LADIES!! How to get a MARRIED MAN to leave his WIFE for YOU
1. Don’t try to convince him or manipulate him to leave. Convincing or manipulative behaviour never works in the long run. He has to figure it out for himself. Even if he does act on your advice or pressure, he may resent you later.

2. Treat yourself as the prize. By not falling into bed with him, you are showing him that you are a woman who deserves respect and are marriage material. Have your own life and interests. Hopefully you have interests in common, which are things his wife doesn’t enjoy. This makes you more attractive to him.

3. Figure out what benefits he is getting from staying in the marriage. Even if he is unhappy, he is still getting something positive from the marriage or from not breaking up. This could be access to his children, money (he is likely scared of a divorce and losing half his income and property), emotional support, reputation (makes him feel good to be a “family man”, mutual friends, having someone to do stuff with (vacations, hobbies), her cooking and cleaning, etc. There is no point in competing with the wife in these areas. Don’t make the mistake of wasting your time trying to be a better “wife”. Giving to him will push him away. Just know that you cannot do anything about these facts and work on all the other steps, so that your relationship with him will outweigh the benefits.

4. Figure out what his wife isn’t doing right. Men need to feel masculine. Most likely the wife has emasculated him over time, and therefore he is no longer attracted to her. There are a lot of articles and books on what this means. Do your homework to find out how to make him feel more masculine (and you to feel more feminine). Admiring his masculine strengths and having the polarity of your femininity is important. Wives who give too much, over function, make all the decisions, work too hard at the relationship, take care of everything in the marriage, and who don’t know how to receive gratefully what the man has to offer, start to assume the role of the man in the family. This makes the husband feel bad about himself and he will start to look elsewhere to validate his masculinity. That doesn’t mean you should have sex with him. Most likely he is still having sex with his wife (even though he will tell you he is not), but he can do it without feeling anything deeply for her. Having sex with him will not attract him to you. You need to give him all the other things he needs to feel masculine and whole.

5. This means getting to know him as a person. Becoming friends and having him confide in you takes patience. His roots with his wife go much deeper than with you, so you need to take a long time to build up a good relationship with him. He has to feel more than just physically attracted to you. There needs to be an emotional bond with you. He needs to feel safe to share his hopes, dreams, fears, emotions and insecurities with you, and know he is still loved. Also, once you do get to know him as a person, you may discover things about his character that you don’t like and re-evaluate your decision as to whether or not you want him at all.

6. Date others. Don’t get hung up on him or too attached. Men like to compete. But be careful not to discuss too much about your dating others with him. He may ask, and you can reply vaguely, but it could do more damage if you appear to be trying to make him jealous.

7. Don’t be needy. Don’t initiate contact, calls, texts, emails, etc. Let him come to you on his own. He needs to do so on his own time and for his own reasons. If he is not into you, you cannot make him love you. If you start chasing and giving to him, he may selfishly take what you have to offer at first, but eventually he will feel emasculated and pull away (just like he is doing with his wife).

8. Don’t be jealous of his wife or angry. It is good to feel compassion for her. It is not her fault. Don’t be insecure.

9. Don’t become his therapist or marriage counsellor. Trying to help him get over her, or solve his problems, will not attract him to you. Trying to “fix” things is a masculine trait. He has to do it himself in his own way.

10. Don’t confront the wife. Telling her about you or her husband’s infidelity will only make him angry with you and destroy any future you have together. He knows best how to deal with his wife and has to figure out his own way of leaving her. If the wife finds out, they might end up in marriage counselling and back together

Disturbed Teen Allegedly Slaughters Grandmother
Published: Friday | October 12, 2012 1 Comment
Adrian Frater, News Editor

Has been acting strangely since dad’s death

Western Bureau:

Ever since his father, ice cream vendor Fredrick Turner, died in a motorcycle accident two weeks ago, 19-year-old Kevin Turner has reportedly been acting strangely, chasing residents of his home district, Petersfield, Westmoreland, with a knife, inflicting wounds on a few occasions.

Concerned about his mental state, relatives have been repeatedly taking him to get medical attention.

Yesterday, Kevin is believed to have done the unthinkable – beheading his 76-year-old grandmother, Phyllis Watson-Turner, who had only recently returned to the island from her home in Canada to bury his dad.

“He (Kevin) has been acting strangely since his father died … . I guess he took it very hard,” said Senior Detective Paul Bernard, the police’s crime chief for Westmoreland.

“We have learnt that he had been chasing people around the community and flashing knives in their faces.”

A relative told The Gleaner that on Wednesday night, Turner (Kevin) and his grandmother retired to bed in the house they had been sharing since she returned to the island to make funeral preparations for the youngster’s father.

“This morning, he (Kevin) turned up at another relative’s house covered in blood and said he was slaughtering chickens,” said the relative, who asked not to be identified. “However, because of the amount of blood on him, it was clear that his story was not true.”

headless body discovered

Relatives said Kevin was taken back to the house he shared with his grandmother and it was there that her headless body was discovered and the police alerted.

When he was asked for his grandmother’s head, the young man reportedly said he did not know because all he had slaughtered were chickens. When asked what he did with the heads of the chickens, the relatives claim he went and fetched his grandmother’s head, which he calmly placed beside her body.

“After the grandmother’s body was found, he left the grieving relatives behind and went into the community and attacked another man with a knife,” said Bernard. “It was after that that we managed to hold him and take him into custody.”

Although it appeared quite obvious that he was responsible for his grandmother’s death, Bernard said investigations were still continuing and he has not yet been charged.

“We have charged him for the man he attacked and wounded after his grandmother’s body was found, but we have not charged him for anything else at this time,” Bernard said. “Nonetheless, I believe charges will be laid against him soon.”

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michelle i just have a few things to say to u we are not friends and u and all my friends are enemy so hear me out u r now living in LA i saw u on the ontario mills mall shoplifting please dont let me see u again cause i’m gonna call d mall security on u so please take it back to england where u roam the mall them or to NYC where ur look seems to match perfect LA has got enough shoplifters over here we really don’t need u to come hot up d place and that hugh fake ass that u got it is a give away for u girl so listen up if i happen to run into u again any mall and i meant any mall i’m gonna show u to the security so u best be there doing some cash shop and go and michelle remember ur little thing that u got so u really don’t wanna f** around with d law over here and let me remind u i’m not a fan of u so its either u go get a next trade or hobby but shoplifting ain’t gonna work here in LA..michelle i’ll see u around

IS WHICH MICHELLE DIS?

CHANCES ARE if 25-year-old Andre ‘Tall Man’ Edwards had $20, he would be still alive, and so too would 23- year-old Damion Smith. Edwards and Smith were both killed Tuesday afternoon in Savannah Cross, May Pen, Clarendon.

According to residents of Savannah Cross, Smith and Edwards were working as labourers on a construction site in the community when Smith asked Edwards for $20. Edwards, unable to give Smith the money, was beaten with a shovel. He died while undergoing treatment at the May Pen Hospital.

An angry mob quickly captured Smith as he tried to flee the community and hacked him to death, just a couple feet from where he supposedly killed Edwards earlier.

Edwards’ death has left the Savannah Cross community in shock. They described him as a kind, caring and hard-working young man.

“Tall Man a good boy, him nuh deserve to die like this. Can you imagine somebody beg you $20 and because you don’t have it to give to him, him use a shovel and beat you to death, after you just cook lunch and give him,” asked Fredrick Herdsman, angrily, as he gathered with a group of Edwards’ friends in Savannah Cross.

Denford Williams, one of Edwards’ friends and a neighbour, painted a glowing picture of the deceased.

“Me can’t believe say somebody can kill you fi $20, if Tall Man did have it, him would a give him the money, I know him. He is just a kind lad,” insisted Williams.

Smith’s grandmother, Elvin Harris, while expressing shock at the violent turn of events, and fearing that she may be attacked, said that her grandson just came into the community two weeks ago to live with her, after residing in St Maarten and Montego Bay.

“I don’t know what get in to him, him come up two weeks now, and the next thing me hear a big noise say him killed Tall Man, and them killed him back,” said Harris.

“You think them a go come and kill me too, sar,” she asked this reporter.

Tuesday’s incident is the fourth jungle-justice killing in the last few weeks.

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