EME UNFAIR AWARDS?
KARTEL MONEY NUFF AN ALLL DESE TINGS…YES DI PRICE A DI AWARDS CHEAPA DAN A SECON HAN BENZ MI SURE SURE… DI PEOPLE DEM SEH DEM WAA KNOW IF A KARTEL MONEY CHIP HEEN MEK HIM GET FOUR AWARD….WELL MONEY N DI 50 MILLION SUCK SOFT HOOD PICHO…MMHMM…BUT HOW POPCAAN FI WIN OVA KHAGO AN I-OCTANE?? SMADDY EXPLAIND AT FI MI… RICHEY BBBBBBBBB DI PEOPLE DEM WAA KNOW…OOO
PAWTIE RUN DUNG
Anodda bad Sundeh hee Petty Pet… Petal Kingscounty han out stitch and bandage Keisha neva mek fun wid yuh head ina Twin Paul dance whey night…oooh Gawd… Mek unno can fite an damij up unno one anadda suh man..People keep dem party and it look like dem soon haffi go stawt pay ambulance fi wait pan di side lines cause unno a guh deh go shell it dung wid bakkle, knife an gun. Toya need SORTING AND ASSORTMENT BADLY. Why yuh so badmine cause Blacky did have har house an har Range yuh mek dem deport di ooman and yuh a walk a mek dem deport people?
_AN DI BIG PEOPLE BEHAVING BADLY AWARD GOES TO LONG TIME OLE OOMAN STIKER AND ANN ROMPIN SHOP…NOW DI PEOPLE DEM SEH DEM A WAR OVA MAN OR OOMAN DEM NOT SURE BUT DEM TWO OLE OOMAN…ONE FULLY PLASTIC AN ONE NEED PLASTIC , FOOT , MOUT AN TRUNK . STIKER MI NUH HAFFI TELL YOU WHEY YUH NEED FI DO.. ROMPIN SHOP …THE RGD NEEDS TO SEE YOU…….. BADLY
-HECKLE , FLIPPA AN SHAWN SHARP MISSIN FRAM GEE PARTY…DI PEOPLE DEM WANTZ TUH KNOW WHY OO
GOODMORNING-VERBAL ABUSE
Verbal Abuse – The Characteristics
Verbal abuse is a very common malady that attacks every human being at some point in their lives; some more than others. It can be a very devastating form of abuse when the person experiences the attacks frequently. Verbal abuse cannot be readily seen like bruises, but it causes mental and emotional harm. Characteristics identifying verbal abuse are, but not limited to:
Always referring to the opinions of others as irrelevant and wrong.
Inconsideration of a person’s feelings.
Using verbal abusiveness jokingly.
Refusing to listen to others.
Using accusations and blame to manipulate and control others.
Being judgmental and critical of others.
Belittling the concerns of others.
Consistently berates a person’s confidence.
Threatens to do physical harm.
Name-calling.
Purposeful cancellations of appointments or agreements.
Making difficult or impossible demands on others.
Denial of perpetrating the abuse.
Causing fear in people through outbursts of rage.
Verbal Abuse – Avoiding Depression
Sometimes words are used harshly by people without realizing how hurtful the words sound. A daily barrage of hurtful words leads to depression, which is very common in an abusive situation.
Avoiding depression can be accomplished when steps are taken to dispel it. Inactivity of one’s situation breeds depression. Here are some active steps people can take to counteract the effects of depression brought on by verbal abuse.
Realize that abuse is not your fault. Abuse is never justified.
Discuss the unacceptable behavior with the abuser. Let the abuser know how much the harsh words hurt.
Discuss ways both people can change to improve the relationship.
Seek counseling: whether it is together, separately, or individually.
Surround yourself with a support system of friends, family, church group, etc.
If the verbal abuse becomes physical, personal safety is imperative. Leave the volatile situation and allow time for cooling down.
The person dealing with depression due to verbal abuse must stop blaming him or herself for the problems.
At the moment of being verbally abused, remember to:
Stay calm. Do not become agitated.
Let the abuser vent. He or she will lose steam and may realize the person refuses to become a victim of their abuse.
Do not reward the abuser by reacting to their actions with hurtful responses. Lashing out lets the abuser know they had power in affecting the person’s emotions.
Verbal Abuse – A Personal Story
I have dealt with emotional and verbal abuse from my husband, which has been very difficult. God has helped me through it by bringing Bible verses to my mind. They have helped me so much.
“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you” (Deuteronomy 31:6).
“For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7).
“I can do everything through him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13).
Following Jesus’ example has helped me the most. He suffered much more than I have. He was tried, found guilty of crimes He didn’t commit, and ultimately killed in the most humiliating, painful way. If Jesus scorned the shame of the cross, then I can scorn the shame applied to me by my husband. All the while, I treat him with respect.
God loves me and He loves you. Do you know Him? He is able to help us through our trials.
WE ALL HAVE THEM?
(1) The Genealogist–Do you have a family member who is always Introducing you to perfect strangers
as relatives? every family function always another new family member.. word to my mother and auntie if its
not a 2nd or 3rd Cousin we are not related.. lol
(2)The Perv/FamilyRam –What can i say about this creep he’s always on the look out for the next up
and coming young girl in the family. always making inappropriate comments rude remarks. if he make a
move at you chances are you are not the first one or the first time..
(3) The Trouble Maker/News carrier –Kinda self explanatory bringing news back and fourth latest
gossip/suss passa passa she/he inna it. most likely she/he is the cause for the whole thing in da first place.
Let’s just say the next time dem come fi beat har/him rass Don’t save her/him..
(4)The Rich and Boasty– More boasty than rich. put down everybody show off everytime them come round.
the house they grew up in is no longer good enough for them. so they can only spend a few hours. by night fall
they must be on their way home to their mansion
(5)The Sad Drunk—White Rum was his tea this morning. for some reason everybody owe him that’s is claim he
help all of us get through school. he helped you get the job you have right now. if it wasn’t for is good name where
would you be now?help you to get your Visa and now you all turn your backs on him Wow..
(6)The Slut–Yes what would the family be without her?we know how she get by, still no one seems brave enough
to confront her bout her whorish ways. is it cause she help every body with the money she make from her
endeavours? you know she never tight with cash easy fi let off the cash just like the pum pum…
(7) The Beggar–Don’t lie every family have a beggar or few lol…at any family function its fair to say they will bring nothing
guarantee.. never fail always broke check never change. them owe everybody and them mother.. there is no item too big or small
for them to borrow or beg. lend me this beg you some a that.
(8)The Provocative Dresser– Mini dress at a Church ceremony come on tone it down auntie. her perfume smell took me away
her bosom was like a pillow of rose as she buried my head between her cleavage.. i soon surfaced for air only to realize that I was still
at our Grandfather’s funeral . and was still 8yrs young.. see you in 10yrs auntie lol…
(9)The Thief/Con man– This is where we need to be brutally honest, cause the beggar is sometime the thief in the family.
you make sure to keep a close eye on them whenever there are invited over. all valuables are put out of sight scheming
always.. some new investment they want to get u suckered into. am sure they are hiding from somebody right now..
(10)The worrier/war Monger? Quick to start a fight this can be a man or a woman. fight for the least of things hot head.
in my opinion they are the most misunderstood of all other family members. let me explain, you see they are loyal to family
they have your back weather you are wrong or right. but as loyal as the are they will kick your ass too.. lol. so most member
of the family shun them for this reason.. but i say stay on their good side keep them at a distance you will need them trust me lol.
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