BEATING FOR A BLOW***

“It all started well between us some years ago during our NYSC service and we both were close friends during our youth service, people used to call us husband and wife as at then.

After the service, we lost contact and few years later we again met at a Church convention. We reunited and that was how our journey to the marital world started.

He proposed marriage to me and I accepted but on one condition, ‘no pre marital affair’ (because then I was still a virgin and a Born Again child of God) he agreed to my terms and we moved on.

I was afraid because he’s an active guy.

To cut the long story short, we were united in a Holy Matrimony on Saturday, July 16, 1988.

Our marriage is blessed with 4 children.

My husband works with one of the telecommunication companies and always travels out of country.

Precisely last June, he returned from a trip and asked me to ‘go under’ him.

Jesus! I screamed, you mean I should suck your ‘manhood?’ I asked him.

He told me ‘yes’ and I out rightly said NO, that night, I received the beating of my life. My God, I was mad, wishing the earth could open up and swallow me.

It didn’t end there, he promised to continue beating me until I obey his order.

There was a night, he threw me and my daughter out of the house, we slept under the rain. I must confess, I regretted getting married to him that night.

I was inquisitive to know why he suddenly turned a ‘that way’ over night, his friend confided in me that when he travelled to Europe recently, those commercial girls came to “ease him” thought him the act of “going under.”

There was this occasion, he brought in a girl and had slept with her in front of I and my children, he even called me to come and learn from her. (Sobbing)

Last month, he finally threw my loads out of his house and warned me never to return until I’m ready to succumb to his urge.

I’ve been wondering like a vagabond for the past 3 weeks now with my daughter, not even food or water for the innocent girl.

“Please I beg you, I’m tired, I don’t know where to go from here, tell your readers to advise me.

Should I bow to his ugly romance (which is hard for me) or return his daughter to him and continue with my life”

Dear readers, your Candid advise would help this woman out.