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Dear Taiwo,
Please, help me out of this mess I am in. I don’t know how I got myself into this, but, I pray the Lord will sort me out before my parents, especially my mother get to know.

She is a prophetess, we attend a white garment church, and it appears God shows her things. The reason I need your help to get out of this mess before she finds out. She is going to be very dissappointed in me. I hate to make her feel bad.

My father also loves us his children dearly. Being the only daughter of the house, I always get a preferential treatment and I would hate to make my parents feel I left the house to rubbish all what they believed in.

I am 18, a 200-level Law student in one of the private universities. I am the only one attending a private university, probably, being the only girl and the last child.

I met and started dating a senior colleague of mine in school. He is also a Law student, but in 400 level and he is 23 years old.

We started our relationship when I passed into 200 level, and when I made up my mind to date him, I informed my parents. This is because, I am very close to both of them and there is nothing I do not discuss with them and my eldest brother, who is already working in a bank. During one of my visits home on a weekend, I told my family members about Femi.

After dinner, my mother called me and wanted to know more about him. After answering all her questions, she seemed to be okay with all my answers, especially the fact that he also is a Christian but not of the same denomination. He is of the pentecostal faith. My mother’s only advice was that I shouldn’t have sex for now if I haven’t done so yet.

I assured her that I haven’t had sex with him or any other man as she has taught me I haven’t the intentions of doing so until my wedding night. My elder brother gave me the same advice before I went back to school the following day and I assured him also that I knew what I was doing.

Three months into our relationship, despite the fact that I had already told Femi that I had no intentions of having sex with him or any man until my wedding night, Femi started asking me for sex and I always gave him the same answer which was always no.

On my birthday, he insisted that he wanted to have sex with me as my special birthday gift. I refused and he said he was ready to swear to an oath that he would marry me come what may.

I said I wasn’t interested and that even without swearing on oath, he could still marry me if God ordained the union. I knew he didn’t like my reply or decision, but I really was not burdened because I knew what I wanted.

For over two weeks, he behaved funny and avoided me; I called him and tried to diffuse the tension he created, but he was very stiff and I left him alone.

Few days after the last time I called him, he came looking for me at the school library. I was surprised when he tapped and excused me out. I followed him, though I was surprised. I was even more surprised when he introduced me to a guest who he said was his aunty.

I had no reason not to greet her and she said she had wanted to meet me for a long time and that she would want me to accompany Femi to her birthday celebration the following weekend.

It was the weekend I had to go home, so I didn’t need to phone my parents to ask for permission to go with him.

Femi picked me up from home, but on getting to his aunty’s house I was surprised because the impression I had about the party was not what I met. I thought it was going to be a big bash, but it was just a family thing. After we had spent about 30 minutes, Femi’s aunty called me and said the pastor of her church would like to meet and pray for me. I have nothing against prayers, but I was a little surprised. Moreso, I see no reason why I should be singled out for such supposed favour. Her pastor was also not a part of the party, he was seated in one of the rooms.

On the long run, he prayed and said he had some revelations for me. In his vision, he said Femi is my God appointed husband and that if I do not marry him, it would be difficult for me to get a man to marry in future. He also said that my mother is a witch and that she would want to stop my marriage to Femi because she has seen that she won’t be able to manipulate Femi’s glory for her diabolical use. I was too shocked to say a word. I asked him what I should do; he told me to avoid my mother as much as possible and that I should not tell her about the things he told me or what happened.

Because of my background, I am used to prophesies, but I know that, pentecostal churches are not given to this kind of things, so I asked what the name of his church is; his answer further baffled me because he said where he worships does not matter.

He asked that I should come back and see him for some spiritual guidance.

When I came out of the room where he spoke with me, Femi wanted to know what he told me, but I refused to tell him anything.

I was however shocked to hear him repeat some of the things the pastor told me.

I have really been disturbed since then. I also tried to avoid Femi as much as possible.

I don’t know if I should tell my parents. I know my mother is not a witch. What would their reactions be? I have tried to ignore the prophecy and everything I was told, but the details keep coming back to me. Help me, Aunty Taiwo.
Anonymous, Lagos