Dear All,

I am very depressed because I have done a sin.

I am married but was on an assignment in Kisii for 3 weeks and befriended a local girl, while I stayed in Harvana Hotel (Nile Restaurant – Or something like that). She started loving me and started fantasizing about our marriage within 2 weeks. I didn’t tell her that I was already married. Then she told me to have sex though I was continuously telling her that not now.

But once she came in my room and we had intercourse though I was really not that interested. I was continuously telling her that my family won’t accept her because of the tribal difference and also she is not that much educated as I am. But she said at that time that she won’t force me if I couldn’t marry her. I really made the biggest mistake of my life and the day before I left Kisii we had a sex. The next day again she came to my room to say goodbye and we had sex again. Then I left that town.

For the next 20 days I was in touch with her. But then I changed my phone number and stopped replying to her facebook messages, defriended her as well but she started sending messages that without me she couldn’t live. Though I didn’t reply her mails for about 2 months, she continuously sends messages once in 5-8 days and now started saying that if I don’t reply then she would leave this world.

She was a virgin and because she feels that sex before marriage is a sin she says that she can’t face her mom and family if I don’t marry her.

Now I am in a big trouble. If she commits suicide then I would feel guilty. If she writes my name in a suicide note then I would be behind bars. She may also frame me by saying that I had sex with her in pretext of marring her.

Friends I am really really desperate and have been having tension for the past 10-15 days. She doesn’t have any friend that I know of whom I can talk to and ask her to convince this girl not to commit suicide and I don’t know how to convince her to not to think of killing herself.

She is that kind of a girl who thinks that if a girl has sex then she belongs exclusively to that man and she should not even think about anyone else.

What do I do?

Married man bombs prostitute’s apartment after she took another man home

ZIMBABWE – A Gweru man petrol bombed a room belonging to his regular prostitute after she turned him down and took home another man.

The bombing of the room resulted in the whole house being gutted by fire. Sources said the six-roomed house is occupied by commercial sex workers. It is said the lady of the night, only identified as Beauty had reportedly refused to go with her regular “catch”, identified as Jack Tsikani (33).

Acting police spokesperson for Midlands province Assistant Inspector Emmanuel Mahoko confirmed the incident, which occurred on Saturday night at House number 72 Maliwa Road in Mtapa suburb. Asst Insp Mahoko also confirmed the arrest of the suspect Tsikani but could not give further details on the matter, saying investigations were still under way.

“I can confirm that police are investigating a case in which a house in Mtapa suburb belonging to one Mr Tawanda Nyoni was gutted by fire following a brawl involving one of the tenants and her lover. Police also arrested the suspect, Jack Tsikani (33) following the incident. We are, however, yet to get full details of the matter as investigations are still under way and police are treating the case as malicious damage to property,” he said.

Sources, however, told Chronicle that on the fateful day, the suspect, Tsikani who is now in police custody, was enjoying a night out with his girlfriend-cum- commercial sex worker, Beauty, at Salacco night club in Mtapa. The two had been lured to the club by popular Harare-based comedian and musician, Freddy Manjalima, popularly known as “Kapfupi” who was performing.

“It was during that night that Beauty who is a well-known commercial sex worker later ditched Tsikani and took home another man. This did not go down well with Tsikani who followed the two lovebirds to Beauty’s lodgings at Number 72 Maliwa Road Mtapa,” said the source.

The sources said the suspect then petrol bombed Beauty’s room resulting in the whole house being gutted by fire. They said following the incident, Beauty reported the matter to the police and led them to Tsikani’s house in the same suburb where he was then arrested.

“There was more drama at Tsikani’s house when his wife ran amok and struck Beauty with an axe on the head for leading the police to their house. One of the police officers who was investigating the case was also struck on the hand by Tsikani’s wife,” said the source.

Beauty confirmed the incident and the alleged assault by Tsikani’s wife. She said she was still admitted to Gweru Provincial Hospital when she was contacted for comment yesterday.