INDIA’S UNWANTED GIRLS
India’s unwanted girls
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India’s 2011 census shows a serious decline in the number of girls under the age of seven – activists fear eight million female foetuses may have been aborted in the past decade. The BBC’s Geeta Pandey in Delhi explores what has led to this crisis.
Kulwant has three daughters aged 24, 23 and 20 and a son who is 16.
In the years between the birth of her third daughter and her son, Kulwant became pregnant three times.
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My mother-in-law said if I had a daughter, my husband would leave me. Thankfully, I had a son.”
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Each time, she says, she was forced to abort the foetus by her family after ultrasound tests confirmed that they were girls.
“My mother-in-law taunted me for giving birth to girls. She said her son would divorce me if I didn’t bear a son.”
Kulwant still has vivid memories of the first abortion. “The baby was nearly five months old. She was beautiful. I miss her, and the others we killed,” she says, breaking down, wiping away her tears.
Until her son was born, Kulwant’s daily life consisted of beatings and abuse from her husband, mother-in-law and brother-in-law. Once, she says, they even attempted to set her on fire.
“They were angry. They didn’t want girls in the family. They wanted boys so they could get fat dowries,” she says.
India outlawed dowries in 1961, but the practice remains rampant and the value of dowries is constantly growing, affecting rich and poor alike.
Kulwant’s husband died three years after the birth of their son. “It was the curse of the daughters we killed. That’s why he died so young,” she says.
Common attitude
Girl Power
How girls are valued varies widely across India. Over the years, most states in the south and north-east have been kind to their girls, and sex ratios are above the national average.
In the matrilineal societies of Kerala and Karnataka in the south and Meghalaya in the north-east, women have enjoyed high status and commanded respect. But the latest census figures show the good news even in these areas could be turning bad. A minor decline in the number of girls has begun in the three states which, campaigners worry, might be indicative of a trend.
What is seen as most distressing is the steep decline in the number of girls under seven in the southern state of Andhra Pradesh and in Sikkim, Nagaland, Manipur and Tripura in the north-east. Even though these states have registered numbers much higher than the national average, the decline is too substantial to ignore.
But all is not lost. Some states, such as Punjab, Haryana and Himachal Pradesh – which saw the gap between numbers of boys and girls widen in 2001 – have shown an improvement. That is cause for some cheer, campaigners say.
Her neighbour Rekha is mother of a chubby three-year-old girl.
Last September, when she became pregnant again, her mother-in-law forced her to undergo an abortion after an ultrasound showed that she was pregnant with twin girls.
“I said there’s no difference between girls and boys. But here they think differently. There’s no happiness when a girl is born. They say the son will carry forward our lineage, but the daughter will get married and go off to another family.”
Kulwant and Rekha live in Sagarpur, a lower middle-class area in south-west Delhi.
Here, narrow minds live in homes separated by narrow lanes.
The women’s story is common and repeated in millions of homes across India, and it has been getting worse.
In 1961, for every 1,000 boys under the age of seven, there were 976 girls. Today, the figure has dropped to a dismal 914 girls.
Although the number of women overall is improving (due to factors such as life expectancy), India’s ratio of young girls to boys is one of the worst in the world after China.
Many factors come into play to explain this: infanticide, abuse and neglect of girl children.
But campaigners say the decline is largely due to the increased availability of antenatal sex screening, and they talk of a genocide.
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Pastor’s sexual coercion lawsuit resolved: attorney
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B.J. Bernstein, who represented the men, gave no details of the settlement. There was no immediate comment from Long’s megachurch, New Birth Missionary Baptist Church based in Lithonia, Georgia.
“Neither attorney Bernstein nor the plaintiffs themselves will be available for interview on this matter, now or in the future,” a statement from Bernstein’s office said.
“There is no spokesperson for the plaintiffs’ team other than attorney Bernstein, and she will have no further comment on the case,” it said.
Long denied the accusations made in civil lawsuits last September that he used his status as pastor to coerce the men into relationships when they were in their late teens.
“Long has a pattern and practice of singling out a select group of young male church members and using his authority as bishop over them to ultimately bring them to engage in sexual relationships,” according to the lawsuits.
When the accusations were first filed, Long told his church he faced a similar situation to David when he fought Goliath.
Long built the church from just 300 members in 1987 to more than 25,000 today.
The church, set on a campus east of Atlanta, runs a global network of ministries and businesses. It hosted the funeral in 2006 of civil rights leader Coretta Scott King.
(Writing by Matthew Bigg; Editing by Jerry Norton)
MORE THAN BLUES
EDITORIAL
Feeling the blues over Blue Lagoon
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Portland, we contend, must be among the most beautiful and alluring places on earth. So we decidedly can’t agree with Port Antonio mayor, Commander Floyd Patterson who is quoted in this week’s Sunday Observer as saying that Portland has “lost tourism”.
For surely as this country seeks to go forward in the further sustainable development of tourism and leisure as a money-spinning industry, Portland has got to be high on the agenda.
However, we are also very conscious that unless there is care, thought and proper planning, essential elements to ensure that sustainable development, will be lost. On that basis, we feel duty bound to congratulate Mayor Patterson and others who coalesced to put a stop to the removal of rail parts which he correctly identified as important in Portland’s heritage.
Far too often, we believe, communities are content to simply sit by as their heritage, inclusive of old churches and other historic sites, are looted by scrap metal scavengers.
Of course, heritage sites are not the only victims of the scrap metal trade. The utility companies, for example, have lost millions of dollars in damage to their infrastructure to metal theft.
But to return to Portland, our concern for the sustainable development of tourism means we are also interested in what the Sunday Observer headlines a ‘Storm over Blue Lagoon’. From this distance, it seems to be yet another example of the age-old tussle between developers who sense an opportunity to make money and those intent on protecting the physical environment. Finding the correct balance is never easy.
In short, noted environmentalists, such as Ms Diana McCaulay, chief executive officer of the Jamaica Environment Trust (JET), are complaining that a private development now taking place could damage the world-renowned Blue Lagoon. Further, Ms McCaulay charges that the State’s environmental watchdog, National Environment and Planning Agency (NEPA), has failed to effectively monitor the private development or to properly protect the physical environment.
On the other hand, the developers are vigorously denying that actions by them are endangering the environment. In fact, they insist that it is the natural physical environment on which they will be dependent if their investment is to be successful.
Intriguingly, the developers have introduced skin colour as a motive for JET’s objections.
“The man who owns the property is black and these people don’t believe that a little black boy from Port Antonio should own that property,” says Colin Bell, operations manager for Tropical Lagoon Heights Resort, whose main attraction – we are told – is the lagoon.
All that aside though, we feel all concerned in this matter should pay close attention to the words of Major Johnathan Lamey, president of the Portland Environmental Protection Association.
Says he: “Blue Lagoon is the common heritage of all Jamaicans regardless of who might own it at a particular time, and so the perspective of the community should be taken into consideration for any development because it will affect us all, both in terms of the tourism product and the livelihood of all Portlanders.”
We suspect that had the wider community been consulted about all aspects of the planned development at the very start, much of the current “storm” would have been avoided. It seems to us that going forward, this is something NEPA and the Government should weave into their modus operandi.
Read more: http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/editorial/Feeling-the-blues-over-Blue-Lagoon_8813657#ixzz1NYDozRgv
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