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I had a problem with my husband about 2 months before our wedding, he suspected and accused me of having an affair he later found was not true and this was after we have dated for 5 years.

That broke my heart because I was a very decent girl and infect he disvirgined me after 4 years into our courtship after I had graduated from University. He did apologise though and even though I tried to stop the wedding he begged me and made the whole world beg me I was no longer interested but it was too late.

When we got married i realised I never enjoyed sex it is always pain and I tried to see if something was wrong with me, I tried to forgive him and free my mind and yet I still never enjoyed it. One day I listened to a voice mail a girl left for him of how much she enjoyed him and how he should not because of marriage forget her as he was too sweet on the bed, this broke my heart because i trusted him and now I realised it’s not as if he doesn’t know how to make love it was my problem.

Though I regret it now and feel guilty, I slept with an ex who never slept with me as a single girl and I must confess I enjoyed it, now I can’t say what my problem is, I never did it after then and I still don’t enjoy sex with my husband.

I feel so guilty and I wish I could confess to him and ask for his forgiveness. Is it wise to do this and please if you have ever had a similar problem what can I do to enjoy sex with my husband? Please, this is a marital and serious and real issue will appreciate genuine and helpful advice.


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