HOW IS DOLLY BABY BOO RIGHT NOW?

xpert: Isabelle Stewart – 11/18/2010
Question
i am desperately seeking advise as to what to do next.
here’s my story.I am a 24 year old black female from
Jamaica.and i am currently married to a 39 year old white
guy from the U.S.he is a U.S citizen just to add.we are a
interracial couple and he’s 15 years older than i am.

i got married at the age of 23 years old while still living
with my parents.and my husband at the time was 38 years
old.we had met in a social website called hi5 of last year
may 2009 and got married October 2009.so we approximately
dated for 4 months before we tied the not.we had met each
other in the social network website called hi5.the first two
months of our relationship was great.

in third month of the relationship it was really
terrible.because he uses talk nasty to me..he was always
constantly verbally abusing me at the time and i did not see
it until now.but he did wanted us to get married august of
last year 2009.i was unsure of marrying him cause we had not
known each other for a long time.he was always and
constantly forcing and pressuring me into marrying him.my
family didn’t approve of him for me to marry him cause they
were saying i don’t know him.i don’t anything about him and
he’s probably a psycho and they don’t believe in the whole
idea of hooking up with anyone online..I did not listen
despite the warnings.

anyway it was really hard for me to decide and make up my
mind because one side of my mind is saying go for it while
the other side is saying get to know him more.i wasn’t gonna
marry him but he just keeps putting the pressure on me so i
give in.

all through the marriage right up until this day is very
rocky.i have to constantly put up with verbally abuse.at
times when he get upset on the phone he told me if i was
near by him he would choke me.he’s currently doing the CR1
visa for me to go live in the U.S.but i don’t wanna go cause
i fear my life and that he’s gonna bring harm to me.

he had visited me this year August 2010 in Jamaica and when
he was here he told me he had scoliosis.something i wasn’t
aware of when i plan on marrying him..but he decide to tell
me later on down the road.he had lied to me about a lot of
things.

the main reason why i want an annulment is that i came to
find out a month ago that he had been impersonating me
online..especially in Facebook,Myspace,Hi5,Tagged,Netlog and
so much more i probably not aware of.but he had been
impersonating me as a lesbian/bi-sexual female which am not
and never will be either.because he had impersonate me he
had hit on girls from Jamaica all across the world..but
especially girls who lives in my town.and when i tried to
consult them online to tell them it’s not me doing it…they
threaten to physical harm me if they ever see me face-to-
face.

he had manage to stole my identity (Identity theft) and had
manage to ruin my image and reputation as a person.cause i
came to found out her had post naked pictures and videos of
me on Facebook and other people are coping in it and posting
it to other websites…like this particular website
http://jamaicangroupiemet.com/2010/11/dolly-baby-boo.html
which they no longer has the post cause they later deleted
it after i contact them about it.

his behavior is sick and perverted.i think he has a mental
disorder or something…cause there’s no way a normal person
who loves another and care for them would do this.because of
it i am having a nervous breakdown…i am totally stressed
out and depressed where i am having high blood pressure
issues and frequent migraine.he had hurt me mentally as well
as emotionally.he just prove my family right of the things
they did told me about him.i have no idea what i get myself
in but i believe he uses me.he always wanted to control me
and tell me what to do and who to be friends with.we never
live together before…cause am still currently living in
Jamaica.i realize i made a mistake of marrying him cause i
was pressure under the influence of him forcing me into
marriage which i wasn’t ready and know nothing about.what
he’s doing is mental cruelty to me of torturing my image.

I also had came to find out that he had been impersonating
his other ex girlfriends online in the most discriminated
way.my older sister had talk with the local cops here but
they said we should go to the capital city of Jamaica to
report this matter of Identity Theft.I had manage to
constant the FBI in the states and they told me to contact
the embassy here and they will put me through to Bridgeport
FBI..which i haven’t done yet…cause i also call the
sheriff department in Houston Texas where my husband is
currently living and they told me they don’t take these kind
of report (Identity theft) over the phone.i had to be
physically be in the states in order to make the report or
have a family member whose in the states to call and make
the report on my behalf..so far as i can see i just keep
getting the run around…and there’s nothing i can do to
stop my husband my continuing to impersonate me.

about two weeks ago when i call him..i don’t know if it was
a confession or not but he told me he had been a female
online for 5 years..obviously he had been impersonating his
ex-s and other women online for 5 years.he also told me he
had over 10,000 pictures of people.. supposedly females who
he claims and believe that is lesbians and bi-sexual.if i
had knew this much about him..i wouldn’t had marry him to
begin with…cause all of this is just crazy.My older sister
had told me that my husband had talk to my brother-in-law
about a ex i use to date..that he wants my brother-in-law to
take him to my ex so that he can use a dildo and sex him in
the anus and kill him.with the things he say and do does
make me wonder if he’s not bi-sexual cause i can’t
understand why he would impersonate me online as someone am
not.
obviously i had married to a complete stranger.if i had know
he had been a woman online i would had not married him to
begin with.i believe and so does my family that he had
married to use me.all he wanted was my personal information
so that he can use it online to wreck my life and to gain
twisted pleasure for himself cause he’s a pervert.i wish i
had known.

i am wondering if there’s a grounds in my story to get a
marriage annulment.i would rather a marriage annulment
instead of a divorce because i don’t want no ties to this
man or to have the stigma of a divorce…even though
marriage on a whole,divorce and annulment is not something i
know much about.i wish i had enjoy my youth and not rush
into something i had no idea about.because of what my
husband had done. it had scar me mentally and emotionally.i
don’t even see how am ever gonna get over it and move on.

I just want my life back.it there’s away i can get
annulment?if so how much would it cost?what is the time
frame to get one?do i have to be separate for a period of
time before i can file for one?