DEAR MET———WITH BOUT 5 TWIST

Dear Met,
This is my beautiful friend Hazel. She is a fabulous 43 year old great mom, she has a masters in Sociology a brand new home and a spanking new vehicle, but is being swindled by a party boy player who’s friends I have seen on your website. I am not a party person but my kids and their friend’s are, and I appreciate the straight forward approach your bloggers sometimes give that is why I am having the courage to tell this story.
Hazel is being taken advantage of by a 32 year old boy named Gary. Calling him a boy is even a bit much, from what she has been telling me he sounds more like a four legged creature. She has given him cash, paid his bills, and practically moved him in with her young daughters and he drives her vehicle up and down New York. I even saw him with another female in it one late night but chose not to mention it, because she also let me know that she is aware that he lives with his young son’s mother. YES he also lives with his child’s mother.
I feel like this party boy is using her for her money and stability and as much I try to listen she does not want to believe what is right before her eyes because he tells her EVERYONE else is lying on him. Maybe if she hears other stories or good advice from your bloggers she may finally realize she is heading up the river.
Gary is around women all day because he works for the cable company. She even mentioned he came to her house smelling like sex after work. This guy has 3 kids with 3 different women, and she just discovered he has another one on the way and he has been lying to her about being single before meeting her, he told her he just “lives” with the other girl.
Hazel is extremely smart and knows her work but when it comes to men she has always had bad judgement. I love my dear friend but I know that she is very black and white. She does not accept things to be facts unless she sees it etched in stone. I refuse to stand by and watch this little boy bring a disease or worst yet HIV to her doorstep. It kills me to hear her in denial. I realized she has taken him back in her home again after finding out about the new girl being pregnant. Hazel has come a long way and expressed secretly to me some financial hardships lately with paying a few of her own bills and is using all of her resources to continue to keep up this lifestyle of maintaining her home and kids and financing this jiggalo. Her kids go to private school and she has never had a problem with money before. (Edited)
Hazel I know you do not often have time to read this website but I hope you will take the advice from the bloggers today since you will not listen to your friends and family about this little snake you let into your home. Sorry to put it all out there but the longer you try to keep this a secret the more damage you are causing to your family. Remember you are a mom and need to set a better example for your teenage girls of the men they should have in their lives. You can find a man, a REAL MAN who will treat you better and give you everything you desire, instead of having to buy sex from this little boy. Also if anyone has anymore information about this Gary guy please do not keep it a secret. I for one suspect him of being a down low gay but I have no proof of that.
The cat is already out of the bag, and I am hoping she will finally come to her senses and get the courage to get this dog out of her home.
Oh yes see the picture of Gary below spending Hazel’s hard earned money with his party friends.