Most essential needs for MEN in RELATIONSHIPS.

Men and women have different needs when it comes to relationships. The mutual understanding and fulfilment of these needs has been acknowledged as the fuel that keeps the relationship going.

Some of the most essential needs for men in relationships are as follows:

MEN

Sex: The desire for physical intimacy is a major influence on how men treat and perceive relationships.

This is largely attributed to their biological make up. According to research, testosterone levels in men begin to peak towards the age of 40.

However, some men remain sexually potent up to around the age of 80. Unlike women who cherish emotional warmth and intimacy more, men tend to highly prioritise sex.

Respect: Respect is the language of love that men understand best. Men expect their spouses to accord them utmost respect, both by way of action and speech.

Regardless of the cause, using hurtful speech indicates a lack of love and respect. Respect also entails submissiveness.

When the woman becomes too overbearing, the man usually feels threatened, and may consequently recoil or end the relationship altogether.

Affirmation: Every man wants to have a mate who affirms his identity, objectives and desires. Men relish the hero feeling.

This comes by way of affirmation, and provides them with a mental boost. In return, they have more self-belief, motivation and confidence.

Admiration and attraction: In relationships, men desire to feel that their partners are genuinely attracted to them. They love being admired.

Attraction and admiration provide worth and life to a relationship, rekindle the fire and lead to better relations.

Usually, women who offer admiration have better relationships than those who don’t.

From: My story….
Title: Deformation of someone character

Message Body:
HIS & My Side Story DEAR met Sean Merchant Send A Story Of The Young Miss Krissy What Basiclly Did Stole Pics Of The Young Lady And send It in. Young Lady Was At The Party Was At party Last wkend A Photographer Came up To Her a Pic she said no. the Photograpgher Goes by the name Ricky247ent.com. So Miss Krissy Was Pictures Was stolen from instragram & Facebook. Her Boyfriend Sean Merchant Use all of her intame pics to frame her. She went and break up with him. After she told him that then he flip outs on her & gets mad and then frame name all over the internet. Ever i have known this young she was always hard working woman. one day Maurice starts harrsing the young lady and was sending threats. If he dnt see her now so she said no leave me alone maurice i am w/ someone. Then he send in story making up false accusations about her. Have story all over the internet to destroy her charatcer. How you assuse someone of something you didnt do? As of sean merchant to send in a story of the young lady ? Which was untrue of her? Maurice madhouse how could you steal pics of the young lady fabcate thr story about her? Now days met anyone could steal pics all over the internet which in fact thats what they did? She had photos all over her instgram & facebook? THE YOUNG LADY HAVE PICS OF THE TEXTS MAURICE MADHOUSE IS HARASSING THE YOU LADY? Met there is always three side to a story? Fame young lady saying that she knows movado when she didnt because she know movado though family & friends? Making her looking like groupie?

MY RESPONSE :-

Good morning, first of all I don’t know who Krissy is nor who Maurice is nor where her photos were sent. It is sickening that you people continuously take up burdens that are not yours. For a moment I was reading this and was wondering what it is all about and I had to read it about three times , mostly out of disbelief because the story had nothing to do with none of these people here. No pictures were used in the story so where were the photos stolen from? Did you read the story yourself? Did the young lady in the story’s name have anything to do with a K? smh

Top 10 things that WOMEN need in MEN, but will never SAY.

Men do a lot of things to try and attract women. Some of them work, and well, some of them crash and burn. The problem is that most men really have no idea what women find attractive about men. This is what leads them to shooting in the dark and hoping for the best.

To really get your attraction levels soaring you have to know what women actually find attractive about men, all the time, not some time. Take the guess work out of attraction.

1. Dominance – Women absolute love dominance in a man. Now this doesn’t mean you walk around like the best thing since sliced bread and chain your woman to the stove, but it does mean you are in control. You take control, you command control and your control is incredibly attractive to females.

2. Confidence – Similar to dominance, confidence will make women swoon over you. They adore the alpha male that stands in front of the line. You can’t be the little puppy that just falls in line. Be sure and proud of who you are, confidence in yourself and what you do is what will reel women in like the catch of the day.

3. Relax – Women really like it when you seem calm and relaxed. Now this doesn’t mean you need to pop a Valium before talking to a woman but it does mean you need to take a few deep breaths and just cool it. When you appear relaxed women will take notice at how cool calm and collected you are.

4. Hygiene – An incredibly important and yet overlooked part of attracting women is hygiene. Yes, appearances are important, they are what shows the world how you care for yourself.

Poor hygiene shows that you don’t respect yourself and that DOES NOT attract women. It’s also important because I don’t know a single time when two people met eyes across a crowded room and said “Wow he looks smart.”

5. Be Fun – When you are the “life of the party” everyone INCLUDING women want to be around you. They see fun people and automatically assume they will have fun being around them. Now being fun can be anything from being a social butterfly to always having a good time no matter where you go. No matter which suits you BE FUN and women will respond.

6. Be Positive – Being happy will really attract great attention. No one wants to hang out with a gloomy Gus, so if you’re moping around you are not going to attract women, in fact it will be the antithesis of attraction. You will push people away. You will find them turning and walking the opposite direction rather than engaging you.

7. Be Generous – Being giving is a good way to get female attention and it will be very positive attention. This doesn’t mean kill your bank account trying to be the cool guy that gives everything anyone asks for, but it does mean you shouldn’t shy away from offering drinks, food or something that will help them at that moment. Giving will make you appear to be the care taker and women love when men take care of them.

8. Be Chivalrous – As much as people say “Chivalry is dead” it doesn’t mean it can’t be revived. And trust me women will eat it up like the last box of ice cream. Open doors for them, pull chairs out and be all around a knight in shining armor. Chivalry is NOT dead and it will win women over time and time again.

9. Be Spontaneous – Spontaneity shows excitement and women don’t want to be a part of a humdrum life. Women love spontaneous acts of passion and romance. They love it when they are surprised and when you keep things interesting no woman will be able to resist.

10. Show Commitment – Before you freak out and have a heart attack this doesn’t mean you should get down on one knee and ask the girl to marry you. It just means you need to show her you are capable of commitment and you don’t shy away from it like most men. Women love when men can commit and showing her you can, will lock in your position at the top of her list.