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7 TYPES OF MEN EVERY WOMAN SHOULD DATE


7 types of MEN every woman should DATE

Obviously one can see that this is a suggestion from one person based on perceptions and personal experiences. Please find a way to pick out the positive impact this should have on you and never allow its full content make you who you are. Its very purpose is to help us channel our energies to the real thing one should be looking for in a man.

1. The Unmarried Man – This may seem obvious, but it is very necessary to mention. There are too many women attempting have relationships with married men. Married men are not a candidate for single women to date… period! This includes married men who are separated (legally or otherwise). They are still married and not available to date. Married people have their own families and concerns to deal with. That being said, the unmarried man, who is devoted to the things of God, is the type of man you should be interested in dating. (1 Corinthians 7:32-35).

2. The Kingdom Seeker – A man who is seeking God’s Will for His life will, not only seek out a woman to date, but will seek out his wife. The Bible says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you” (Matthew 6:33). Ladies, you should be an asset; the thing that is *added* to him as he is FIRST seeking the kingdom of God. This is why I say, run as fast as you can for Jesus and the one who can keep up might be the one.

3. The Real Man – No, I am not talking about machismo behavior (all the shoulders back, chest out, fist curling gestures and such)… Real men don’t need all of that. That’s what grown-boys do to get a woman’s attention. Real men “pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace” (2. Timothy 2:22). Real men regard women as a gift that is not to be taken advantage of; they see her as priceless and desire to cling to her (Matthew 19:5). A real man’s character shows his high regard for a woman long before the dating stage.

4. The Learner – A man who is in continual pursuit of knowledge is better equipped to handle life and execute on goals / plans. He should read, seek counsel, study continuously, etc… The Bible says, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed”( Proverbs 15:22). Also, “My people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge” (Hosea 4:6). A man who is willing to learn and gain knowledge in life should also be more open to gaining knowledge about love and having successful relationships.

5. The Multiplier -A man shouldn’t just balance you out, he should constantly add to you. His presence should multiply your potential. He should add to the beauty of who you are and never take away from anything that is precious about you. ( “Relationship Coaching: Do you multiply or divide?”) The Bible says, “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company ruins good morals.’” (1 Corinthians 15:33). The man you date should never cause you to compromise good morals. He should seek ways to support you in your values. His values should complement yours.

6. The Servant – A man who has demonstrated a pattern of submitting to authorities in his life (leadership, pastors, parents, etc…) will also have an understanding of how to submit to God as the head of his life and, subsequently, how to commit to his future wife. The Bible says, “Obey your leaders and submit to them… Let them do this with joy and not with groaning,” (Hebrews 13:17). His positive attitude towards authority figures is an indication of his servant’s heart and also provides a picture of how he can be in a dating relationship.

7. The Consistent Man – Emotions rise and fall, but character shows with consistency. The consistent man is not in a rush because he does not have poor intentions, nor is he interested in manipulating a woman to be led by her emotions (“ Warning: Don’t Follow Your Heart”). He will take his time to get to know you and will allow you to get to know him as well. The Bible says, “Whoever walks in integrity will be delivered, but he who is crooked in his ways will suddenly fall.” (Proverbs 28:18). Over time, the consistent man’s good character will still stand, while the man with bad intentions will also come to light.

Remember, the purpose of dating is to get to know a person. If you take your time to get to know him, you will be able to find out if he is the type of man you should date.

8 Responses to 7 TYPES OF MEN EVERY WOMAN SHOULD DATE

  • 123me says:

    Please let me know where i can find him, cause no matter where i go i just find de scuff dem!!

    Afternoon Met an all

  • Dwrl says:

    Mi no know bout UNNO but a 1 type a man me need/want and dat is a money man that is very giving :thumbup mi no too care for the rest because after mi get him money him can gwan bout him business just know me exist on payday lmfao

  • Quiet Storm says:

    What mi getting from dis article is dat di bess kina man fi date is a ‘Christian’ (mi mighta rong, but ah dat mi get from reading di article).

    How much ah dem man deh exist?

  • gf says:

    I like this alot and I concur

  • OBSERVER says:

    A very good read especially # 1 and # 4 mi nuh noe bout #6 caz mi nuh noe ow em fi confident n den guh submit 2 evry ting weh ppl seh em fi duh a onli di membaz a di church wudda duh dat caw dem fraid a dem leader/passta

    dwrl a ope wen di man dem say it yuh agree to becaw wat gud fi di goose gud fi di gander :maho

  • Dwrl says:

    @observer dem aw SEH shit because unlike other women a mi control my relationship anything mi SEH go or they can always pick up one a dem bitch that easily controlled by men. My way or the high way. They know the deal the second they step to me :thumbup

  • OBSERVER says:

    arite dahlin a ere yuh ;)

  • Anonymous says:

    @ d unmarried man ok then i have a question…… ive been with my bf almost 2 years now but when i met him he was seperated from his wife a year an a half i did not find out that they were still married legallyuntil earlier this year not becuz he was hiding it but because i neva wanted to talk abt her. So does dat mean that i’m a bad person????? afterall i am not d reason they seperated…..

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