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Dancehall artiste Mr Lexx is remaining silent about whether or
not his United States visa has been revoked.

Early last year, the visas of several entertainers were revoked. Among them, Beenie Man, Ricky Trooper, Aidonia, Mavado and Bounty Killer.

Information reaching The STAR is that Mr Lexx was at the airport expecting to leave for a show in the US but was turned back and told that his visa was revoked.

When contacted, Mr Lexx remained tight-lipped about the matter saying, “No comment. At least not now. Mi nuh wish fi comment pon it right now.”

Mr Lexx has had recent songs such as Clean on TJ Records’ Star A Star rhythm which he said has been getting good airplay on local radio stations. A video for Clean is also to be done soon. Mr Lexx said his video for Diggy has also been getting good rotation.

He is scheduled to leave the island on May 11 for a show in Toronto, Canada.

“I’ll spend my birthday working which mi nuh really mind because I’ll be having fun,” said Mr Lexx.

Late last year, Mr Lexx returned to Jamaica after spending more than a year in New York on a stay which was marred by several court appearances on felony charges.

Dear Pastor,

I am 22 and I need your advice. My father and mother separated when I was 16, and my mother did days’ work and sent me to school. I didn’t do so well in school. I only have two subjects. I started to have sex when I was 16 and I am still having sex with the same man. He lives alone and when I first went there it was because he asked my mother if she would come and clean his house. She couldn’t go so she sent me instead.

This man started to treat me very well, so I used to go there to see him even when I didn’t want to clean his house. I got to like him, but not even my mother suspected we had a thing going on until I was 20. She told me it was better to be an old man’s darling. This man’s children are older than I am, but they are not living close by. I love him so much and I have never cheated on him.

Pastor, the only problem I have with him is when we are kissing he takes out his dentures. I am not in need of anything because he gives me everything. Since I am with him, I went back to school and I got three more subjects. He is promising to send me to college, but he said that his daughter’s name is in his account and he doesn’t want her to know what he is doing for me. He promised to be a guarantor for me to get money for thestudent loan.

I don’t regret having a relationship with this man, because when I look at how some young men treat their girlfriends, these guys can’t walk in my man’s shoes.

B.R.

Dear B.R.,

I am sure this man would be happy to know you speak highly of him. You are really ‘bigging him up’. However, some people would question why a much older man couldn’t find a woman who is close to his age. On the other hand, love is not limited by age. Each person is expected to make decisions that suits them. Evidently, both of you are in love and your relationship is not based on what he was able to do for you.

He is afraid to tell his daughter he wants to help you to go to college because she might feel you are after his money and you only using him. It would be good for you to go to college, and if there is any way possible for him to assist you, financially, he should. Perhaps, because of his age, he may not be able to be a guarantor but he may be able to ask his friends to do so.

He should not be afraid to speak to his children about you and let them now what he wants to do for you, because you have been more than kind. Lets face it, you have kept him clean and have done everything to make him very happy.

Perhaps this man cannot kiss while he is wearing his dentures, but by now you should have got accustomed to the pleasure of his gum.

Pastor

HAVE you ever met a man who would rant and rave about his honesty — about where he was or whom he was with — and although you didn’t have any tangible proof, you could tell beyond a shadow of a doubt that he was fabricating the story? Have you met others, who even though they were lying, were capable of fooling you, because they were so good at it?

No fear, there are in fact psychological ways to detect lying lips for the next time you’re caught listening to one of the fellows in group two. Here are some signs for lying men, and women too:

Body language: One good way to spot a liar is to watch the body language. You should not stare but you must be very quick. Look for things like stiffness in the body, too much calmness, fidgeting, the inability to keep still, or any kind of unnatural body movements. Without staring, make sure he/she knows that you are paying keen attention. A liar does not like to be observed and will become so uncomfortable that the lies are bound to come to light.

Voice quality: Listen keenly to the person’s voice and try to find out if there is any trace of abnormality. Does the person sound the same as when he/she is talking normally? If you detect a pitch in the voice that is too high or too low, take note. When people are lying they answer questions very quickly and the voice may sound squeaky, too loud, or like that of another person.

Eye contact: It is widely known that when a person is lying they cannot look you straight in the eyes but seasonal liars will master the art of looking you in the eyes while lying. Anyway, forensic psychologists say that the eyes become much brighter when someone is lying and there is much more eye movement.

Speech pattern: Listen to hear if there are changes in the person’s speech pattern. Listen if the person is speaking at a faster or slower speech rate than normal. Most importantly, listen for signs that he/she is searching for words or is stuttering unnecessarily.

Reactions: Look for jumping, jerking or sharp movements. One way to get at the truth is to bring up the subject matter at a time when the person would least expect you to, especially with the person’s back turned. If you are telling the truth or if you share information that the person did not expect you to know, he/she may either jump or react frightened or surprised. If you act like you have not noted the frightened reactions, the person may still try to cover them up or will tend to start a barrage of never-ending explanations. Jerky reactions coupled with too-long explanations should cause you to think twice.

Use questioning: If there is one thing that a liar hates, it is to answer questions. No one likes to be interrogated, even if they are telling the truth. Notwithstanding, liars try to concentrate harder than those who are telling the truth but despite this, they don’t always have the ability to remember their story and what they said earlier. They will tell you one thing at one time and something totally different at another time. You will notice too, that those who are lying will quickly follow your lead if you try to change the subject. If you change the subject and the person seems more relaxed, it could mean that earlier in the conversation you were being conned.

Note that the seasoned liar may be able to mask some of the signs. However, the occasional liar will give away something here or there. Remember too, that if you detect one or two of these signs, it does not necessarily mean that you are conversing with a liar, but a larger combination could be due to lying lips.