DEAR MET & METTERS

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I’m a 22 year old University student and I plan to live in the States permanently. I have two beaus who I am interested in and would like to get married to one of them when I am finished with school. One of them is in his early 30’s, quite successful, no kids, ambitious, a gentleman and lives in what we would classify as an ”uptown” area of Brooklyn. The thing about him is that I’m not very fond of him but I’m sure he would be an asset in my life if I were to get married to him. He would motivate me and help me to achieve my goals but he is just too smothering that it would become annoying to me. I also get the feeling that he’s a little ”Pum Pum watch man” and I’m not too enticed about that because I’m a girl who likes to do her own thing, I’m stubborn and don’t want to be nagged. Mr. Mention number 2, ohh how I just love him and can’t get enough of him, he’s 26 , very handsome, ambitious, swe et, driven and goal oriented but the thing about him is that he’s not a 9-5 guy like the older guy , it’s not like he’s a bum he’s somewhat of an “entrepreneur” he buys, sells and trades Vehicles but he’s not as loving and affectionate as the other guy and he is always on the go and I’ll see him like twice during the days but mostly at nights because of his ‘lifestyle.’ I prefer him over the other guy because I can be myself around him and tell him almost anything, because he’s so much of a friend to me. I know he won’t watch me or search my phone because he doesn’t have time for that. Should I choose Status and stability or Love? Met and Metters I need your advice on this one PLEASE DON’T JUDGE ME! Constructive criticism is required thank you.

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