PLEASE MY BROTHERS

Sexual molestation imposed on anyone is a crime on both body and spirit. We welcome women with open arms to tell their story but some how shun men and scorn them when the time comes to say their’s. Molestation to any gender is devastating and creates an air of negative change. If this person isn’t given help they will spew all the negatives of molestation:- withdrawal , promiscuity, an unnatural attraction to the sex that molested them, an unnatural hate for the sex that molested them, anger,unfeeling, and become sociopathic over a period of time.
Most Jamaican men that are known ”gallist” I have realized that they are also bisexual. They have an unnatural appetite for women, only to use and as a board to vent their anger, but under all that they cannot ignore their unnatural desire for men either. Molestation cuts deep and the scars will not heal or fade unless the molestation is spoken about and we are able to help the molested.
My brothers you go to women who try everything to keep you around and end up broken because you still leave. Why? Because you are caught between hating women and desiring your painful molestation. One would ask why would someone who was molested by a man, hate women, but these men were put in a feminine/female position by the molester and any memory of that brings hate and scorn. Many of these men also feel that their mothers did not do enough to protect them. These feelings about not being protected enough are true to an extent because culturally we hold on less to our young men than our young women. We felt as if we were raising men but instead we raised pawns for molesters to feed on.
A young man is raised not to complain of feeling hungry, raised to tolerate given one pair of shoe vs his sister who has three pairs of shoes. In providing them with nothing we expect them to bring home something:- masculinity ,provide and protect the family. How? When we have not given them the tools to be men?
With all that being said we grow for many reasons, one most important reason is that we all get to an age where we are held accountable/responsible for our actions. If you were molested and feel confused do not use females as a means to cover your feelings. The molester never goes away in your vision unless you allow him to go away. The fact that you were raped or cohersed into allowing a man to have sex with you to better your life does not mean you are gay, it means you have no limits and that there is a bigger issue here than you having no limits. It means something made you not care about you anymore. Something made you give up the real you for nothing and something got you to this point.

Please stop sleeping with my black sisters and sleeping with men at the same time because you are defiling their existence. Get help and come to terms with the abuse there is always someone who is willing to hear you out and help you get over this hurt.