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LADIES! Here are FACTs about MEN and LOVE


If a guy is good looking,
Don’t immediately assume he is a playa. Not every Will Smith is an Eric Bennet, so read beyond the fine print and you will be surprised. Don’t deprive yourself a Mr Gorgeous because of fear of the unknown, think about the children, they’ll be good looking, minus years of trying to convince them they are ‘beautiful’ and being called to the school cause s/he roughed some kid who called them ‘Butt Face’, ‘Mugabe’, ‘Nkosazana Zuma’, etc.

If a guy has a child with another woman,
90% of the time, he’ll go back to the woman. Either the woman will use the child to interrupt every moment you spend together, or the guy will realize he made a big mistake and go back to his ‘family’. Chances of you winning over his child are nil, that’s a battle you’ve already lost. Advice: Leave Mr Family Man or kill the child. Make your pick.

If a guy cheats on you,
He’ll do it again. If you stay, he’ll cheat even more. No woman can make a guy stop cheating, not even his mother. Cheaters are like a small kid, once they tasted sweets, no matter what you do or say, they’ll find a way to get hold of them. Stop looking for water in a desert, because you’ll find none.
Advice: Leave the looser and find a real man who’ll give you his all OR stay with the cheat and be a subscriber of Tissues, cos you will be weeping till you get to your grave. He might even find a girl to replace you, cos he doesn’t really need you, or he’ll keep you to cook for him and do his laundry, while he gets his groove on.

If a guy hits you,
Yes even if it’s a slap – leave. If you stay, you have convinced him that it’s okay if he beats you. Ladies, it is not love, it is lust. Stop convincing yourself that ‘if you hit a child, it’s because you love them’, You are not a child and he is not your Parent. Do you go around beating up your bestfriends? Think about it!

If a guy says he loves you,
Probably he truly does. Make sure you can differentiate between being in love and being in lust. How to do that? Simple.

Does he cheat? Hit you? Insult you? Abuse you in anyway? If you answered ‘YES’ to any of these, U ARE IN LUST – LEAVE!!!

Does he respect you? Makes you feel special? Treat you like a queen? If you answered ‘YES’ to any of these, U ARE IN LOVE – YOU LUCKY FISH, HOLD ON TO WHAT YOU’VE GOT!!!

Ladies, Don’t be a statistic by committing suicide, being in a coma from his beatings or die from Aids which he infected you with. There is always life after a break up, Brace yourselves women, you have come this far, don’t disappoint! God will never let you down and if you are looking for LOVE, Look within yourself and you will get enough.




  • eyecandy says:

    met is the same guy wrote this?

  • OBSERVER says:

    Always loved your Peotry Mr :) but let me agree to disagree on the matter of “If a guy has a child with another woman” There’s gonna be a lot of lonely ppl in dis world if I should adhere to this :hammer

  • .?? says:

    @observer. Same sooo.. These chicks thinks it ok to just have a baby and the men will eventually love and stay in “that” child’s life forever unlike the other siblings.. Sad but the women of today needs to do better daddy can always pack and go on to the next, but mommy have to keep and care that “gift” forever..At the rate we are going in today’s society we are doomed before we area conceived..

  • Met says:

    this is the shitzzz..eyecandy no a nuh di same guy write dis..

  • OBSERVER says:

    Yes @ .?? if a man a treat yuh rite tek em yes n mek an stawt a new life but is like pertainin 2 dis post once em a smaddy babydaddy yuh muss’n tek em mi nuh ovastan ooooo :bingung DIVORCE RATE HIGH, COST A LIVING HIGH while NUCLEAR FAMILIES are all on the low suh weh dem family deh weh bruk up fi duh stay single?? Yuh maddddddd a bare mad ppl wudda deh a worl cazzen seh oil a guh ride dem like jockey :hammer

  • No Joke says:

    Observer ….yuh know seh mi si dat an mi know dat nuh true. An nuh everybody man have pickney wid dem actually si a future wit. Cause a man can be with someone else and still take full responsibility fi the child and nuh waan di baby mawda as dem woman. And di part bout IF I GUY SAYS HE LOVES….This person hit it right on the head. Women should know how fi differentiate LOVE FROM LUST

  • Yep! says:

    Ladies, when y’all get a chance, listen to this song by Alicia Meyers ( Heavenly Father).. This song says it all!

  • OBSERVER says:

    No joke dats y mi a wonda if a typo

  • Good night met. mi really love dis post real talk

  • chen says:

    some men do not care bout their child at all they would choose woman over their child quick so that 90% should be 60% and those woman who would be with a man who do not pay attention to their children should double think and i’m talking off experience my father left my mother for another female before i even reach age 1 and because of woman my father never play his role….

  • Met says:


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