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AMEN

JADA PINKETT-SMITH: “THE WAR ON MEN THROUGH THE DEGRADATION OF WOMAN”DECEMBER 1, 2012

After slaying critics in defense of her daughter Willow, outspoken actress and activist Jada Pinkett-Smith took to Facebook today to drop some knowledge on how the degradation of women has resulted in problems for both sexes.

As we look at societies where the women are lost, struggling for education and otherwise disregarded, versus those who consider women the center of their communities, Jada‘s words ring all the more truer. Read what she has to say below:

How is man to recognize his full self, his full power through the eye’s of an incomplete woman? The woman who has been stripped of Goddess recognition and diminished to a big ass and full breast for physical comfort only.

The woman who has been silenced so she may forget her spiritual essence because her words stir too much thought outside of the pleasure space. The woman who has been diminished to covering all that rots inside of her with weaves and red bottom shoes.

I am sure the men, who restructured our societies from cultures that honored woman, had no idea of the outcome. They had no idea that eventually, even men would render themselves empty and longing for meaning, depth and connection.

There is a deep sadness when I witness a man that can’t recognize the emptiness he feels when he objectifies himself as a bank and truly believes he can buy love with things and status. It is painful to witness the betrayal when a woman takes him up on that offer.

He doesn’t recognize that the [creation] of a half woman has contributed to his repressed anger and frustration of feeling he is not enough. He then may love no woman or keep many half women as his prize.

He doesn’t recognize that it’s his submersion in the imbalanced warrior culture, where violence is the means of getting respect and power, as the reason he can break the face of the woman who bore him four children.

When woman is lost, so is man. The truth is, woman is the window to a man’s heart and a man’s heart is the gateway to his soul.

Power and control will NEVER out weigh love.

May we all find our way.
J

Keep up with Jada on Facebook at facebook.com/jada

20 Responses to AMEN

  • PPL busineSS says:

    no justification fi WILLOW a gwaan like BIG OLE CRACK HEAD, let d child embrace her youth

  • ... says:

    I don’t think Met posted it in regard to dem pickney I just think it is for the message she was giving. How dem raise fi dem pickney a fi dem concern unless she becomes a menace to society. Lol met you may haffi put a disclaimer cause ppl might think you agree with the way her pickney going on which we know you don’t discuss children here. PPl Biz mi si wah yuh a seh tho

  • Anonymous says:

    I agree with what Jada is saying 100%.

    I know the topic wasn’t about her parenting style, but I think Willow is embracing her youth…her parents are just allowing her to do so in her own funky way. I know some may disagree with Will and Jada’s parenting style but I think they’re allowing their children to live and grow and are with them every step of the way….they’re not running around like some other reckless celebrity kids.

  • milikeit says:

    “Power and control will NEVER out weigh love.” KABOOOMMMMM!!!

  • Anna says:

    PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • sweet says:

    FINALLY, THE WORDS TO MY THOUGHTS.

  • Bk says:

    TRUE WORDS JADA, THESE SO CALLED MEN HAS NO RESPECT FOR FEMALES, WE ARE NO LONGER SEEN AS SPECIAL DELICATE BEINGS WHO IS TO BE CHERISHED AND TREASURED, AND FEMALES HAS WATERED DOWN THEMSELVES TO A MERE SHOE, CAR, DESIGNER BRANDS ETC. PPL NOW VALUE THEMSEVES TO THE CLOTHES THEY WEAR AND THE CAR THEY DRIVE.

  • PPL busineSS says:

    i kno the her speech has nothing to do with WILLOW but #am just saying – if she caan control her child she caan come gi me nutten whe scripted (smaddy write fi her) she a hypocrite

  • ... says:

    The sad thing is this is a cycle because if the mother is broken & the father is broken how will they raise stable individuals…not everyone gets the opportunity to be exposed to a positive way of life so this becomes a cycle.

  • Libra says:

    I agree with Jada’s message..women need to place more value on themselves and realize they are worth more than designer clothes, shoes and bags. Everyday we see it on this site and yes the passa passa is funny but look how many women risk their freedom to steal clothes or risk their health to sleep with hype man in dancehall.

  • PPL busineSS says:

    guys i know everyone is entitled to their own opinion but – what JADA is saying definitely sound great n all eh but in comparison to how she has allow WILLOW to carry on like a LOOSE CANNON it clearly defeat d whole entire purpose of her speech cause if WILLOW continue pon dis said path u can just imagine her life 10 -12 years fr now???

  • Anonymous says:

    Ppl bus- are you basing what you’re saying off of the way she dresses (hippie/eccentric clothes)? I’m not arguing I’m just curious as to what path you are talking about. And how does it relate to men and women learning to love themselves and love one another without all the disrespect and self degradation?

  • I know that we dwell in a world where a lot of men have lost respect for women; but I must say that the campaign–whether superficial or not–imploring men to respect and appreciate our women has made a difference.

    What I have noticed though is that a lot of women are demanding respect and they are not respecting themselves and the men that they are with… This is a big issue and seldom do I hear women being asked to respect their men…

  • DWRL says:

    Mi naw TEK no advice from no freak, the ooman a married ooman and a throw gay party, orgy party, a fuck other man pon har husband. Dem open to anything so they should also be open to public criticism. The little gal a big lesbian, she’s have no good parental guidance. Next……..

  • DWRL says:

    How man ago respect har when she no respect herself??? You no see the only way she make sure will no cheat on her, is going out and picking out other woman for will to sleep with?? How man feh respect her daughter when her daughter acting like a man??

  • DWRL says:

    @BK these so call men don’t have no respect for these woman because these woman don’t have no damn respect for themselves. IF YOU NO RESPECT YOURSELF THEN YOU CAN’T EXPECT ANYONE TO RESPECT YOU, MAN OR WOMAN. THESE NEW AGE WOMEN ( some a the old ones also, they had to learn it somewhere)THE ONLY THING THEY DEMAND A BUDDY, MONEY, NAMEBRAND CLOTHES, FREE DRINKS AND A TAXI FARE. THEY MOST LIKELY EXPECT US FEMALES TO RESPECT THEM WHILE THEIR MEN/BOYS DISRESPECT THEM. WOMEN SETTLE FOR ANYTHING SO THEY WILLING TO PUT UP WITH WHATEVER THE HELL THE MAN DISH. ALL BECAUSE OF LAZINESS, LOW SELF-ESTEEM, THE LACK A EDUCATION, LITTLE TO NO PARENTAL GUIDANCE( teenage girls),LACK OF INDEPENDENCE AND NO MOTIVATION .

  • DWRL says:

    @5:03 NOT YET!!!! Bobby christen a wah 19 and a sniff crack, the apples no fall far from the tree, give them time.

  • Cindy Royal says:

    Says the woman who’s always cloaked in thousands of dollars worth of name brand clothing & accessories. An example is the listing for an outfit worn by her this summer:

    Shirt and shoes – Alexander McQueen
    Shorts – Jean-Claude Jitrois
    Belt – Versace
    Bracelet – Le Vian
    Necklace – Queen V at Roseark Los Angeles

    Not saying har message is wrong, but she aint no better than what she described suh live unuh own life ppl, use di brain weh God gi unuh fi form unuh own opinion & never stop learning, but nuh mek nuh body trick unuh like dem righteous dan another. Shi need fi guh duh betta at being a parent dan worry bout who a wear wat. 11 y-o an di pickney pierce up like grata kmt.

  • OBSERVER says:

    mi 8 ow suma unnuh blog pon dis bloodclawt ya dats y mor time mi duss read n guh chu smh caw if mi ansa it bruk weh :hoax2 met fi ban sum a unnuh

    On a another note, ppl business I see what you’re saying. Agree or disagree is irrelevant but I see your take.

    dotty mi miss yuh ooooo :peluk

  • watsitnotsit says:

    her daughter has stated on numerous occasions that shes bi-sexual and she has a tongue ring, i dont kow what that sounds like to some of you but to me that sounds like jada is allowing this girl that didnt even reach her teens yet to be exposed to more than she should be at that age, she bald off her head and ye it blue wtf? when i was 12 my mother wouldve killed me if I did that and she pose up wid tongue ring wtfffffffff

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