10 SIGNS HE IS A DRUG DEALER

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He calls you from multiple phone numbers, or his numbers show up as blocked on your caller ID. Even most people who have a cell phone paid for by their job only have one, so when you hear from Mr. Mysterious from a different phone number several times per week, be suspicious. Also be suspicious if you have actually seen him with several different cell phones in a short period of time, or are aware that he only uses prepaid phones, and changes his number frequently by buying a new phone.

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He is generally secretive, but acts as such in a sly way, making it seem like not knowing a persons last name is normal. Okay, so some people are just more private than others, that’s for sure. But, if you new man always seems to dodge pointed questions about his job description, his friends, or what he does in his spare time, there’s a reason for it, whether it has to do with illegal activity or not. He may fill in the blanks when questioned with run around answers.

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He spends a lot of time in clubs. If he doesn’t show signs of being an alcoholic or even as being much of a drinker and he spends a great deal of time and money partying that is cause for worry. While some men (and women) like to club and socialize with friends after work, if you are seeing the car of Mr. Mysterious at the club on the nightly or every other night , this is a bad sign. If he is always claiming that he is “doing business” at the club, he probably is, but it’s not the kind of business you would want to be involved in.

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He wears really nice clothes, and we’re not just talking Gap or Old Navy. If his weekend lounge outfits costs more than your most prized business suit or your best friend’s custom-made wedding dress, that is cause for concern. Some men just love to dress nice, God bless them, but one has to wonder where one gets the money to spend on this type of wardrobe. This, along with other signs, is suspicious.

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He has a really nice car. I know, this one might seem weird. It’s great to date a guy with a nice car, because it shows that he cares about vehicle reliability, and it is also can be a symbol of his success in life. However, how nice of a car are we talking? If you have no proof that he has a great career (and if he did, he would be willing to talk about it… and he drives a newer 50 to 90 thousand dollar car , especially one with back up cameras and dark tinted windows, be afraid, be very afraid. Or at least wary.

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His friend’s don’t say much, and seem as mysterious as he does.They live in places like Arizona, California, Miami, and New York. His friend and he are always traveling. When Mr. Mysterious is with his friends, and they are in deep, hushed discussion until you walk up, it’s not just your imagination. If Mr. Mysterious and his friends don’t openly discuss their careers, the mundane aspects of their jobs, or keep off of the subject of jobs altogether, preferring to discuss only family and hobbies, this is yet another clue. Or, his friends might be oddly quiet altogether.

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Mr. Mysterious seems to make excuses for you two to always be alone, claiming that he just enjoys the intimacy and romance of alone time. While it is wonderful when a guy requests together time, he can’t give you the time he will see you. He will just say”I’m still on the road, or I have to see another friend. He is uncomfortable around your friends, who tend to ask questions. Another sign would be a lack of group dates, or avoidance of family get-togethers or neighborhood barbecues. However, remember that if he is really slick, he will still attend some events so you will feel confident in your relationship.

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He has different names that everyone calls him. Be sure you know the real one. If he won’t let you see I.D. well that’s never good.

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He expresses his distrust of banks, financial institutions, or government organizations.

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He doesn’t leave a paper trail. On dates or any outings, he always pays with cash, and always has a lot of cash. He rarely if ever uses credit cards, and you have heard him say on more than one occasion how he prefers to use cash.