Title: Is this girl Simiyah woman or just another Hoe??

Message Body:
I’ve wrote to you before seeking some information about this guy but no one seem to have had anything to say, well i am writing again. Ive seen this guy last summer at St Mary Wi Come From dance and I’ve really liked him ever since. Im not the type a girl to run into a relationship if the person is in a serious relationship because i don’t like to share and if i do i don’t like to be the mate. I’ve asked a couple of friends about him but no one seems to know if he has a personal woman yes or no. i saw him the other night at Benji Riches dance with this girl, they came in the club together and left together and I’ve never seem him take a girl to the clubs before. i just want to know the good and bad about this guy and if the girl in this pic is him woman or just another hoe?

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Hi Met,

I dont know the ins and the exact hows of this story but this is what i know so far….

The man in the picture goes by the name Bowie

he current lives in England and has children in both the UK and Jamaica. One of His son in JAMAICA is gay and this is where the story begins!

Him son a currently a f– one big badman inna Spainish town, Bowieget brave an call di badman and tell him fi leave him son ALONE! The badman tun round and tell BOWIE dat yes him a f– him soon regular inna him asss an him wan Bowie ass fi f000 next!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mi hear now dat di badman just get beheaded.

Can ANYONE CONFIRM THIS STORY?????

NEW DELHI — The main suspect in the gang rape and fatal beating of a woman on a New Delhi bus, an attack that horrified Indians and set off national protests, committed suicide in jail Monday, police officials said.

Ram Singh, who is accused of driving the bus on which the 23-year-old student was raped and fatally assaulted by a group of six men in December, hanged himself with his own clothes, said G. Sudhakar, the top police official at Tihar jail.

Singh, along with four other men on trial with him on rape, murder and abduction charges, had been under a suicide watch, another jail official said on condition of anonymity because he was not authorized to speak publicly on the matter. He said the five were being held in separate cells in separate buildings at the jail.

If convicted, the men could face the death penalty. The sixth accused is being tried and jailed separately because he is a juvenile.

Singh’s lawyer, A. P. Singh, confirmed his client’s death, saying he died at 5:30 a.m. He alleged that police maleficence led to his client’s death.

“What do you mean killed himself? He has been killed in prison,” Singh said.

Lawyers for the men have previously accused police of beating confessions out of their clients.

Indian jails have a reputation for overcrowding, poor management and brutal treatment of inmates.

The woman and a male friend were attacked after boarding the bus Dec. 16 as they tried to return home after watching a movie, police say. The six men, the only occupants of the private bus, beat the man with a metal bar, raped the woman and used the bar to inflict massive internal injuries to her, police say. The victims were dumped naked on the roadside, and the woman died from her injuries two weeks later in a Singapore hospital.

The brutal attack set off nationwide protests about India’s treatment of women and spurred the government to hurry through a new package of laws to protect them.

Singh’s death comes as the trial was deep underway, with another hearing scheduled for Monday. There was no word if that would be affected.

As the Nigerian economic condition bites harder, many male citizens are now ready to sell their semen to couples who need them for procreation, according to new findings.
Many of the respondents to the vox pop conducted by PM News correspondent said they would not hesitate to donate their sperm for cash as long as it is not for ritual purposes but to help couples battling with infertility have children.
Those who said they would not mind making their sperm available for sale included young as well as married men.
Donation of sperm and female eggs to couples and fertility clinics, considered a normal practice in most parts of the western world, had been a discrete practice in Nigeria due to the country’s religious and cultural beliefs.
Only four of the 25 male respondents said they would never engage in such an act with the excuse that it was sinful.
Some of those favourably disposed to it said they would donate their semen based on the condition that they would not be made to know who exactly needs it while others said they were only concerned with the money that would come from the transaction.
“Why won’t I sell mine if I see a possible buyer?” asked Chibuike Nnamdi who sells women’s wares at the Ojuore market, Ota, Ogun state, Southwest Nigeria.
“As long as it is not for the people to use it for rituals, I am ready oh!,” he said.
A resident of Iyana-Iyesi area of the state, who gave his name simply as Michael, said once the money is good, he would sell his semen.
“Most guys these days ease themselves by masturbating and thus wasting fertile sperm seriously needed by married families battling infertility.
“Therefore, rather than for me to continue to waste mine, I am ready to grab any opportunity that comes with selling it.
“I’m just imagining myself masturbating and instead of someone to scold me, he pays me. That’s good enough,” the graduate of Chemistry said.
Mr. Mike, a married man who has two children, simply asked: “bros, where is it done? Where is the hospital? Introduce me and we will share the proceeds.”
Another married man resident in Ikeja who refused to mention his name but said he had four children, said many male Nigerians including him would sell.
Hear him: “it may sound absurd at first for someone to approach you to sell your sperm for that purpose or for you to even realise that you could sell it, but in the end, you will sell.
“Just imagine how many men have kids outside wedlock, the one they call love kids, which they never tell their family but which continue to trouble them all through life.
“Imagine again, how much you would spend just to have extra-marital affairs with a lady or when you are dating her. In this case, rather than for you to be paying, someone is paying you.”
Mr. Sumanu Giwa, a 40-year old businessman in the Lagos Island area of Lagos, said he would sell on the condition that he was not made to know the family that needs the sperm.
“If I have the opportunity to sell to a hospital, I will gladly do it and make some money which would assist my business,” he said.
Sumanu’s friend, Monday, even gave an insight into another form of sperm donation.
According to him, some men battling with infertility and have no money to buy sperm from fertility clinic now pay young healthy and fertile men to sleep with and impregnate their wives.
“There would be an understanding between the man and his wife. Then they would travel very far and look for a man very distant from them who would sleep with the woman for pay,” he said.
He said one of his friends living in Asaba, Delta state now has a child from such mutual and confidential arrangement.
A resident of Agege, Mr. P. A. Ayo, said he would rather see selling of sperm to couples in need as assistance to them.
“Have you not heard of situations where the woman knows that the man cannot impregnate her and she then gets someone outside who dates her and continues to pump children into her womb only for her to bring the pregnancy home to a very excited husband?
“We have such women all over Lagos in case you have not found out. So it is maturity on the part of a man to agree to getting his wife pregnant with another man’s semen,” he explained.
A number of fertility clinics engaging in the purchase of sperm from men have sprung up in Lagos over the years, many of them are located on the Island area of the state.
These clinics, which shroud their operations in secrecy, have sperm banks where they freeze the sperms and keep them alive since it is scientifically proven that the lifespan of sperm is between 48 and 72 hours.
Though they refuse to confirm that they buy sperm, they rather claim that men who give out their sperms are simply donors who get a token as appreciation and encouragement.
P.M.NEWS learnt that this ‘token’ is between N250,000 and N500,000 per release depending on how buoyant the clinic is, but these same clinics make millions of naira selling it to couples.
“Before we allow such sperms, we first carry out all the necessary tests including sexually-transmitted diseases, blood group and genotype.
“Then we extract the sperm by majorly making the person masturbate after which it is frozen,” a staff of one of the clinics told P.M.NEWS, adding that to ensure success, they make sure the woman is fertile enough to carry the pregnancy.
“For women whose eggs are deformed or who have problems, we put them in the right state before fertilisation. We could even get eggs from female donors and implant them in the wombs of these women.
“I believe in miracles, but sometimes when you hear that a woman got pregnant after so many years of marriage, it may be as a result of sperm or egg donation,” the staff disclosed, adding that the clinics continue to monitor and care for the woman throughout her pregnancy period as well as keep the identities of the donors away from couples.

Speaking Up Truthfully

If you want to do a very practical biblical study, look at the words “one another” in Acts and the Church Epistles. You will find about 40 associated verbs, most of them imperative. There are many things you and I are commanded by God to be, think, do and say to our brethren in the Lord. In these relational attitudes and actions lie the keys to the truly more abundant life. No Christian can, by himself, fulfill his spiritual destiny or be fulfilled.

Next to my primary responsibility to love God is my responsibility to love my “neighbor.” The word “neighbor” means “near one.” Thus, in the course of a day, I have many “neighbors,” starting with my “immediate family.” Each relationship presents many unique challenges and opportunities for me to trust God. Why? Because often I do not know exactly what to do, when I do know something must be done. These never-ending situations allow me to step toward my “near one” and watch the Lord Jesus meet me in the gap between my ability and the person’s need. He is the bridge over troubled waters, providing for me whatever I need to manifest His heart to another.

Oswald Chambers has written that a Christian must consciously identify with Jesus Christ’s interests in each of the other people in his life. Please think about some of the near ones in your life. How well do you really know them? Do you know their dreams, their fears, their goals? Do you know what they are committed to be and do for the Lord and for others? What are you doing to press into their hearts to find out this vital information?

The more clearly you understand another’s commitments, the more effectually you can be committed to helping him achieve them. As you reach out to him with this kind of bold love, you earn his permission to interrupt weakness, sin or idolatry in his life, and help him get back on track toward his commitments. Such specificity in relationships also helps you to know whether or not you are succeeding in causing in another whatever it is you are committed to cause. For you, what is that?

What action on your part do you think will usually be involved in such relational give-and-take? How about speaking up? Yes, there are times when silence is appropriate, but in the context of what I am sharing here, I assert that silence produces death in relationships. Recently I read (and highly recommend) a great book, The Silence of Adam, by Larry Crabb (written primarily for men). The premise of the book is that in Genesis 3:6, Adam was right there with his wife when she sinned, and he did not open his mouth. Likewise, men today tend not to open up and speak from the heart, even to their wives.

How often have I given tacit (silent) consent to something I knew was wrong or could hurt someone? Too often. I wonder why this is such a tendency with me. Gee, you think it could be fear? Okay, fear of what? How about disapproval, rejection or loss of reputation, friends, money or life? In reality, it is seldom the last two. Usually it is because I want to hang onto the idols of looking good, feeling good, or being right. Fear is almost always about me. But wait—there’s a cure. Perfect love displaces fear. Why? Because when I truly love you, I am thinking of you, not myself.

Hebrews 10:22-25 are four fabulous verses. Hebrews 1:1 to 10:21 is all about the relationship of Jesus Christ to Israel, and how by his finished work each believer is made righteous, independent of any works of his own. Based upon this fundamental and indispensable truth, Hebrews 10:22-25 sets forth five exhortations. Let us look at the last three:

Hebrews 10:24 and 25
(24) And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.
(25) Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another –and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

The Greek word for “consider” means “to think deeply.” I am to exert mental energy in determining how I can inspire and motivate you to love (which is a verb, resulting in doing good works). “Spur on” is “provoke” in the KJV, and includes the idea of speaking to one another. Guess what? So does the word “encourage.” It literally means “to call to one’s side to speak any words necessary to exhort to a worthy endeavor.”

Note that sandwiched between the two exhortations to speak up is another: “don’t quit on one another!” By the way, you can quit on someone and still see him at a weekly fellowship, or even live under the same roof with him. So it’s not about just getting together with someone, it’s about becoming one in the Lord with him. Such oneness does not just happen. In fact, it requires a relentless struggle on the part of people whose fallen natures lurking within them fight to prevent any true bonding. In this struggle, failing while moving toward another is not really failure. Only quitting is failure.

“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” (Prov. 27:17). Iron only sharpens other iron if the two pieces have sustained contact with one another. And iron is a tough enough metal to stay in sustained contact with other metal of the same composition and not be destroyed, but rather be improved and made more useful. You and I have at the core of our beings holy spirit, the divine nature. Nothing godly in you or me can be destroyed by contact with another person, and the rest that is in us needs to go anyway.

Speaking the truth in love often requires real courage. Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather mental and moral strength that enables me to speak or act as I should, despite my fear. A coward speaks also, but he speaks to someone else about you, rather than directly to you. It is not always wrong to do this (it depends upon one’s motive, and to whom he speaks), but usually such “corrupt communication” is nothing but gossip. Gossip forms a triangular relationship among the coward (the one who speaks), the caretaker (the one spoken to, if he buys into the “conspiracy”) and the casualty (the one spoken about). [For further study read The Drama Triangle.]

Struggling to knit your heart with another saint is often painful, but Proverbs 27:6a says that “wounds from a friend can be trusted.” The more you know that someone loves you, the more you trust his “wounds,” that is, the words he speaks to pierce your heart and encourage or correct you. Such words are just the opposite of the “fiery darts” of the Enemy designed to pierce and destroy you.

Speaking up to a brother in Christ could be me telling you what is missing for me in our relationship. But it could also be me exposing my weaknesses (secrets) to you so that you could know how to best serve me. Though I might fear that you wouldn’t love me if you knew about such a weakness, the truth is that a believer who really loves would love me more, and do what he could to help me. Such willingness to entrust myself to the Lord and open my heart to you usually causes intimacy, which could be thought of as “into me see.” This is what genuine Christianity is all about, and it is a big key to great outreach among unbelievers (see John 13:35).

What’s the alternative to genuine Christianity? Indifference, apathy, cowardice, uninvolvement, and the agony of defeat with no chance for the thrill of victory. This often leads to a miserable existence of self-focus and a corresponding victim mentality, with their corresponding curse—loneliness. So let’s do all we can to become like Christ and speak up truthfully with each other, in love.