This post is based on an email that was sent and in no way reflects the views and opinions of ''Met'' or Jamaicangroupiemet.com. To send in a story send your email to [email protected]

JMG THERAPY SESSION

1c-Optimized

This first session is about parents so you responses should begin with
”……..I resent my parent because………….

-No Judging
-No harsh Criticism
-No comment unless its Therapy Related

190 Responses to JMG THERAPY SESSION

  • Dwrl says:

    This should be good :siul

  • BITTER says:

    I RESENT MY PARENTS BECAUSE MY MOM PROTECTED MY COUSIN FOR 4 YEARS WHILE HE MOLESTED ME

  • Met says:

    :kiss at bitter..how did she do that?

  • Dwrl says:

    Wow!

  • BITTER says:

    I WAS 9 WHEN HE FIRST TOUCHED ME AND I WAS SCARED 2 SAY ANYTHING BECAUSE HE WAS 17 AND HE THREATENED ME BUT WHEN I WAS 12 HE GAVE ME AN STD WHICH PREVENTS ME FROM HAVING CHILD AND THATS WHEN I TOLD BUT MY MOM TOLD EVERY ONE THAT I WAS LYING BECAUSE I WAS PROSTITUTING MYSELF AND I DIDNT WANT THE FAMILY 2 KNOW SO I WAS MAKING UP THE STORY U KNOW HOW IT GOES IN A WEST INDIES FAMILY FROM THE MOTHER SAY THE CHILD IS BAD NO ONE WANTS 2 LISTEN BECAUSE NOW UR LABELED AS A PROBLEM CHILD ANY WAY HE CONTINUED 2 TOUCH ME AND 1 DAY AS HE WAS IN THE ACT HE PLACED A BLANKET OVER MY HEAD THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN HE STOPED AND WHEN I WAS REMOVING I SAW MY MOM WALKING OUT THE ROOM AND CLOSE THE DOOR AND HE JUST CONTINUED

  • BITTER says:

    THATS WHEN I REALIZED SHE KNEW ALL ALONG WAT HE WAS DOING I CONFRONTED HER YEARS LATER AS AN ADULT AND SHE SAID THAT SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING BECAUSE SHE DIDNT WANT THE FAMILY 2 TURN AGAINST HER FOR ME AND HOW I SHAMED THE FAMILY BY TELLING

  • Quiet Storm says:

    It should be dw

  • Met says:

    bitter that is so sad, it would seem as if she valued the family’s say over your feelings. What happened to your cousin since ?

  • BITTER says:

    HE WAS CAUGHT TOUCHING HIS DAUGHTER YEARS LATER SO HE GOT DIPPED THATS WHEN THE FAMILY FINALLY BELIEVED ME BUT I DIDNT CARE AT THAT POINT BECAUSE WHEN I WAS CRYING OUT FOR HELP NO ONE HELPED ME SO I JUST DETACHED MYSELF FROM THEM

  • Met says:

    But of course I understand. They should have arrested him. People like him are born perverted and cannot be changed so jail would have been the best place for him. Were you able to reverse being infertile ?

  • ThEXOnE says:

    Howdy everybody :peluk …Bitter, my heart goes out to you sweetheart…have you thought of artificial insemination?

  • BITTER says:

    I LEARNED LATER THAT WAT I HAD WAS CALLED (P.I.D) PELVIC INFLAMMATORY DISEASE IT IS CURABLE BUT IF LEFT UNTREATED IT CAN DAMAGE UR TUBES AND THATS WAT HAPPENED 2 ME BUT BY THE GRACE OF GOD I WAS ABLE TO DO SURGERY AND GOD BLESSED ME WITH 6 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN WHICH I DONT LEAVE OUT OF MY EYE SITE FOR NOTHING… BUT I STILL CRY FROM IT BECAUSE I DONT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WIT NO ONE IN MY FAMILY ME AND MY DAD WAS SO CLOSE AND AFTER MY MOM TELLING HIM I WAS LYING HE STOPED SPEAKING TO ME AND WHEN HE FOUND OUT I WASNT LYING HE DID TRY AND COME AROUND BUT I LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS EVEN IF HE THOUGHT I WAS LYING Y DIDNT HE STILL ALLOW THIS MAN TO COME AROUND THE HOUSE SPEND THE NITES HE SHOULD OF INVESTIGATED WAT I WAS SAYING SO I FEEL LIKE ITS 2 LATE WHEN I NEEDED THEM THEY ABANDONED ME

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Bitter, I am so sorry to hear about your ordeal….. That is a SICK Mothaf*#$%@.

    Your mother is, in my opinion, even worse. This is someone who is supposed to protect you dammit!!!! and I dont blame you one bit for detaching yourself from them.

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Like you said, when mama bawl out sey pickney bad, errybaddie juss tek ee an run widdi an none fi sey mek dem try undastan whey really ah gwaan.

    Dats y I don’t really talk to my mom’s friends, cause I know shi tell dem stuff an dem done condemn mi inna dem mine, so mi juss kip furrr

  • Met says:

    God is good he blessed you with not one but 6, yes pid stems from an std that eventually makes its with to the bed of the pelvis. I truly understand how you feel and why you still resent your mom because there is really no excuse

  • Anonymous says:

    i resent my dad because he rob me all my money wile i have two babys on the way an he wouldnt even give me back some money to buy my child stuff. but its good over evile now my dauthers is two nice little 9 years old doing exclent in school .now i see this pussy trying to be nice an bosting about is gran dauthers like he is some special gran father

  • ThEXOnE says:

    Quiet Storm and Bitter; I think ya’ll make the best choice in distancing yourselves from the judgementalists. once they’ve already condemned you, what can you do? Especially West Indian people. On the other hand, there are other people who become slaves to trying to dispel the rumours (because they arent truths) and end up on this never ending treadmill seeking understanding, empathy, sympathy, vindication and or closure, which they’ll probably never get… I seriously think our culture of almost always taking an adult’s word over a child’s merely because they’re an adult breeds a sense of impunity within molesters

  • HIGHLY CONCERNED says:

    My resentment towards my grandmother who raised me, PALES in comparison to “Bitter’s’. My grandmother played favorites and she made it known. She had underlying issues wid skin color and would tend to prefer the grand-kids with liter complexion and “pretty hair”. She would compare our academic achievements and banton who she deemed as DUNCE.. She would cuss and scandalize we so di entire neighborhood could hear.. I had a love/hate relationship wid har. I do forgive her because i truly think SHE DIDN’T KNOW BETTA.

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Exactly @Ex…. Over the years I have come to realize that yuh cudda preach like Paul, once someone has made up their mind, it’s useless to try to convince them otherwise, so I just leave them be and know that 1 day they will find out for themselves.

  • BITTER says:

    U GUYS R SO RITE… BUT U KNOW WAT I LEARNED FROM TELLING OTHER PPL MY STORY THIS TYPE OF ISSUES GOES ON ALOT AMONGS THE WEST INDIES FAMILIES AND IT SHOCK ME… I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME I VISITED JAMAICA AND I VISTED MY UNCLES ON MY DAD SIDE THAT I HAD NEVER MEET BEFORE AND ONE OF MY UNCLES SAID TO ME I HEARD ABOUT WAT HAPPENED 2 U AND I DONT KNOW Y THE ACTING LIKE U WAS LYING BECAUSE THE SAME THING HAPPENED 2 MY AUNT BY MY UNCLE THE SAME COUSIN THAT TOUCHED ME HIS DAD DID THE SAME THING 2 TWO OF HIS SISTERS HOW SICK IS THAT I COULDT BELIEVE IT… BUT THE MOST SHOCKING THING IS THAT EVERY ONE IN THE FAMILY STILL HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WIT HIM AND ALL THEY EVER SAID TO ME WAS JUST LET IT GO THAT WE R STILL FAMILY.. I WAS LIKE WAT THE HELL… I WAS THINKING ABOUT WRITING A BOOK AND WHEN THEY FOUND OUT THEY CALL ME THREATENING ME TELLING ME IM WICKED HOW IM DISGRACING THE FAMILY BY TALKING ABOUT IT.. THEY TOLD ME THAT ITS BECAUSE IM AMERICAN I TALK 2 MUCH THOSE THINGS R SUPPOSE 2 STAY IN THE FAMILY

  • Smh! says:

    Highly them people behavior so common in our community. Bitter you are truly blessed with 6 and the actions of your cousin and mum are certainly common place as well. I resent my parents because my mother was physically abusive with me. Said I thought I was to pretty and all sorts of foolishness. To make or worse my father and other would stand by and watch as she pulled out my hair or box me til my mouth bleed and send me go school wid bus lip and bruise because she resented me for having the “cooli” features lIke my father. In the ends she says its because she was abused by her mother but the result for me is a constant battle with self esteem.

  • Anonymous says:

    I actually have no resentment for my mom, but sometimes I feel pity for her. My steppfather, the father of my for brothers, was a whorning, drug dealing, physically abusive man to her. She loved, him and he did what ever he wanted. He one day, ( he did not live with us) called and I answered the phone. He proceeded to tell me how he wanted me and he has to shake himself when he is around me. He kept calling, and one day he said im coming for you. Im going to tell your mother I need you to clean for me. He did that and I kept telling my mom I dont want to be around him. She would say he helps take care of you, go and help him. Mind you he was a big time drug dealer. He had women everywhere, stores, boats and houses. What he needed me for. Even though I protested I went with him because my mother made me. He raped me that night, I was 14 or 15. And told me I I did not do it again he would stop giving her money. Needles to say his next step was to come to the house and get on top of me in the house. But thank God that it never happened again. God dont sleep! he was caught, but he was to slick, no drugs were found. But AK-47, and guns i can even name and and other stuff was found.cant say to much because he was well known, dealt with columbians, big time haitians, and a famous posse from jamaica. He got 25 in prison, where he died of lung cancer. I sometimes feel pity, because of her neediness for the wrong kind of men. I forgave him and I forgive her.

  • ThEXOnE says:

    For real Quiet Storm, mission impossible. In situations like that & as described by H.C. you have to be aware of yourself, or else you’re lost.

  • Anonymous says:

    @ Bitter, time does not heal all wounds, seasons do. I went through my season on anger, bitterness and so forth. Now I am in my season grace. I had my season of forgivness. I have women from all walks of life , every creed and color walk thru my office door and we all are connected someway by what we have gone thru. But the best thing about is we are survivors. People wonder why im so effective on my job, its because I have been where some of my clients are at and came thru.

  • HIGHLY CONCERNED says:

    @Smh, very sad indeed.. Sometimes, its only the mercy of God mek we nuh come back come duh the same to we pickney dem…I caught myself telling my son one day that “im gonna beat di black offa him”. Till this day, i cannot believe say me say such hurtful tings to a baby(5yr old).. ME SHAME, ME NAH LIE… :(

  • GoldRush_ says:

    Met what made you want to do jmg therapy??

    My father used to beat me for everything. Get beat because he had a ruff day or maybe because he had a ruff childhood. But i was slapped punched and beat even on a good day. He called the cops on me and told them i was prostituting and walking the streets. Told me i’d gt nowhere and be pregnant by age 16…. I have self esteem issues to this day.

  • ThEXOnE says:

    Hush baby @ SMH; I’ve heard of moms who’ve told their daughters “my mother treated them worse and me turn out alright, so wah you a get a no nuttn” … irony of ironies

  • me too pretty says:

    One major agent of socialization is the family, they help shape who we are whether they are good or bad. We have to be more vigilant in breaking bad cycles in this world. It can happen. Bless up unno self who have had struggles within their families. Life goes on.

  • Met says:

    @goldie …someone asked me to do it

  • ThEXOnE says:

    Goldrush, someone tried to perpetuate their feelings of wortlessness and powerlessness unto you. I hope that you will realize that your dad must’ve seen a light in you for him to attempt to extinguish it. Regarding your self esteem issues, realize that you’ve already survived the worse by getting thru that, therefore you no longer need to bear someone else’s burden by taking that thru life with you. Free yourself 🙂

  • Met says:

    me too pretty yes …but most people feel bad in talking bad about their parents because of what people might say

  • Smh! says:

    Me always frighten because I wonder if the gene is there or generational curse to make us repeat out parents mistakes. I work so hard to avoid raise my hand or my voice at anyone because of it. We have some deep wounds and scars weh all time can not heal.

  • status says:

    I resent my father for letting his wife treat his 3 children like shit, but now the tables has turned because her own children that she treated like gold does not respect her ass.

  • Met says:

    Anonymous 7’24 so sorry to hear and my God bless you for your forgiveness… But God also avenged in the end

  • Smh! says:

    Bless up anonymous you are right about the seasons

  • Met says:

    Goldy did you ever ask him why?

  • me too pretty says:

    Met me know wha yuh mean still….me did have a oppressor(my abuser as a child) inna mi life and him dead now, but memba nobody cyaa talk bad bout him, people love the ones who hurt them the most. Me just look pan it like say some people get it worse dan me so me thank god say him spare me virginity.

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Parents need to realize the things they do that hurt and affect their children, even into adulthood.

    Self esteem is the major issue. I can’t stand to hear ppl talk about parents being ‘set in their ways’, enough of that crap!!! They are set in their ways and SO ARE CHILDREN. I vowed never to shout at my child, but it is very hard to break out of it, especially when that’s all you were exposed to.

  • shelly says:

    I resent my mother because she constantly wants me to choose between her and my day

  • Met says:

    me too pretty you know the brain in order to shield itself will turn the hate of something into love…a defence mechanism ..after a while of being conditioned to whatever defence it chooses it may or may not come back to rational or normal feelings

  • bev says:

    gonite jmg

  • Met says:

    night bev

  • Met says:

    shelly explain or give an example of how she does this

  • Tt says:

    I resent my mom for demanding me to baptise else she wasnt going spend she christian money send me go school and for classing me as a whore when i get my first period

  • status says:

    Bitter :peluk

  • bev says:

    met and others metters I resent my grand aunt my mom left me young and because my father was of a different country and was in the police force left before i was born she always refer to me as the outcast the unwanted one in the family

  • Met says:

    tt how do you feel about church now?
    status :peluk

  • GoldRush_ says:

    Its funny cuz I never did dont no why. After he called police on me and they realized that he was lying and also didnt have custody of me they told him to low mi and i didnt speak to him for 2 yrs after that cuz i just needed to breathe and find myself. And my older friends in their 30s at the time told me that no one is perfect nd that i need to pray on it and give him another chance because thats my father….so i did….like an idiot… He never apologized to me for what he did to me… and my sister suffered the same… never apologized to her either, its like his brain went on autoreset. And he didnt hit me again but was talking about me to other family members and saying i wont get no where and all these other things… And even went as far as to say when i went to jamaica i stayed with a older man and was sleeping with him… Wen in fact i was staying with my moms fam…. And havent talked to him since then … Probably two years ago now. And met when i reflect on when he destroyed my childhood.. And ppl thought i had mental issues and told him to send me to a therapist..when it was him that was abusing me… And how i gave him another chance though he never apologized to me so i can have closure… And he abused my trust. It hurts sooooo bad. I dont say nothing to no one but i say to myself when that man is dead not even a funeral mi ago give him. I have alot of anger that i try to release and let go but it hurts… And i look at myself and just dont have the confidence because my father took that from me. And i have a good relationship with my bf but i breakdown alot and im hurting him ..because of my hurt…. Sigh.

  • bev says:

    make it worst my mom travel when I was 2 left me in my greatgrand mother care who got sick shortly after and past away that was downhill for me I remember when my period came it was not regular it would come and stop that lady walk and tell everyone that I was having sex and my period would not come because it was with different men I cry for days when parents in the area would tell they kids not to play with me because I am no good but I thank God for the one lady who was smart enough to talk to me and tell me wat my body was going through and even take me to doc when I was really sick and never stop her daughter from playing with me up to this day I always say I have two mother one that gave birth to me and the one that was there for me if I go to write why I resent that lady I would fill up met wall

  • bev says:

    bitter so sad trust me I know what u went though cause who knows it and been there feels it

  • me too pretty says:

    No hate neva Met, me just feel sorry for the real victims. I am no victim here cause him was not the first dutty man fi touch me. It just bodda me say him obviously have a problem wid young girls and nobody cared to protect the innocent. A so dem things regular inna Jamaica. It just sad say the ooman dem cyaa protect the young ones cause dem too far gone inna dem owna shit.

  • Met says:

    bev u see what lack of education caused? That is normal for the period to go away after the first time, one lady did do me the same when mi start bus breast first dem used to laugh because mi neva have nuff then when they came up dem seh dem come too fast …uneducated man

  • GoldRush_ says:

    Thank u thxone…. I try everyday and im telling u when i wake i ask god to just erase it from my head and let me live and be happy. Its ruff cuz when u father take your confidence from u and thats the one u suppose to run to and hug and find strength through and u cant cuz they see u and treat u shit . Its f000ed up. I have so much anger and i want to channel it into something positive but dont no how.

  • Tt says:

    I dont go to church met and i know its bad but i think god will eventually lead me to him on his own

  • Met says:

    Goldy :kiss and you know why it is bad for you because he began a cycle..You will never be normal with men ever…it is kinda worst than a mom abusing you in this fashion

  • bev says:

    goldrush trust me when my grandaunt die I never went to the funeral no matter how much my other aunts mother beg me I never went one thing I am sorry for i never got to tell her my mind cause I stay away from my mother side of the family once I for canada

  • Anonymous says:

    Bitter, sometimes we are waiting for certain people to love us, mom, dad , whomever but TAKE the love, true love from whomever give it to you, in my life I’ve seen that sometimes stranger are better than family, if you go around your family you will always have to keep watching them and they may introduce their shittery to your children, break the cycle and stay away from them, God will bring new people in your life, you are not missing out on nothing with them.

  • Met says:

    of course tt and I understand why, instead of introducing you to God she made him evil in your eyes…she will pay for that

  • me too pretty says:

    No disrespect Bev, but yuh greatgranny did dark man. A so it use to go still and still going on. Since yuh know betta you do betta and try fi instill that in the children around you.

  • bev says:

    met one nite the lady run me out the house my period come one day then stop so I went and told her I remember sleeping under the house with the dogs and next morning she call the neighor to show her and the laugh at me my mother always got the letters about me nothing good was in it all when my report card was good she never got that information

  • Met says:

    me too pretty you know most jamaican men will be quicker to form a relationship with an underaged child..it has become a normal part of the diaspora’s ontogenesis

  • me too pretty says:

    GoldRush if yuh fadda is still around the only way you can get over it is by letting him know how it hurt you then and now. And release it onto him, don’t walk around with that hanging over your head.

  • Piinky says:

    I resent my father for thinking he only needed to bring his children to foreign and not do anything else for his children. Left his children in the hands of a wicked step mother. I had to make ends meet for myself at a young age. This I personally think ruined my life for years. I got myself involved with many man just to get some money which lead me to actually get raped by one of them and catch a std where i have to have all my lifeI alsi worked early in that time to help out my other siblings. I have never been happy from I came to foreign until now where I found a husband that accept me for who I am. Told him everything and I’m blessed to be building a family

  • Met says:

    Goldy I think the best therapy for you may be in the form of an old male motivator ..you have to kinda get back what you have lost..if not it will be really bad so I worry for you

  • BITTER says:

    MET THANK U HUN FOR THIS MOMENT… TO ALL THE LADIES THANKS FOR THE ADVICE AND STORIES IT FEELS GOOD TO CONVERSE WITH OTHERS THAT WONT JUDGE AND CAN RELATE TO WAT IM TALKING ABOUT… TODAY I CRIED BUT IT WAS ALL GOOD TEARS

  • bev says:

    me to perrty she was nasty and wicket could not bring myself to going around her in her last days when she said she had repent and ask God for fogivenees cause when I hear her voice or look at her pictures all I see up to this day is wickeness I teach my kids never to hate anyone even my stepdaughter I grow her as my own but I can find it my heart to forgive that lady or even talk to the rest of my family cause they saw and known differents no one step in to help

  • Met says:

    Piinky is it the one we were talking about the other day the std? I am glad you found someone to love you for who you are ..God is great but if its the H one you got then I can recommend something for you

  • bev says:

    met them man all over the carribbean not only jamaica special the ones that drive bus and taxi or have little money they used out the littles girls

  • Met says:

    no no bitter thank the person who asked to put it up tonight..im glad u felt comfortable enough to speak :kiss

  • Met says:

    Piinky how is the relationship between you and your dad now?

  • bev says:

    pinky u made it though God send someone to love u and acept u leave your father to God step parents I could write a book on it from what I seen my best friend went though

  • Met says:

    my friend went through it with her mom and to this day I feel so bad because she hates her mother and with enough reason…her mom was the worst

  • status says:

    Pinky, I could tell loads a stories about my fathers wife, and u think the reason she hates me the most is because I’m his only girl, and she gave him a boy when he 2 boys already.
    Metty :peluk

  • bev says:

    bitter just remember sometimes it good to talk

  • bev says:

    status same thing with my friend that lady hate her because she was his only child she could not have children

  • me too pretty says:

    Bev your granny sound like the matriarch of your family and heavy is the head that wears the crown, i can only speculate what that woman has been through for her to have so much hate towards innocent children.

  • status says:

    Bev and my dad treat her kids like his own, & my dad would believe every lie she told on us, Metty had a story up here one time and because I read the story I wrote my dad a long ass letter and told him everything, and that’s the reason why we have a relationship today

  • Met says:

    Status I am glad that helped you :kiss

  • Piinky says:

    Yes met its the h one. Me and my father don’t talk. We have no relationship. I don’t know if he resents mee also but he never was behind me from day one. Went through school and he never ask bout it. Have my child and he never once hold her he’s always saying some excuse bout he can’t hold her. From that time I just cut him off. I don’t want to hate him but I just can’t forget
    Bev thank you so much those words mean a lot

  • bev says:

    me to pretty my grand aunt only treat me different cause my father was jamaican its a long stroy trust me jamaicans are hated not only over here but in the caribbeam as well

  • me too pretty says:

    Met the last man me deh wid tell me say him love me from me a twelve……it is a disease rosta wha no have no cure. Pedophilia and carelessness still a run rampant ova deh so and everywhere else.

  • bev says:

    :peluk pinky

  • status says:

    Yes Metty it sure did, and now I think she hates me even more cause I have 2 girls and he adores the ground they walk on. And right now what she thinks or even feels doesn’t even matter to me anymore, but I know 1 thing if she everrrrrrr attempts to try what she did to me and my bros to my children, I will stand up in her chest like 5 strong man.

  • me too pretty says:

    Bev, i see yur aunty get caught up inna the race/color wars.

  • Quiet Storm says:

    I think one of the issues too is that some parents want to relive their lives through their children….. Not saying that you can’t or are not supposed to want what’s best for your child, but not because you the parent never got a chance to do certain things in life, it doesn’t mean that that’s what your child has to do.

    And if that child rebels or is unwilling to do or be what you want them to be, then dem is di moas wukliss an ungrateful ting fi eva grace di earth.

  • bev says:

    me too pretty u see it and my family is free light skin how dear my mother put herself with this as in they was black as tar jamican man

  • No Joke says:

    This is such a good idea….to the person that suggested it thumbs up. This present an outlet for ppl to air what they probably was holding onto all their life.

  • Tt says:

    Thx Met and others

  • ThEXOnE says:

    Bev, tears come a mi eyes….hush

  • status says:

    Bev well the problem for my paternal grandmother I was to light, she taught I was a jacket for my dad, but thank god for 1 trade mark the entire family has I was born with it just that it was red, cause my moms side of the family is Spanish and Chinese.

  • No Joke says:

    To all the jmg women who have been through it….I know your experiences have made you stronger women today…. :peluk

  • Met says:

    Piinky I understand

  • Met says:

    bev dem come wid di color complex thing? shame on them

  • Met says:

    tt :kiss

  • HIGHLY CONCERNED says:

    If me did follow my grandmada and har dutty ways me hate har even in death..Di uman disgusting and coulda say some wicked hurtful tings. But me figua she really neva know betta cause my mom told me she treat her and her siblings di same way so we nuffi pay har no mind.. Sometimes me tink forgiveness is overrated but u have to forgive, cause it will nam u alive. Im not saying my grandmother didnt love us, i know she did, but she had some wicked ways of showing it, meanwhile my grandfather as much as him coulda cuss badwod, he was the totally opposite of my grandmother. I loved that man dearly.

  • kia NUNYABIZNIZ bubblez says:

    mi wish death pon all dem peodaphile lawd mi kno it a sin fi wish death pon ppl but mi hate hate all a dem sickos dey av destroyed suh many innocent lives..it really hurts an caw tear a person dung..mi neva hate my mom just wish shi cuda protected mi from di fam weh molested mi :( neva talk bout it caz it hurts plus him a di favorite cuzin an dem bestest son smh God give mi strength… :(

  • No Joke says:

    Sorry Kia :sorry

  • Tawkchuet says:

    Kia :peluk what does not break us only makes us stronger girl u survived that’s the best revenge ever

  • Met says:

    kia best how ? so u never tell her? so sorry :kiss

  • bev says:

    met and status trust me them used to tell all kind of thing until me did afaird to visit my father in jamaican when me did little me thought jamaican was all black as tar and monkeys because that what they use dto tell me but I grow and learn and prove them wrong cause I was not born dark skin like my dad but was too dark for them yet today her son wife is as darker than me i alway wonder if she would have loved her grand child if she was alive

  • Real says:

    Everytime I want to say something bad about my mother even though I think she is a bully when I read what other ppl had to go through. I feel I do not have a right. I remember one girl telling me about her life and it traumatized me then I finally learn how to deal with it. Kia not because he is their favorite it means nothing to God. Remember that it is God you are pleasing so you can say whatever you want whenever you want because God is yours. He is nothing but a low life. Fancy words cannot cover up the truth.

  • bev says:

    kia be strong u made it though

  • me too pretty says:

    Kia it hard but try yuh best fi release it pon yuh oppressor cause him affi learn, if not him will continue the cycle. I am sure he might or will have his own children one day, so he should be advised. Have no fear dear heart, just go with it. T

  • me too pretty says:

    The worst part of it all is the secrecy. There is no shame in telling someone they have hurt you. It empowers you and even them, because they know what they have done and are also walking with shame.

  • kia NUNYABIZNIZ bubblez says:

    no jokeee chuet metty :peluk
    no mi neva tell dem…him a mommy favorite cuzin..him a big gray tone man now an him av all gurl pitni an grans mi jus pray fi dem. suh many time mi waa tell dem but… IDK is like mi neva memba memba jus av bad dreams an wen him around mi use av anxiety attack is like mi suppress it way way dung. wen mi dream mi caw si it vivid doa an couple time mi ketch him a give mi dutty luk mi jus scorn him right back an seh yes mi kno oh gawd
    :( peodaphile plant a very poisonous seed weh caw mek yu harm oddas chu di grace a God mi a prevail. wen mi read di comments it jus mek mi belly hurt :breakhear bout him a tun church deacon heeeeeeeeeeey God is a forgiver suh i mus try forgive too

  • Real says:

    Kia write a letter to the church and mek dem know wah gwaan ….di church conference ….photo copy di letter and keep sending it ….because it look like it really really a stifle yu ….a nuh fi yu fault but him need fi know seh yu memba ……wingless junccro

  • Met says:

    kia you should..even if it hurt her a little tell her about what he did

  • No Joke says:

    :kiss …Kia…..GOD HELPED U THROUGH IT ALL

  • No Joke says:

    TALK KIA…..YOU COULD BE THE VOICE FOR SOMEBODY HE IS TARGETING

  • me too pretty says:

    Kia fi yur own sake don’t mek this man win…..yuh see which part him end up inna, church where pedophiles congregate on a weekly basis. Dun him but gently he is a church man he will forgive you. Don’t mek him get away so easy. Him a hurt to….trust that.

  • Real says:

    Remember that somethings a sin and some is an abomination….he should be humiliated who cares if dem seh a lie tell ar mek shi know ….mi know of a similar case …and as dem bring up anybody inna da family deh name mi ask dem if a di /Pe…… dem a talk and den dem nuh go nuh further …..dem ppl deh need fi know weh dem do …who wah drop dung drop dung

  • Met says:

    Yes Real, Kia should tell her..he is a wolf in sheep’s clothing

  • No Joke says:

    I agree Real…Kia fi go go gi har testimony. God Forgives… But sometimes the best way to get to the Forgiveness stage is by talking about what you are forgiving that person for.

  • HIGHLY CONCERNED says:

    @Real agreed 100%..i dont know how dem sleep a nite afta di ungodly tings dem whe dem duh..

  • Quiet Storm says:

    When yuh kip quiet, yuh end up protecting them Kia….. He already hurt you, but maybe you can help someone else by talking up

  • No Joke says:

    Met this is one a di reasons mi pray Inna mi bed pon Sunday. Met dis mawnin mi a lissen a radio station….and the sports announcer a gi his reason y he detest his parents. Fawda run him out cause him gi food to him bredda. The mother left him at 2 and went to England never looked back. He met her when he was grown through force. Long story short she got caught carry drugs to England in 2010…. Met he bailed her….she got sentenced to 6 months…he brought fruits and cook food everyday. Mind you this lady never as much gave him a pair of shoes. She served her time and came out. He got her passport and papers and she went back to England(British National)….AND SHE NEVERRRR LOOKED BACK. Met he is going to Get his blessing….boy have a heart of Gold. He is 28 and now talking about it. Strangers raised him but he is grateful. The Duty fawda is a deacon in the church

  • Real says:

    Probably a molest somebody inna di church….mi have wah oman family member weh tell me seh ..anyting u hear a woman seh bout u a dem self dem a talk …because ppl only talk weh dem know …..If yu mada or any odda woman call yu certain things dem a talk bout dem self …truss mi dem ppl yah nuh change……it sad but true …him have rights to di young ppl inna di church now …….a nuh u one fi cry him wife and pickney dem got yeye wata to

  • No Joke says:

    Met tears flow dis mawnin and lass Monday….dis maanin was part 2. He is a blessed young man.

  • GoldRush_ says:

    Sorry I reply so late had to go do some things…. Thank u guys its true I need to give him dat hurt and let him have it. And met I think your so right I’m going to pray on that and god will send me the right person . It’s so true because there’s a hole in my heart and its been there for years and its time to heal. God will send me someone to help me heal that.

    Nuff blessings guyss. Gnight. :peluk

  • me too pretty says:

    real talk dat Real….mek dem suffa too, fear no man and go with God

  • me too pretty says:

    real talk dat Real….mek dem suffa too, fear no man and go with God

  • Dwrl says:

    My mother is the family bully, she try to bully everybody and tell them how to live their lives, she’s very critical of others.she knows it all but yet people walk all over her and take all type of advantage and libaty but a only the family she have strength FAH. Everything when she did young. I’m waiting patiently for when her reality bites. To her everyone around her are losers but yet she can’t show shit her have accomplished. She the type to get up every day and cuss, find faults of everybody and put every body down. If you live with her and don’t consider suicide that’s because you are just like her or you just block her out. She has no friends and everybody she comes in contact with ends up hating her, kind but she talk bout it behind you back. She’s not loyal to a dog, if she’s your friend and she knows your business she tell everybody every WEH she go. She chat the family like dog with every dog, fowl and Jancrow she come in contact with but if she hear you say anything you a chat you family . She’s the type a hypocrite that do wicked and pretend she’s not. She’s very verbally abusive , don’t know how to talk to people, she loud, blunt and obnoxious as f000. The only reason I feel the family chat to her is because a the freeness she give them, I could write a book on her

  • kia NUNYABIZNIZ bubblez says:

    real :peluk it stifles mi yes an mi try nuh memba any time mi hear rapist, molester, peodaphile it bring it back to surface…very hurtful. mi kno shi a guh blev…nuh kno weh fi stawt..it jus happen so long ago but yet it seems like yesterday. an dem pitni always vex seh dem cyaa guh ova nuh body yaad mi nuh trust a soul nopesssssss

  • No Joke says:

    Ohhhh and she got the younger brother in drug trafficking….he got caught in Mandeville on his way to Sangsters International airport (this happened prior to her arrest). The younger had somebody call him….because when they called her …her response was ‘ A NUH NUTTIN IF HIM SPEND ANOTHER DAY IN JAIL ‘.

  • Real says:

    and there is no one he can be a deacon….because u have to openly denounce your actions before ppl you have hurt or else yu cannot go to.. God… a di bible seh so a nuh mi ….so di fancy word nuh mean nutten and if you a trouble mekka u a mek trouble fi di Lord ….it is not right who cares who is to man ….yu have to protect your own feelings…….who wah drop drop ..it nuh right and it is not acceptable …..not because ur parents accept a ting that does not mean u have to accept it….dem did tell Jesus seh him mother and brother want to see him ….and him asked dem who is his mother or brother…….and him seh from yu live good and yu keep the truth and rights you are my brother and sister …..my girl nuh mek ppl fool yu a nuh everyting u haffi agree wid….true mi nuh agree wid ppl tings did get ruff but mi nah seh if mi did know so do u ting …from God is with u who can be against you ??

  • No Joke says:

    KIA TALK….YOU MIGHT THE VOICE FOR THAT LITTLE GIRL THAT FEELS HOPELESS….PLS TALK….

  • Real says:

    i mean no way he can be a deacon….Kia it happen long time but it shouldnt happen …@ dwrl yu mada a my mada????

  • Met says:

    No Joke some a dem worse dan common fowl that have kids u hear mi..she left and never looked back?? wowwiee smh

  • Real says:

    Kia buy wah pillow and wen nobody nuh dede kick di shit out a it ….cuss it and tell it how it hurt yu …and den mek di man know…if u want gi mi di phone no. mi wi call him and harrass him

  • Met says:

    dwrl what made you guys have conflict and in what ways are you similar and different?

  • No Joke says:

    Never….no thank you for looking out for me at Fort Augustus and taking me food and sorting out my legal papers. Never look back not a dollar or dime either.

  • Dwrl says:

    Base on the stories it would sound like we talking about the same person. From what I heard telling my story we have a whole lot of my mother type running around but very ALONE BECAUSE THEY THE TYPE THAT MAKE PEOPLE BITTER. TRUST I WAS BITTER UNTIL I LEARN TO BLOCK HER OUT AFTER FAILED SUICIDE AS A TEEN.

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Lol @ Real 10;15 last sentence

  • me too pretty says:

    Me say me read a book when me a likkle pickney called A child called It. Very moving and empowering. Hard read, but it kinda mek sense out of nonsense. Me nearly kill me neighbor son cause him play too rough wid my own. Me look pon the white ooman pickney and tell him say me will kill him if him eva mek my son bawl again. Me feel so shame, but me apologize to the likkle bwoy but me mek him madda know say my first born is my treasure and nobody nah spoil it. she understand me cause she feel the same bout fi har and ah one of the best neighbor anyone could have till this day.

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Met yuh know mi like di kwestian whey yuh ask dwrl @10’20….. Caw nuff time parents dislike dem pitney caw dem si thu much ah demself eena dem

    Notice di one dem whey evah ah clash, check di levels an u wii si sey ah chue mi ah tawk

  • No Joke says:

    Real….we can make a jmg effort….you call one night …I call a next night. I bet after we done him confess Inna Church

  • Met says:

    yes dwrl but becareful you may become a bit like her..your anger at her may turn you into what she was so I suggest you really find an outlet..u know das y mi doe pay u no mind when mi si u ina di topic dem…I allow you to have your way because I know you need that :kiss but release it please and let the universe deal wid it…if not you will not see the justice you want to see done

  • me too pretty says:

    DWRL bwoy me a tell yuh say that ooman yuh describe sound like a whole heap a big ooman me know…..dem have a saying say hurt people like fi hurt other people.

  • Real says:

    My name is real and my mother is a BULLY >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

  • Dwrl says:

    He going into church to molest more children I would tell fast because f he’s a decon the parents will trust him and allow him around their children giving him more opertunity to do what he do best. You should talk up you don’t know how many more he done it to that feel the same way you do……I feel most children was molested by a family member or family friend. My aunty friend try to fondle me when I was about 7-8 and I told they give him a rassing I’m sure he never forget and he never came back around.

  • Real says:

    no joke I know this is no joke …mi wi call especially when mi feel like mi a detective …

  • kia NUNYABIZNIZ bubblez says:

    THANK YOU REAL NO JOKE MET STORM CHUET ME2PRETTY HIGHLY ALL METTERS :maafaganwati mi aguh visit dem dis summa an talk up…silence is not always golden an mi a keep quiet too long now… thank you all :kiss

  • No Joke says:

    And Real whatever I do…I do it to the best of my ability….and I get results. I would drive him Maddddd

  • 187 Dem says:

    Damn I’m always late when the good stuff go up. Reading Bitters testament was very touching & the other metters..

    Anyways, as for myself I had resentment over the years for my biological mom who I never really grew up with. Growing up with my dad was not bad because he is a great father, but there is nothing like having your mom around being a young lady and going through life changes. I had a stepmom who I never really got along with but over the years have learned to deal with her & knew her as mother figure. Now that I’m older and have children of my own I made a promise to myself that no matter how hard times may get my babies will always be by my side. I’ve forgiven her now but I just will never make the same mistakes & would love to continue to be the best mother for my children.

  • No Joke says:

    :peluk yes Kia

  • Met says:

    Yuh si di church ting…di devil send many agents in there to destroy lives..people really have to be careful

  • Dwrl says:

    Always having problems on her job she can’t get along with anyone because of her ways. Everybody must go to college that way you can get good husband and send her on vacations, buy her house and pamper her. If you never went to college you are a loser. Mind you she in college donkey years now and can’t graduate. She’s the type that oh I’m this that and the other and in reality one lazy badwud badwud that don’t like to do shit. But she sees everybody faults but her own. Married 3 times and none work out but don’t blame her the men all had faults smh. She never took back a man she left ( she actually feel she left them) when in reality a the man dem walk out on her. She full a jealousy. Hate and BADMIND and feel America make her better than the rest of family members everybody is out to get her because she’s princess Diana

  • Met says:

    Around what age is she dwrl?

  • Met says:

    Yes Kia talk…you will be amazed at what it will really do to you

  • Real says:

    No joke den nuh dat a di key …..very random calls 1 pm 2am 6am 6pm etc

  • Real says:

    dwrcl ………di laziness a dat have mi ….welcome my sister …welcome

  • No Joke says:

    Real :thanks2

  • Real says:

    dem ting yah get mi real mad ….and mi realise se it coulda probably happen to mi but fi wi life did set up different …plus mi fada and mi uncle dem did MAD ..so dat probably stop nuff ppl ……mi used to wonder why dem tan so dem mi realise …seh dem neva have no other way fi protect dem pickney ….now mi get it

  • Anonymous says:

    I resent my father for going to America and leaving us to suffer , when we would write to him he would tell us he is having a hard time finding work and I believed him, we went to bed hungry many nights and had no clothes , I use to be so ASHAMED , when I came to America (visa) the man no file for us, I found letters from different women in Jamaica thanking him for all the money he sent them(the same time he’s telling us he has no job or money)and the help they got from him putting them through hair school, dress making school, business school , while we went hungry without clothes and keep stopping from school because of lack of funds .

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Ah whappen to Real man?!!! Yuh mek mi buss out a big laaf eena di seerus tapik yah….. ‘My name is Real and my mother is a BULLY’ I dies to rawtid

  • Real says:

    quiet storm a true mi a talk…….when shi start pon di bullyism inna di middle a di phone call mi exit ………some time mi tell ar later and some time mi nuh know weh fi seh so mi jus exit widout warning

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Mi seyyyyy…. Real, when fimi own stawt mi duss get silent an den mi tell har sey layta, cause if mi nuh do dat, wi surely goin clash…. Mi all si di numba sometime an ignore it, ah juss so it go sometime yaw man

    Good ting bout it, is like shi ah get di mesage now…..Once mi get silent, mi hear di tone change

  • Met says:

    eyn 10’57 so sad. what was his excuse for not sending money?

  • Real says:

    yes sah and a tell mi weh fi do .. so mi ask ar wah mek shi nuh do it ……den mi hear how mi run up ar blood pressa…den wen shi start tell mi bout di bredda and sista pickney dem mi ask ar if dem top teef and rae and shi seh ..it sound like u r not inna good mood so I will call later………

  • Quiet Storm says:

    EYN, dont want to rub salt in the wound….but yuh father was no good. Don’t want to say worthless, but I am really inclined to say so

    Don’t worry, God will deal with him

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Lol @Real… An nuh ask if dem nuh love play di ‘guilt trip’ card

  • Anonymous says:

    Met the man sey nothing no go so , I took all his letters and have them to this day , they say is the one who step in doo-doo remember it not the one who shit

  • Met says:

    yes always that is wicked though him remember because man whey give out money dont forget

  • Anonymous says:

    him mind everybody trust mi , mi use to resent God ,especially when people tell mi say God a mi father ,mi use to say not so a backside. mi heart started to turn to ice but GOD is helping me to let it go.

  • Anonymous says:

    quiet-storm not offended at all

  • Real says:

    quiet storm a di guilt trip keep dem going.yu woulda tink its a real vacation..but mi nah go nuh weh pon nuh free ticket so it does nothing to me

  • Real says:

    Good night everyone. Remember somethings we cannot explain. However, do not let these things take away from your worth. Anyone that would do certain things to a child is worthless and abominable, it is very hard to deal with but if you did not give a person something then they do not really have it.Do not respect anyone too much you will end up disrespecting yourselves. Good night God is always near.

  • Pupping pop says:

    He was physically, emotionally and verbally abusive.

  • fabulous69 says:

    Met plz put this bck pon di front….i never really had a problem with my parents my dad took very good care of us..my mother left us wen i was 10 to come to the states to make a better life for us but growing up i use to wish she was there….even thou am here with itheher it ike i still feel a sense of loneliness…i dnt why is tht

  • Met says:

    fabulous we will have part 2

  • fabulous69 says:

    ok met thank u

  • Anonymous says:

    I dont know if any of the men wrote anything, but I would like to know how if any thing like this have impacted their lives. I was with a man from Jamaica for 3 years and he used to tell me how he resented his mother. She left when he was 9 and did not come back until he was about 21. Matter of fact, she get deported. And that when he found out she remarried, bought a house, and simply forgot about them. He said he would wait and wait and look in the sky for the airplane to bring her back as a boy. She never wrote or sent a barrel. He ended up going to stay in waterhouse with his father, stepmom, and sibling
    (malatra road) and learn things the hard way. He told me he resented her because he felt he never had the love of a mother, so did not know how to love a woman. Any men know this feeling? help me understand.

  • Hotstepper...formerly Peeper says:

    Mi did tiad last nite so me never see this…I RESENT my mom, because she have no parenting skills and she did not protect me when I was a child…she was married to a very abusive man that use to beat her like a runaway slave and everytime he beats her he beats me too, and when me a talk bout beat, imagine me as a little girl a get big man kick, bax and tump dung….I always prayed for them both to die, she use to beat me real bad to…I am not saying that I was a perfect child, but no child deserve to be treated that way…on mothers day we had a convo about it and her excuse was that i did things to her when I was a child….I tell her that yes I did things that was not right but it was not aimed at her one bit, but to be honest I am just gonna let it rest because she dont think she did anything wrong….she feels some things I say is geared towards her, and I try to explain that it is not, some things I do now as a parent is based off of how she behaved as a parent and i will never put my children through these things….too bad if it hurt her

  • Cindy Royal says:

    I resent my parent (mother) because she disciplined on hearsay without giving me a chance to explain. All it did was make me rebellious & resentful of her & the ppl telling her things. Fortunately, I’ve made it my goal to act the opposite with any child in my care. I will listen to what someone is saying my child did, but I won’t discipline my child in their sight or hearing & my child will definitely get the chance to explain & from that I will pick the sense out of the nonsense.

  • Quiet Storm says:

    Amen @Cindy…. No hearsay beating. Give children the chance to explain themselves. Mi get beaten becaw adult tell lie pon mi, so mi know how it is.

    Good morning Met and Metters

  • Hotstepper...formerly Peeper says:

    Cindy I totally understand what u mean…people now always tell me sey mi act like me and my kids are friends, but I dont, I am a mother to them but I also have that relationship that they can tell me anything, and no matter what anyone tell me them do, I am not going to beat them…if I think they were wrong, I will talk to them nicely and let them know why its wrong, but me nah beat dem…mi get nuff a dat from my mother.

    She feel mi love my father more than i love her, and her reasoning is because i would give my father my last…I have to remind her when she lived in Jamaica with my brothers, she got everything from me and my dad got nothing…now my father is sickly and cannot work, so I send money montly for his food…and di woman jealous over that…mi woulda give me enemy food

  • This topic a mash up my med inna the day yah,, too much memories Jesus Christ help mi mi caan tek, all my son come come now asking “y r u crying mom”

  • mekada says:

    I resent my dad for being a dead beat asshole who left when I was 6 and I resent my mom for giving me up at 9 months then forgetting that I exist until I was 17 thank u both for giving me life and showing me what NOT to do with my own kid

  • Quiet Storm says:

    @EYN 12’47……Nuh cry mama. Talk (well type), we are here to listen….Like the topic said ‘Therapy session’…. Talk mama, talk. Get it off your chest

  • 187 Dem says:

    Met,

    Good Aftanoon this was a really interesting topic. I think for some it really bought some relief & help to vent & express their true feelings. Each one teach one & these are realistic topics that’s been happening & still does today, so it’s good to know that talking about it & trying to forgive provides some form of consolation. Hopefully someone reading this who maybe going through anything discussed above will find the strength to address their situation & try to forgive because Lord knows it’s hard to forgive a person when they steal your innocence, abuse you physcally or even deprive you of certain priveleges when you’re a child.

    I’m waiting for part II :peluk

  • dick r harde says:

    aaarrrmmmm…….so which of all these traumatized women in here are now strippers???…….just wondering………lmfao

    sorry but more time a likkle lafter help….cause if unnu go chue all a wha unnu a chat bout and na swing round no pole after dark unnu a stronger ppl dan unnu really know……

  • Dwrl says:

    You are really a dick lmfaoooooo @ met my father leaving and kept me was the problem especially I was told I look just like him. Guessing she sees him in me so she hates me for that. Mothers hate their children when the father love them more than the mothers( girl children). She’s in her mid fifties. My mother is very dark and not very good looking. Everywhere we go people always telling her how beautiful I am SHE HATES THAT. SHE WAS TEASED VERY BADLY AS A CHILD I NEVER HAD THOSE PROBLEMS. SHE GO AS FAR AS TO TELL ME HOW SHE SHAPED BETTER THAN ME. WE JUST EVER SEE EY TO EYE BECAUSE SHE WOULD TAKE MY BROTHER EVERYWHERE AND LEFT ME BEHIND WITH MY GRANNY OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS. FROM A CHILD SHE NEVER SHOW ME MUCH LOVE. MY UNTS WERE ALWAYS MORE OF A MOTHER TO ME THAN HER. SHE TOLD ME ONCE NO MAN WILL NEVER WANT ME BECAUSE MY FATHER DIDN’T. WHICH SPEAKING ABOUT IT LATER TO FAMILY I REALIZE SHE WAS LYING SHE WAS SAYING THOSE THINGS TO HURT ME. EVERY MAN I EVER BEEN WITH I LEFT, EVEN THOUGH SHE TELL THEM ALL TYPES OF DIRTY OUT OF CHARACTER SHIT TO LET THEM LEAVE ME, WHEN THEY DON’T LEAVE ME HE TURN AGAINST THEM. FUNNY THING EVEN THOUGH SHE ARTIED SO MANY TIMES IT WEREN’T FOR LOVE. GREENCARDS!

  • Met says:

    yes dwrl some mothers take out the hate for their child’s father on the child but it is not really the man she hate its herself

  • Dwrl says:

    I’m nothing like her because I see things differently. She’s the type that like everyone to agree with her no matter how wrong she is. I’m always a challenge( sure you noticed it here also lol) she expect to tell you the grass is green and you see green even though in your eyes it’s yellow. I tell how I see it she never like that. We have a aunt that take advantage of her for a very long time. I saw her for who she was and told her( a real bitch) she say I’m only saying that because I don’t like her. Low and behold the truth reveals itself( everything in darkness come to light). She never said to me you where right all along. But atleast when she do talk about the situation she say ” my daughter did tell me long time” which is good enough for me. I see people for exactly who they are and I stay away , she see it and stay til it bite her. Too trust worthy. I on the other don’t trust anyone unless my gut feeling tell me I should. I believe in an eye for an eye, she otherwise . We nothing alike. She love mine man, if a nigro don’t have his shit or mine me HIM NO EVEN GET A SECOND OF MY TIME

  • Dwrl says:

    Most Jamaican mothers.

  • Infirmedwoman says:

    My life is an open book and cause me ever a chat bout mi past, I am able to heal about 75%…

    Mi use to resent mi madda but not anymore because I believe a God mek things the way they are.

    My parents left me since I was 3, I grew with an aunt that verbal abuse me that if I had taken her words as gospel I wouldnt be here right now.
    I was sexually abused from the age 4/5 by a neighbour and a next neba ask fi a piece and me run weh so him go talk and mi granny gimmi a piece a beaten that at the age of 30yrs mi still a feel the licks.

    Then various abuse happen from all close family friend.

    At 9yrs old a family fren who was about 18 tried it and mi talk and they didnt believe me.

    At 13yrs I had a gun put to my head by a family friend and I told him I rather die because if he raped me no one is gonna believe. He walked away.

    At 16yrs old mu aunty 40+ husband start molesting me and I found out the whole family knew and even served me up on plate for him. I would go to other family house and they would run mi back right unda him balls…

    At 18yrs old him & him friend push dem hand unda mi and mi aunts where there and I complain and to this day me see dem still a laff…cause thats what they did. I packed my bag and headed out d door…

    I resent my father because he always took his sisters side against me. dem tell bare lies on me and he believed them and said some hurtful words to me plus when one d sister husband dida rape me off she had d audacity to say me a keep man a road dat time har ada sista yard me deh…

    Met & Metters I am on a healing path and I am getting there…I write alot and pray and that has helped.

    Nah lie nuff time me feel fi go poilce station and report that uncle in law and mi aunty..

    oh and Met the worst part is this man molest alot of kids before and after me and these people siddung and do nothing. sometimes I feel like I am no better for not putting a stop to him, but the thing is tru dem label mi from birth as a whore, trouble maker, liar and all d names in d book, i am afraid.

  • Met weh part 2, I keep coming back to this

  • Met says:

    Friday night

  • Original Goodas says:

    I’m reading this and tears just a fall from me eyes so… Hey some parents wicked no bumboclaat though.

  • simplicity says:

    stay strong infirm :peluk

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

[+] kaskus emoticons nartzco

Current day month [email protected] *

DISCLAIMER The views or opinions appearing on this blog are solely those of their respective authors. In no way do such posts represent the views, opinions or beliefs of “Met,” or jamaicangroupiemet.com. “Met” and jamaicangroupiemet.com will not assume liability for the opinions or statements, nor the accuracy of such statements, posted by users utilizing this blog to express themselves. Users are advised that false statements which are defamatory in nature may be subject to legal action, for which the user posting such statements will be personally liable for any damages or other liability, of any nature, arising out of the posting of such statements. Comments submitted to this blog may be edited to meet our format and space requirements. We also reserve the right to edit vulgar language and/or comments involving topics we may deem inappropriate for this web site.

****RULES**** 1. Debates and rebuttals are allowed but disrespectful curse-outs will prompt immediate BAN 2. Children are never to be discussed in a negative way 3. Personal information  eg. workplace, status, home address are never to be posted in comments. 4. All are welcome but please exercise discretion when posting your comments , do not say anything about someone you wouldnt like to be said about  you. 5. Do not deliberately LIE on someone here or send in any information based on your own personal vendetta. 6. If your picture was taken from a prio site eg. fimiyaad etc and posted on JMG, you cannot request its removal. 7. If you dont like this forum, please do not whine and wear us out, do yourself the favor of closing the screen- Thanks! . To send in a story send your email to :- [email protected]