IN RESPONSE TO MET MATTERS

Hi Met,

I was confused on how to log on to your blog so I decided to send an email response… i must say mi LOVE di blog and trust mi, it well sell off…. nuff time it pain mi heart still fi see how mi people behave… sometimes mi just wish dem young men and ladies here would look at themselves and love demselves and stop living such lives..but mi must confess, it mek fi great entertainment…btw, belly bang big up yuh self coz everyday yuh mek mi dead wid laugh
but met, this is a response to the young lady asking for help with the abusive relationship….my advice, GET OUT!!!!
Listen, I have been in a similar situation, but not as bad as yours and it nuh nice living like yuh walking on egg-shells… It took me forever to realize that once it starts it nah stop..nuh get mi wrong, mi is a warrior and mi fling my tump and box dem and start di war nuff time just coz him piss mi off but in the end, it was that we didn’t understand ourselves and each other. certain things just dont mek fi last…met, i have seen the comments on your blog and respect to all because i know you are trying to protect her but saying to her just pack up and leave doesn’t always work. there is an emotional attachment there but as someone commented, you have to love yourself first. it has taken me over a year of meditation and reflection to reach the point where i said i am leaving, or rather him leaving coz a me kick him out, and stay firm and strong. mi love mi ex and everyday him profess seh him still love me, but love doesn’t always work out…we even went to counseling and we stop cuss and fight for a bit but in the end, it just wasn’t right.
i have family members who have been in the same situation and we have all done the same thing, LEAVE. yes, it hurts like hell because mi know yuh love him and wish it would work but it just wont and you have to come to terms with that. it really comes down to self-love and self-respect. the sad truth is that you have allowed it to come this far and now you have to put a stop to it. trust mi, there is nothing sweeter than feeling free. you are no longer jumpy and feel as if yuh walking chalk line… that feeling alone is worth you leaving…
my ex and i are still big friends and more while him still reason wid mi and apologize coz right now it a hurt him head seh him did so stupid and nuh have mi in him life nuh more… more while him say jah know star, mi nuh understand wha mi did a do dem times deh and more while mi still reflect and say bwoy, a just chu him tell mi a feisty word dat nuh mean seh mi shoulda a tek di pot and lick him inna him head…lol… i never walk round wid nuh buss up nothing or black nothing but just di disrespect ting nah work… leave mi dear and tek yuh time and yuh will find a man who is going to love and respect you and if him not, run him bloodclaat… and yes it takes time but walking as a free woman more dan worth it…find someone you trust and can spend time with. change your cell number and do whatever you have to, just dont sit and feel alone and sorry for yourself. it can happen to anyone… i am an independent woman with a bachelors degree in a good, good job and it still happen to me.
bless

met, provide har wid mi email address if she need fi talk fi mi please….. and big up yuhself…