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THE MOMENT I KNEW IT WAS OVER

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The moment I knew it was over…
By DONNA HUSSEY-WHYTE All Woman writer [email protected]
Monday, May 06, 2013

CALL it woman’s intuition, call it wisdom, call it ‘once bitten twice shy’, whatever it is, some women can readily tell you the moment they knew their relationships were over.
The topic #themomentiknew recently trended on Twitter, where women and men shared their stories of the exact moment they knew they were headed for divorce. The stories ranged from one woman having had the other woman call, to another having the man refuse to visit her after major surgery.
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Here, some readers share just when they knew their relationships were over for good.
Roberta M, 42:
I was unemployed for a while and was home taking care of our seven month old baby. My husband worked shifts. For two days he did not come home and for two days I had absolutely nothing to eat. I mean nothing. I was breast feeding and bottle feeding but there was no formula in the house. I had to give my son breast milk round the clock, so imagine just how weak I was. When my husband finally came home he was not in his regular work clothes but was wearing a T-shirt that I had never seen before. His shirt was in a bag covered with grease. I found out he was taking box food — ackee and saltfish — to a girl he was involved with and it spilled on his clothes. So one, I was home with our son hungry and he didn’t take food to us, and two, I was now supposed to wash the clothes that got messed up while he was taking food to his other woman whom he valued more than his family. Oh, and the T-shirt he was in belonged to her!
Melissa W, 38:
We were together for three years and he told me one evening that he was going out with someone else and I was not to ask any questions about it because it was not my business. He went as far as to tell me that whatever he did or didn’t do was not my concern.
Gwenneth H, 47:
I was with him for 15 years. One day he loaned me his phone because mine was not working. He had locks on his picture files but somehow I got into them. I saw a video of him having sex with a girl in our bedroom. That was the exact moment I knew it was over.
Geraldine R, 36:
When he started walking away from me in order to talk on his phone, and he would whisper. And I heard him end his conversations with ‘love you baby’. He never told me that.
Andrea M, 43:
We had one car. I decided to drive to work one day and he decided to drive too. We ended up in a tussle and he took away the keys. I got them back. When I went out and started the car he came out and grabbed the keys. I decided to take a taxi. When the taxi came he pushed me down in front of the car, which had other passengers in it. Once I saw that disrespect I knew it was over.
Camille F, 51:
After four years I just knew the relationship was going nowhere. I was not being emotionally satisfied and one day I heard the song ‘Til I can make it on my own by Tammy Wynette and just decided that it was time to go.
Lisa M, 37:
When I realised that the things that he did that used to hurt me didn’t hurt me anymore. And I started to judge and criticise everything he did. So the little things that were cute just weren’t anymore.

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15 Responses to THE MOMENT I KNEW IT WAS OVER

  • Brightlight says:

    The way some man wicked sometimes i feel like I don’t ever want a girl child. I don’t know why or what makes so many men feel ok with hurting a woman. Why be with a woman you know u don’t love? Why breed a woman u don’t love? Not saying women can’t be wicked either but some men need a 00ing gunshot! Some men deserve to wake up with their balls in their mouth!

  • Cindy Royal says:

    I find the 1st story especially sad. How could he do that to his baby? smh

  • ThEXOnE says:

    Hurt people hurt people

  • Pennyboom says:

    I knew it was over when I was pregnant he started another relantionship while I was pregnant so he care nothing about me or his child and till this day no respect for me or child when it come to him I don’t even look……

  • Anonymous says:

    real talk. they need to go open door for someone else.

  • smh says:

    I walked away from a 12yr relationship just knew it was over. When I stopped caring. Too much Bs.

  • Sensational says:

    Well the world is a hurtful place, you also have to ask your self why don’t people stop being selfish. No love in our hearts. We full of vengeance, god did not create us this way.

  • Dwrl says:

    I KNEW IT WAS OVER WHEN MI TELL HIM “” Go suck him MADDA”

  • Dwrl says:

    @cindy royal typical Jamaican man nasty behavior, I would have burn that fooog pants. But it wouldn’t happen to me. I feel deep down certain things only happen to certain people because he would not have had a home to come home to muchless bring dirty clothes while wearing the next bitch shit. Smh

  • Dwrl says:

    Sometimes you need to walk away before you or him get carried away literally. But on a real some woman and man know it over and they still holding on hoping the person will change. Nobody change unless they want to, you can only change you and it’s your change that allow you to realize the situation is no longer pleasing to you. EVERYTHING MUST COME TO AN END

  • Pupping pop says:

    When I realized he’s not on my level. I matured he remains the same.

  • No Joke says:

    When the little things he use to do….he stopped doing them completely

  • seriousbloodclautt says:

    I KNEW IT WAS OVER WHEN I CAME HOME FROM WORK EARLY TO CATCH MY SISTER RIDING MY MAN’S DICK. FIVE YRS DOWN THE DRAIN.

  • simplicity says:

    yuh sista!!!!!!! danggggggggggggggg

  • Brightlight says:

    @serious WHAT THE 000!!!! :matabelo

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