10 things women find UNATTRACTIVE in MEN

Guys spend a lot of time trying to figure out what attracts women. Unfortunately a lot of them are still confused about what characteristics women find repulsive in men. You are more likely to have good relationships with the opposite sex once you understand the following 10 behaviors women find unattractive.

1. Having poor grooming and hygiene
Traits such as smelling bad, having bad breath, broken or stained teeth, botching your shave job, wearing wrinkled, unflattering clothing and uncleanliness in general are not sexy and will keep women completely away from you.

2. Lack of ambition
Women love being around men who have their own life, ambitions and goals. Looks can take you a long way, but once a conversation gets going and women realize you have no goals whatsoever or you have goals but no concrete plan to achieve them, they will become instantly turned off.

3. Being irresponsible
Women don’t want to invest their time and energy into guys who can’t take care of their business and will more than likely become just another burden in their lives. The last thing a woman wants to deal with is a man who can’t ever seem to hold down a job or pay his own bills.

4. Lack of confidence
Women want their men to lead the way, protect them and make them feel secure. Constantly listing all your faults, feeling sorry for yourself and complaining about your circumstances are sure fire ways to turn a woman off and make her stay away from you for good.

5. Having no sense of humor
Whether you realize it or not, humor is critical to your success with women. In fact, a sense of humor usually tops a woman’s attraction wish list and is one of the best ways to turn her on. No woman wants to be with a guy who can never laugh at himself, make a joke or find humor in a situation.

6. Men who give too many compliments
Women love compliments, but if you make too many or too big a compliment, most women won’t believe you and will wonder what you are trying to sell them.

7. Being a drunk
Nothing is less attractive to a woman than a guy who is a sloppy drunk! If you can’t maintain your alcohol consumption, the less likely you’ll be able to use good judgment and avoid saying really stupid things around women.

8. Having a beer belly
Your stomach is predominantly what a woman sees when she looks at you. The stomach is also the main source of the excess weight on a man, so if you have a saggy, protruding pot belly, get rid of it!

9. Being obsessed with sports
Most single women are not obsessed with sports and they don’t spend their weekends on the couch watching sports on TV. There’s nothing wrong with like sports; but, having an obsession with sports can adversely affect your dating life and could even cause a woman to dump you and find someone else who can fulfill her needs that you are neglecting.

10. Being too aggressive
Women don’t like it when a man they have just met insists on touching her too often. Women mostly prefer cool, calm, gentle and well-mannered men. When you are too aggressive with a woman, you creep her out, get pushed away and you get rejected.

Why can’t my mother, wife be friends?

Dear Taiwo,

I am in a dilemma; I need someone to help me. How would I survive in the midst of this ensuing chaos in my family? I wonder why Adeola cannot find it in her heart to forgive my family, especially my mother.

I love my wife, we have been through thick and thin together and I would not want to lose her for anything in this world, but the war she is fighting with my family members is taking its toll on me. There is a lot of pressure from my family members even extended family members that I should call her to order or….Or what?

I am not interested in finding out what is after the or, but Adeola is not making things easy for me. Not that I am finding things easy with her people too, at least we don’t have a hitch-free relationship, especially between her mother and I, but I am able to manage and accommodate her, so why can’t Adeola for God’s sake take my people the way they are?

We met at a federal polytechnic; we were mates studying the same course. We were both new and we became close during the registration process. Our friendship graduated into a relationship few weeks after we met. We became inseparable and most of our classmates who didn’t know us before felt we had been dating before higher school. Adeola was God sent to me in school. Our worlds were worlds apart, with Adeola coming from the proverbial silver spoon background and I from a home and family where we could barely make ends meet.

I had to take up extra work to make money available for my education at every available opportunity, but since the day Adeola found out, she insisted that I stopped and made money available for me every time I needed money. In fact, I became her responsibility in school. She did everything for me never telling a soul. Nobody knew who was spending the money even up to clothes and other necessities.

Adeola loves me, this I know. Her action also relieved my parents of some tension and I was able to face my studies without the distraction of looking for how to survive.

The unexpected however happened few weeks to our final examinations. We discovered that she was almost four months pregnant! I deflowered her and we were foolish to engage in unprotected sex. She was having her menstrual flow quite alright, she only complained that her normal flow days reduced from five to three days and the last one she had before her mother raised the fact that she was pregnant came for only one day.

Her mother came to the school to check on her before we started our examinations, after a close look at her according to Adeola, she asked her some questions which she naively answered. Her mother took her home this fateful day and she was made to take a pregnancy test the following day, she was discovered to be 13 weeks pregnant!

As expected, her parents were angry and disappointed. Her father especially couldn’t come to terms with the fact that she got pregnant, probably because she was his favourite and the only girl in the family. He asked to see me and my parents. He raved and ranted, threatened fire and brimstone when we went to see him. At the end of the day in anger, he said Adeola should leave with us immediately and that we should come back when we have fixed the wedding date as all he owed his daughter was his blessing since she chose to do things her way.

Unfortunately, we never got to receive his blessing because he died three months later in a road accident before Adeola delivered our son and the reason we named him Babawale.

I don’t really know what happened, because ordinarily, my mother is a peace loving kind woman. Despite the fact that we struggle to make ends meet, she is amiable and accommodating, but I really did not know why she and Adeola couldn’t be friends.

After we left Adeola’s parents’ place, she went back to school to write her final papers. It was easy because we lived off campus. Her father insisted that she should go home with me and not return to their house, despite pleas. Unfortunately, from the very first day she moved in with us, it was one trouble or the other between her and my mother most of which were my mother’s fault. She just couldn’t stand or tolerate Adeola.

Written by Monica Taiwo

THEY SAY THEY WERE TWINS………..The bodies of two newborn babies were found in a dump on Tuesday, the police confirmed. The gruesome discovery was made by a garbage truck driver at the Hadden Landfill in St Ann. According to the police the bodies were a part of the truck driver’s load which he picked up from Mango Valley in St Mary. DEM SEH THIS IS KIDNAPPING ……………..The Manchester police are confirming that a 15 year-old female student of a Mandeville high school has been reported missing. Superintendent Marlon Nesbeth who heads the Manchester police confirmed the reports but declined to give details. We are taking all of the established steps which you would expect in an investigation and covering all the bases,” Nesbeth told the Observer.

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Woman “faints” in Rongai after she was CAUGHT RED HANDED with a “SECRET LOVER.”

Tuesday January 22, 2013 – Residents of Rongai town were on Wednesday treated to a rare drama after an adulterous wife was caught red handed cheating on her husband.

The afternoon incident which attracted curious onlookers forced the woman to feign fainting after spotting his husband from a distance.

According to the couple’s neighbour, the man had travelled upcountry only to come back unannounced. When he reached at his house he found that his wife was not there.

Out of curiosity, the man embarked on a mission to locate his adulterous wife. Investigations led him to a local pub where he found her drunken wife in a compromising situation with his new lover.

That is when the woman fell down and thought that the husband will sympathize with her now that she had fainted but he seemed to know her antics better that anyone else. Out of anger the man gave his wife a dog’s beating which made his lover who was sweating profusely run for safety.

The wife sustained serious face injuries and was rushed to a local dispensary by her infuriated husband.

To the surprise of curious onlookers, the two returned hand in hand like a perfect couple who had lived for years without a fight.

Infuriated onlookers vowed to have divorced the woman if she committed such a shameful act to them.