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SEEKING YOUR FEED BACK

Published May 8, 2012 | By

Hello Met,
I have to say I am addicted you your site and your post are usually very interesting. I am hoping maybe I can get some feedback from your readers because I am desperate for advice. Sometimes it better to get feedback from people who don’t know you personally so they can be honest rather than bias. I would appreciate honest answers. Here’s is my dilemma!

Background: I am a US citizen that has been with my Jamaica man exclusively for nearly 20 years. My family is from Jamaica and migrated to the islands years ago. We have children together ranging from 9 to 15. He was deported a year ago and we managed to maintain a long distance relationship as I would come and visit him often, we Skype and talk on the phone regularly. Needless to say we knew that would be a short term fix to a long term issue. We have a home together in Jamaica and a home in the states. Also he has managed to start a business which has become very successful in the short time he has been there.

Dilemma: There was a lot going on in my life and I was under a lot of stress. We always talked and planned for the family to move to Jamaica. My husband and I discussed me moving to the island so we can be a family again and so he can raise his children. I have visited the island many times since I was a child and ALWAYS loved it but never lived there. As you know visiting a place is very different from living there. Needless to say I am confused about moving to the island. I am not sure if I am making the right decision. My children love their dad but do not want to move to the island. They don’t understand that reasoning behind it. My question is, if you placed in this situation what would you do?

Take into account:
1) kids and school
2) no employment for me
3) leaving my life behind to be with him.

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