10 REASONS why most people are UNHAPPY with RELATIONSHIP, LOVE, and DATING.

1. Dwelling on the past. Eventually you have to accept the past, the mistakes that came with it, and do what’s needed to make things right. Even if that means letting go of something that was once special to you. Just because it didn’t work out one time doesn’t mean things have to go bad forever.

2. Stop giving everything you have to offer to people who have nothing to offer in return.It’s important to be equally yoked and have balance. If you’re big on communication, you need somebody who knows how to express themselves. If they aren’t willing and capable to exceed or match the effort you put in, then you’re wasting your time with them.

3. If there are no risks, then there will be no rewards. Pleasure is only pleasure because you understand pain. Take chances on love. The only lessons that hurt forever are the ones we refuse to learn from. If you want the reward of a “happily ever after” then you have to risk being emotionally uncomfortable now. Have the hope and faith to allow something to be new for you again. Believe in the strength of your heart.

4. You can’t control everything and you don’t have to. When you allow things to happen naturally, they tend to happen better and to last longer. Stop thinking that being in control will protect you from getting hurt because it won’t; all it will do is limit your happiness and confuse you emotionally. If you feel the need to control it then that means you don’t trust it, and if you don’t trust it then that means you aren’t ready to have it.

5. Believe that “better” is possible for you. Not everybody wants to play games and tell lies. There are some people out there, just like you, who genuinely want a lasting healthy relationship. Don’t limit your future based on your past. You went through all that you went through to learn from it, not to hide from it. Don’t let life steal your hope for love. Pain is only temporary but pessimism can’t mak
Pain is only temporary but pessimism can’t make it seem permanent.

6. Be willing to give somebody a fair chance. Yes, hurt people can hurt people but not everybody is hurt. Some people are healed and capable of showing you different, but only if you let them. You can’t start everybody off in the negative and get mad when you get no positive results. Be strong enough to handle things person by person; you can’t put everybody in a box just because you’ve dated with a closed mind.

7. Let go of the people who aren’t putting forth the effort needed to keep you in their lives. If they’re sleeping on the job, then let them miss out. Nobody should need an incentive to value treasure so if you’re a good catch, then be just that, but don’t waste your time trying to prove it to people that aren’t worthy. Understand that just because you think you want somebody doesn’t mean that person deserves to have you.

8. Not settling works both ways. Don’t settle for a relationship with just anybody and don’t settle for not trying at all just because things didn’t work out before. If you know you have a good heart, if you know you have a lot to offer, and if real love means something to you, then don’t give up on what you deserve.

You can’t help who you love but you can help who you play the fool for, so be smarter not bitter. The only thing to fear is being forced to realize that you’re miserable by choice because you’re too scared to go after what really makes you happy.

9. Be patient enough to make it right. Be committed enough to make it strong. Be honest enough to keep it pure. Trust in your ability to make the right decision for your heart. Stop thinking about how the past hurt you and start being thankful for what it taught you. The only people that ever love and lose are the ones who didn’t love and learn. There’s a lesson in every bit of pain, and if you’re patient, honest, and committed to not only learning the lesson but also applying what you’ve learned, happiness and love

happiness and love are inevitable for you.

10. Don’t expect things to be perfect and don’t expect anything to be easy. Even a good relationship will face bad times, but if the two are smart they’ll work with love instead of fighting with pride.

If you want real love, you have to be built for any weather. The love has to be unconditional and your effort has to be unwavering.

If you’re not willing to give it your all, you’ll lose it all, but there’s a lesson to learn in the things we “lose”: Sometimes it takes losing a good thing to find a great one. If you really believe love is meant for you to have, then you’ll do what you have to do to get it, and once you have it, you’ll do what’s required to keep it. If not, then it’s just not for you.

New York Businessman Pleads Guilty to Tax Crimes
Antonio Morales, a resident of Brooklyn, N.Y., pleaded guilty today in U.S. District Court in the Eastern District of New York to aiding in the preparation of a false federal tax return, the Justice Department and Internal Revenue Service (IRS) announced.

According to court records and admissions made by the defendant in court today, Morales owned T&R Environment Corp., a construction and sanitation business located in Brooklyn. Morales cashed T&R’s business checks at a check casher and falsely informed his return preparer that T&R was an inactive company. Morales then filed four false corporate income tax returns for tax years 2004 through 2007 that reported no gross receipts for T&R even though T&R generated gross revenue of at least $472,337 during that four year period. Morales admitted that his failure to report T&R’s gross receipts caused a tax loss to the IRS approximating $160,593.

Morales faces a potential maximum sentence of three years in prison and a maximum fine of $250,000. A sentencing date has not been set.

The case was investigated by IRS – Criminal Investigation and is being prosecuted by Trial Attorneys Mark Kotila and Jeffrey Bender of the Justice Department’s Tax Division.

Young guns: Philadelphia youths wanted in stick-ups

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By Vince Lattanzio, NBCPhiladelphia.com
Philadelphia Police are searching for a group of kids who pointed a semi-automatic handgun at one girl and later assaulted an adult.
Wearing a backpack, red T-shirt and shorts, a young boy was captured on surveillance video trotting up to a group of girls walking in the Tioga section of Philadelphia around 6:30 p.m. Monday.
The boy, believed to be between 10 and 12-years-old, pulls the handgun out of his pants and points it at one of the girls. The young woman can be seen putting her hands in the air as she slowly walks across the street. Moments later, an older boy comes up to the child with a backpack and takes the gun away.
That boy then walks down Ontario Street, drops to one knee and points the gun in the direction of a group of kids walking towards him. He then jumps up and runs towards the group brandishing the weapon.
“He obviously has some kind of handgun. A toy, maybe, doesn’t look like a toy,” Philadelphia Police Lt. George McClay said. “The other guy is following the boy closely to make sure he gets that gun back, so I would never presume that it’s a toy gun.”
Twenty minutes later, police say the same boys approached a 27-year-old man. Police say one of the boys then reached into his backpack, pulled out the handgun and said “Hey, buddy.”
The man then ran into a nearby home and called 911 and the youths fled, according to police.
Philadelphia Police say they are searching for three kids involved in the incidents. Their identities are unknown. Police believe the smaller boy is between 10 and 12-years-old and that the two others are between 14 and 16-years-old.
The incidents come two weeks after two Philadelphia teens were shot outside Overbrook High School. Bernard Scott, 17, was killed after being caught in the crossfire during a fight at a playground across from the school.
Two suspects were taken into custody in that case, but charges have yet to be filed.

MPOPOMA residents recently witnessed free drama when a local woman was caught red-handed by her husband having sex with another man.

The pregnant woman, only known as Sithuthukile from Block 14 Mpopoma, was found adding “feet and ears” to the yet to be born baby.

The woman and her lover were allegedly caught naked having sex by her husband early this week.

Residents were then treated to soap opera-like drama when the husband arrived earlier than Sithuthukile expected only to find his pregnant wife screaming in the excitement of having another man on top of her.

The enraged man had a chance to throw a few blows at her wife’s lover before he fled through the only exit of the single room they occupy.

The terrified lover, who did not have time to put his clothes on, fled to one of the houses in the same area where he took refuge.

“The pregnant wife could do nothing but run for cover as the husband had turned into a beast and heaven knows what would have happened to the wife when they met?” said one of the boys from the area who witnessed the incident and identified himself only as Gift.

“This is not the first time Sithuthukile has cheated on her husband. Her husband has another family and at times we do not blame her for what she does. Having two families means that sometimes he does not support her at all. I believe she does not even have a stove or bed, yet she is pregnant and needs a healthy diet and place to stay,” said a neighbour.

When reached for comment” Sithuthukile showed no remorse. “Men should learn to take care of their families, because failure to do so will definitely lead to such domestic cases,” she said.