you had to go through that” sometimes a just dat we wah hear

  • Hotstepper....formerly peeper says:

    my step mom was very jealous of me and my dad relationship….one thing mi affi sey bout my fada, my step mother couldnt treat me any kinda way, mi remember one Saturday mi a go over mi mother because me no wah help clean and she sey doh come back, and me father come home come see me a cry and when me tell him why mi a cry….bare lick that gal get, she know better….him tell her if me a pay the bills in ya and she caan come back…u and u pickney dem pack up and leave now

  • Met says:

    peeper maybe she too shame now

  • Met says:

    peeper :ngakak

  • Hotstepper....formerly peeper says:

    Met mi wonder di same thing enuh…mi fren pick up a man wid 6 pickney and something happen and him had to keep one a dem for a little while and mi sey di gal have di man pickney a sleep pon grung, and a complain sey di likkle gal use har bredda towel…mi cant even bother fi tell u how me behave, needless to say we are no longer friends

  • Dwrl says:

    I understand that met. But it’s worse when the bwoy a dash dem cocky and having many barb mamas. It’s worse in that case because with all the child support orders and the few pennies the children get. I never experience a step-mother/ step-father situation but my kids now have stepmom. She tried to come between my kids father and I but I nip it in the butt as soon as she start so now the kids said she’s great to them. She could control the man but I remind her the control she now have I had in place long time and even though we left I still call the shots when it comes to my children. I STILL PUT MOST THE BLAME ON THE FTHER BECAUSE IF THEY DON’T ALLOW IT , IT WON’T HAPPEN.

  • Hotstepper....formerly peeper says:

    mothers day mi tell mi mother sey she and her 2 sisters should not have been mothers because all dawg mother better than them

  • Hotstepper....formerly peeper says:

    @DWRL..u know me feel u a mi sister weh mi never meet, mi nah lie, me and u think so much alike

  • Dwrl says:

    Some woman are animals. You can’t find a better woman than my grand aunt she took up the man with his two children and when they broke up mi grand aunt run him and take the two children that weren’t even hers. She dead now but you no find woman like that no more because I love children but I would not take up another woman’s responsibility sorry to say. Because of that I refuse to take up men with children, don’t judge me. I hardly have the patiences for mines :(

  • Dwrl says:

    @ hotsteppa you might be the only blogger here every agree with me lol I guess we both mad :hammer

  • Dwrl says:

    Ever***

  • Met says:

    peeper thats how some ooman stay because it natural fi want a partner yes but ur offspring is a part of u a doe know how dem do it

  • Dwrl says:

    You know you have some man WEH woman rule just like you have women WEH man rule. As a parent if you get in a situation where you breed for a weak man expect your children to suffer. I will treat your children very well If dem have manors as someone say up top but if you come with your shitty attitude and act like because you had the man child you want run shit keep them mi no want dem round me. I haven’t got the chance yet to play a step-mom . But the moms to blame in some part also because you do have BITTER ASS EXES WHO WILL USE THE CHILD TO MAKE NEW WOMAN MISERABLE SEEN IT HAPPEN, PARENTS USING THE CHILDREN TO FIGHT THEIR BATTLES

  • Dwrl says:

    Met I see woman move in with man and his children and the woman put out the children and the man don’t say a word. My mother fren done it that everybody talk how cold that bitch is. SOME WOMAN NO HAVE NO HEART. JUST LIKE THE MOTHERS WHO DASH THE PICKNEY DEM GIVE FATHER FOR NEW MAN, SAME SHIT

  • status says:

    !87 same thing im dealing with, im my dads only girl and his wife is very vicious, when we were younger she would say and do shit underhanded and when we reacted, she would run to go to my dad and say a bunch of shit, now that im older she can’t pull that shit any more, but trust me she hate mi like poison, but I care ZERO and I told her just so.

  • LUNDUN says:

    @dwrl :peluk how u doing mi mad fren?

  • Dwrl says:

    @lundun just took my :medicine: so I’m good now :thumbup

  • dick r harde says:

    i dont resent my mother for anything…but….the one thing i wanted and never got was a bicycle…sup’m bout one son and cyar ago lick mi dung and she nuh want band her belly and ray tay tay……dwl…..when mi did young and just come a farin inna di 90’s mi ask mi fadda fi send mi go college…man flat out tell mi no and mek mi know say bringing mi to farin was more dan enuff….so mi join di army fi di college money…was a good experience…fast forward 16yrs later….man tek up one likkle crawny butto gyal from some deep inna heart a jamaica country…..kinda place whe words like bra bra…massa…kirrout and kunumunu are regular daily vocabulary….gyal only 5yrs older dan him oldest grandchild and 30+yrs him junior….and all di world but him see say is a meal ticket di gyal did a look..and di man pay her way go chue college like a no nuttin…..but at least she did have a plan fi set up herself inna life while she a nyam him out so when she cut she can mek a clean getaway……dwl……but after it all mi learn to forgive because mi realize him is not di best fadda…..but him try to be di best fadda him know how to be……

  • Brooklyn Cutie Pie says:

    I resent my father for not being in my life. I believe that many of di struggles, all tho they made me di strong, independent woman dat I am today, I wouldn’t have had to go thru half ah dem struggle deh if mi did have a strong father inna mi life fi set a good foundation!

    Di man dem will NEVER understand di impact dem selfishness cause di WHOLE Black race JUST BECAUSE ah dem ‘wandering cocky’! The man/father supposed to inna him daughter life fi show her what a ‘good man’ is like so she can recognize ah good man & have one/marry one in her future. Without dat, she won’t know what ah good man is like, pick up some crosses, have kids fi him, cycle continues!

    When ah man see seh ah woman have a strong father inna her life, him come correct wid har cuz him know seh she nah put up with bad treatment, whether emotional or physical cuz she don’t have to. Now this don’t happen 100% of the time but it happen more dan not.

    A father is supposed to also set an educational & financial foundation fi him children dem. NUFFF ah di problem dem, scandal dem, inna we community & highlighted DAILY pon JMG is cuz ah lack of education, finances & searching for ah man’s love dem never get from dem father!

    Even wid dis Nikki/Addi situation, mi nuh know dem personally but from all my years peeping pon JMG & my few comments i put up, dat deh episode deh was the most scandalous, disrespectful & SADDEST situation mi evah ‘see’! Mi see seh she definitely lack love or don’t recognize love& dats why she did even deh wid him inna di first place! And lack of education weh cuz her nuh fi have a good job weh cause her nuh fi have no money fi mind her pickney dem (which will drive ANY mother crazy) is weh cause her fi ah gwaan suh!

    Mi never mean fi write ah book but it good fi get tings offa yuh chest & hopefully even ONE MAN OR WOMAN read dis & tink about di impact certain ‘relationships’ or even just careless sex can have pon dem pickney dem!

  • Brooklyn Cutie Pie says:

    @Dick r hard – but it muss hurt fi know seh him couldn’t find di college fee fi send yuh, him flesh & blood to school, but him find it fi go gi gyal?!?!? Not fi seh you ah go mad all di days ah yuh life over it but you muss feel ah way????

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