DEAR MET- ASHAMED
Goodafternoon Met,
I need your followers of jmg opinion on something I have been struggling with for a couple of years and I’m still at a cross road. Met I also listen to your advise as you never take sides you dish it fairly, let me start by saying I once was a friend to someone I loved her dearly then and I also love her still to this day but the lifestyle she continue to part take in I don’t want anything to do with anymore I have just recently turn my life over to the lord and just want to live better. Everyday I think about what I have done and unable to make peace with myself, I also don’t want to open a closed wound if it’s close. See I had a best friend and she was dating a married man and at first I really thought this man was in a really bad unhealthy relationship and his wife was crazy and just would not let him go. My friend seems so smitten and in love with this guy he was always with her and just showed my friend so much love (I thought) time passed by and my friend would call me complaining stressed out because this man was still living with his wife even though most night he slept by my friends home. The man had multiple of children with his wife and his wife also was young so I used to tell my friend give him time to leave but she began to get impatient but my friend had me so caught up with her because yes I was sleeping with my best friend also but it was not love it was something I tried with her and my husband at the time prior to this was dying and I see now I was vulnerable, and hurt because this same friend her cousin was sleeping with my husband have a child with him and I had no clue ! I was devasted , see her cousin used to give my husband manicure and pedicure he had a lot of money so you know what took place next. My friend states that she never knew and I believe her up to this day because her loyalty to me showed itself because she stop talking to her cousin because I was so hurt, my husband died in the hospital and she was there for me so I loved her as a friend and would do anything for her. Let me get back to what I am unable to forgive myself see my friend came up with a plan to get this man to finally leave out his house for good and hate his wife and it did not stop there my friend had me call the police and get this man arrested out of her home it was bad he was walking out the garage and the police ambush him! Everything played out perfect and the man went to jail and my friend got him completely and everything was great he moved in with my friend etc. please met at the time I only saw my friends pain and wanted her to be happy , we continued to sleep with each other I don’t think the man ever found out, because it was just sex and at times she stated she wanted to give him a 3 sum and yes I was open for it. Things started getting bad between them my friend was obsessed with getting rid of his wife so we went down to the obeya man and she tied him and wanted the lady to destroy the mans wife. She did and bought everything to keep that man I look at it now and say what was I thinking but then I was just my friends ride or die, I had money I needed nothing but I loved her ! We did so much thing to that mans wife we got her to loose her job we completely made him see that his wife was a cruel women and she was terrorizing him we did everything to make him hate her , he left my friend and eventually went back to his wife and that still never stop my friend she became completely obssessed with destroying the man and his wife. She then called police and told them the man is a drug dealer and just gave up his real information, her theory was if he got deported she could be with him cause his wife was not a citizen she could rescue him it got so bad her obsession. I tried to talk to her nothing got through she would call his family get information on him and feed to the officer she would watch every move his wife make at the kids school ! She even went as far as to contact the children school to get them kicked out she called where his wife live to get her evicted she did everything !! Months passed by and the world is so small I went to a boyfriend family function and I saw this man wife with his kids but the man was not there and I was so nervous because I’m looking at her and her children and she has no idea I am apart of why her life probably was upside down. Her daughter was so beautiful and sweet and looked just like the father and suddenly those brown eyes melt my heart and I instantly felt like scum, was I to be Blake for this man leaving his wife ? All the things that we did to destroy her life ? My heart starting racing I wanted to cry but everyone would like at me like I’m crazy ! I was introduced to her because my boyfriend is related to her she was pleasant and humble not what my friend portraited to me at all , I was introduced to all of her children they all look exactly like this man but my friend convinced me that this man children were not his those children were well put together and dressed nicely . I watched her all night with her family and kids and I’m asking myself why why did I try to destroy this family why did I part take in it , I see the man sometimes and everything in me wants to tell this man that my friend did it all ?? But I’m scared !! I played a role to in it , then I did the next best thing I asked one of my girlfriends to call him and tell him what my friend has done ?? That back fired he blamed the wife because my friend called me because apparently he called her And she now wanted to know who I told I said nobody . She was worried that he would find out but she relaxed after knowing I told nobody ,and the other person other than me who knew was not around . My question to you is should I go to him and confess what I have done ? I want to make peace with this but I don’t want to cause no harm but if I even played a role in breaking up a family then should I say it to the wife or the man ? I may loose my friend ? But should keep a friend like that ? I’m even holding it from my boyfriend and he sometimes feels bad for his cousin because she left to raise all those kids by herself . I know god is going to deal with me for my role but will it cause more harm than good to tell the truth ? Please I know I’m wrong and there is so much I left out because if the parties come on this website they would be able to put it together but my friend did so much things it’s too graphic to say . Thanks again
*People, please do not be too hard on the senders who write in for advice, it is sometimes through the lives of others we are able to make changes in our own lives *
PHILLY COME FINISH UP
Hello. Mettters
Philly again..
This is the famous tt/tiana.
Dem have surprise party fi har and poor Curly look like dem force him fi come deh. Curly di sit dung pon di chair and no stop screw up him face,no Matta how di sista dem a try fi fake like di couple is happy it was not happening.. Mi a Wonda if a di last fight weh she a shauna pop ova shauna man last month meck Curly a move sooo? curly sweetie u been a get bunn cause that gal cah keep 1 man and u cah turn a whore into a housewife..
Next is the famous Keisha gangsta look how dem loving and Keisha nearly kill tt last year wid a bottle to a har head that dem did all a go court.. DWBL. Keisha a whofa man dis you a show off wid now?? Di poor man look innocent and don’t have a clue sey u a JEZEBEL. Mi sarrii fi him.
DI DESERT EAGLE HAS RISEN
Chrisy Scott-mccalla
Chrisy Scott-mccalla
are-postal / american eagle in Tampa it was a great experience school supplies and sneaker left fi buy my kids dem born with gold spoon musa shamar and des jr powwwww
KP YUH COMPLIMENT NEED A LIL REVISON…..
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WTF AFRICA- DENCHU REVEALED AT DI WEDDU
Saturday, August 04, 2012 – Drama unraveled in Mtwapa Mombasa County when a bride’s teeth fell on the ground as her groom fed her with the ceremonial cake.
There was humor at the wedding reception grounds as the crowd of people could not believe their eyes when they saw the petite beauty without teeth.
Allegedly the petite lady had an accident months ago while she was drunk after her Belgium fiancé asked her to marry him. She went out with her friends that evening and intoxicated herself. As she was leaving the bar she tripped on the stairs and broke her teeth.
The lady is said to have gone to a dentist in the area who replaced her broken teeth with artificial plastic teeth. She however did not tell her fiancé of the incident and thought it was ‘perfectly concealed’. Her fiancé however flew to Mombasa from Belgium recently to tie the knot with his sweet heart.
Apparently her husband thought the fallen teeth were cake crumbles but the crowd’s laughter made him realize that it was indeed his newly wed’s teeth. The Belgium national is in shock and it is still not clear where their marriage is headed.
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