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HEAD COOK AND BOTTLE WASHER WORRIED

Title: Is her Husband cheating

Message Body:
Met, mi nuh agree wi paschuh…..Would like to know wat di oddas tink

Is my husband cheating?

Dear Pastor,

I listen your talk show at nights and read your column whenever I can. I have a problem with my husband. I don’t know what to do. He says he is working hard so that when we both reach the age of 55, we wouldn’t have anything to worry about. He has a business that he is not telling me about.

When the business was just opening he had a little function and all our friends thought I would be the head cook and bottle washer in it. When I told them I did not know anything about it, they were surprised. They were even saying that it must be a woman who is in the business with him why he doesn’t want me to know anything about it.

Every weekend he is gone to the business place and does not come home until Sunday night. And whenever I ask him where he slept, he said on his friend’s couch. Whenever he says he is at the business place and I try calling him, he says his phone was on silent.

When he comes home and wants to have sex with me, I become very angry and I don’t know why I feel so angry. I don’t know if I am exaggerating but I crave your fatherly advice.

Confused

Dear Confused,

Your friends are going to help to destroy your marriage. Your husband has not made you a partner in his business. He has his reasons for not doing so. Some men work very well in business with their wives, others do not. Some wives are too jealous and often accuse their husbands of having affairs with clients. They find it difficult to separate their love life and the company business.

On the other hand, there are some wives who make excellent business partners with their husbands. Such businesses flourish and unless one is familiar with the couple, he/she would never know that they are related by marriage.

Some women chat just too much and they want to know everything. And it is not always wise for a man to say everything that is happening in his business, whether good or bad.

And, please learn that even if your husband is in business with a woman, it does not necessarily mean that they are having a sexual relationship. So your girlfriends who are putting dirty thoughts in your mind should learn to shut up and mind their own business.

Pastor

17 Responses to HEAD COOK AND BOTTLE WASHER WORRIED

  • mercs says:

    woman wise up like i did him naa cheat him own d bun factory

  • Countrygal says:

    I read this in the Star yesterday and i was of the same opinion that i do not agree with the Pastor’s response. It is clearly evident that the man is cheating. Conviently his phone is always on silent when she tries to ring him. How can u have a business and not tell your wife about it? I thought sharing was apart of being a married couple. I would advise this woman to take a flying leap out of this relationship because it is evident that it is going no where.

  • soap opera says:

    lady leave pastor alone, go do your homework cheaters can’t hide for long, find the couch and you will find his friend. Good morning metty n staff.

  • OBSERVER says:

    like ow unnuh marrid, my advice is dat yuh guh c a marriage counselor caw weh mi a guh tel yuh nuh hav no filta n mi not responsible fi mi speech sum time esp wen di ques mad mi

  • Cindy Royal says:

    No husband is obligated to make a wife a business partner, especially if he sees that she’s a numbskull, but something is very wrong with this story.

  • wow says:

    this wife never imply seh she waa fe beh har husband buisness partner, at least me neva see dat inna har letter to pastor, unless most likely hem edit parts of har letter. this lady’s husnand a cheat, no doubt, suh she better mek sure seh she start secure har bex money. lady this man will be leaving yuh soon soon, suh when him ready feh doit prepare yuhself an nuh badda get nuh breakdown. dont even try to save disya marriage yah cause it past that stage long long time and him done move on already a just yuh feh know weh yuh a guh do now.
    my reason for saying the above is. how the hell can a married man weh have hem wife weh him a live wid and him a start a new business an dont let his wife know about it? wifee yuh shoulda know about the business fram him first start tink bout it because important decisions like this requires family discussions. if he was into yuh, in terms of him respect and love yuh yuh woulda know fram the start. therefore yuh need to start accept the reality fram now anno wait till yuh 55 and tink seh yuh a guh live good life wid him. anno you aggo enjoy it my dear, is the next woman weh him have out there weh him a diss yuh fah.
    what meck yuh tink him nevva tell yuh before? why him nevva teck yuh to the grand opening? how comes him have the nerves feh envite unno mutual friends and yuh nuh get envite? yuh nuh seh seh a big dutty bloodclawt disrespect that?
    lady,yuh need to check yuh divorce lawyer as soon as possible. and also star teck stock of all unno financial interest, that when yuh file yuh papers everything him have is accounted for, and tech him bumbohole to the cleaners. him too rude. and another thing dont pay pastor nuh mind, meh like read him column, but is not every time hem give good advise, his response to yuh is wan a the worse.

  • Riches says:

    first of all this story nuh add up, oman too naive and Pastor, fi a pastor how can you give this advice, straying from the obvious? no sah cyah believe pasta a rant bout marriage and being business partners an all a now im nuh acknowledge d obvious seh d man a cheat

  • Quiet Storm says:

    MOrning Met and Metters,
    Welllllll ef mi ah yuh wife an mi cyaan know whuch pawt yuh ‘bizniz’ place deh or what it about, den sumting well rong….Me an yuh nuh deserve fi marrid den.

    Mi nuh affi be nuh bizniz pawtna or even werk een deh, but as yuh ‘wife’ mi feel mi ave di rite fi at least know bout it an where part it deh…… As smaddy uppa top sey, go do yuh homework cawsen sey it luk like yuh ave shares inna Captain an Yummy bakery.

  • OBSERVER says:

    mayb di man a cheat wid di pastor :nerd stop n tink bout dat caw mi nuh noe ow em a play so bline 2 di facts

  • LadyWoW says:

    dat is blatant Bun. Go wid ue gut and ur womanly instinct. dat mi nuh undastand wid some a wi. all the signs are there dat di man is a pice a dogggg shit and yet we question our selves and wonder wat we are doing wrong. chu rassclaut !!!!!!!!!

  • good girl gone bad says:

    Pastor need to go bout his bizniz wid dat response. That is horrible advice and him stry from the main point. She doesnt have to be his business partner but as his wife she has every right to know where he is working and how exactly is he gonna make them comfy by the time they reach 55. That is complete and utter foolishness. She shouldnt have to live with such secrecy smdh

  • NO SAH ! says:

    A WAH KINDA PASTOR DIS? DOESNT HE HAVE ANY MORALS AS A PERSON AND AS A MARRIAGE COUNSELLOR, TELL DE OOMAN DE TRUTH, DE MAN A BUN HAR AND SHE MUST READILY APPLY FOR A DIVORCE…………………SHITTTTT !

  • Dwrl says:

    POWWWWWWW MI RATE PASTOR FOR THAT ANSWER, A NOSY YOU RASS FRIENDS NOSY, IF NUTTEN NO WRONG IN THE HOUSE, NO BREAK NUTTEN. IF YOU DID WANT SEX AND HE REFUSED THEN I WOULD BE CONCERN, BUT NO MAN GO FUCK OUT THE ENTIRE WEEKEND AND STILL WANT PUSSY WHEN HE COME HOME, UNLESS HE’S A PISCES…..DEM NAW NO PUSSY CONTROL.

    IS HE A NASTY PISCES, IS THE MONEY ES BRINGING HOME WEEKLY SHORT?? IF YOU NO SEE NO PROBLEMS NO GO OUT YOUR WAY TO CREATE NONE

  • Dwrl says:

    Maybe him a run a drug ring, a strip club….mi no see the problem, if him busy on weekends and you feel lonely( by all mean get your own life) so when he’s doing him you can do you. Just like that private accounts we always say get, you too can have a private life so the man not being around no run you head

  • Dwrl says:

    @riches she can be like captain barkleys wife. She never know (if a true) because she was too busy with her own life, if you have your own life then what the man does won’t bother you unless it’s like her case HER NOSY FUCKING FRIENDS A WATCH THE RASS MAN, WHAT DEM NO HAVE A LIFE?? who a watch their men while she’s watching hers??

    NOT GONNA ASSUME THE MAN CHEATING BASED ON THIS LETTER, WE NEED MORE INFORMATION AS TO WHAT HE DOES ALL WEEK?? HOW HE TREATS HER AS HIS WIFE ETC,.??

  • Dwrl says:

    The pastor was just giving examples folks. My question is WHY WOULD A MAN LEFT HIS WARM COMFORTABLE BED TO GO SLEEP ON FRIENDS COUCH?? how far is the so call business from his home?? SENDERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR??

  • Anonymous says:

    sorry but pastor want two rass lick, what the hell is he tell this woman smh

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