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HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN

Ladies a MUST read: HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN

 

 

1. KNOW WHEN TO BACK OFF: Many Ladies assume her affectionate attention is welcome by her man until he asks for a little space. Guys like to know their girls have lives of their own, so schedule time for yourself, away from him, with your girlfriends.

2. CONVEY YOURSELF TO YOUR MAN: Instead of holding in your emotions and thoughts about the actions and words of your man, just tell him calmly and not aggressively. He will appreciate this MUCH more than he would if you kept your thoughts to yourself and used them against him later. Men are not mind readers,so tell them what is going on. Punch him in the arm if it comes to that. This sort of release will make you seem far less unpredictable and moody.

3. DONT ASSUME THAT DOING NICE THINGS FOR YOUR MAN WILL MAKE YOU LOOK SUBMISSIVE: This is a big one, and it is especially effective if life is starting to take its toll. The simple act of doing him a favor or two does not make you a submissive woman, but rather a caring one. If he has had a stressful week at work or a rough string of midterms, wait until he has some free time and make it nice with his favorite meal. If he comes home and looks absolutely ravaged, collapses on the sofa and exhales deeply as though the weight of the world is on his shoulders, bring him a beer or soft drink and let him tell you what is wrong. General kindness, without him asking, will work wonders on the mood of the man and allow him to associate the resulting happiness with none other than the caring woman who made it all possible.

4. DON’T LIE ON YOUR THOUGHTS OR WHEREABOUTS: Do not lie to your guy about where you are going, or what you are thinking of. If he asks you, he wants to know, so tell him. Use discretion however. Do not tell him you were thinking about that one thing Your ex used to do in bed. But if you just brush it off with a light nothing or say something that is obviously a lie, you will only drive him crazy, and not the good kind of crazy.

5. DON’T USE SEX AS A WEAPON: Finally, do not think about withholding sex. You should learn how to surprise your man and keep things Alive in the bedroom. keeping the chemistry alive will definitely keep your man happy.

6. BE LIKE BEFORE: Continue to do what you did when you started the relationship. Too, many times people become content in their relationship and fail to realize, all it takes is to continue what you did from the start and add on to it. No, I am not saying do not do new things I am saying continue to do old and add a little new. There is always room for improvement. Trying new things should be fun at the same time you have to realize your partner and you are not going to always agree on things to try.

7. BE IN CHARGE OF THE HOUSE: Men want a woman in the streets and a dare devil at home. He wants a woman that can do it all from take care home, business, and him. Why is home different from him. Well, just as children need their special attention men and women needs special attention from their partner. Because you are washing, cooking, cleaning, or a professional woman does not mean you are taking care of your man. He needs the same attention you want him to give you. Do what you did for him when you first started to date. Give him a sweet note in the morning or call him and tell him you love. Sweet nothings are the best and cheap.

8. BE SMART: Women please keep yourselves up, because you have been with this man for an extended period of time does not mean he want to see you in that old T.Shirt every day. Sometime it is fine. Go to bed in nice lingerie. Of course your beauty attracted him in the first place. KEEP YOURSELF UP.

9. CHERISH YOUR MAN: What you do not do, someone else will. Creativity is a must. If it sex then give him, if it is a movie night, give it. Whatever the case is give and be creative. What goes on in your bedroom is sacred. What you do is not for your friends. A lot a time that is why there are so many problems, cause rather you realize it or not your man is suppose to be your best friend.

10. COMMUNICATE: Without it there is nothing. Learn how to communicate. Screaming at one another is not communication. Talking and not listening is not communication. You have to listen and realize you are not always right. It is not who is right or who is wrong, it is really important to know how your man feels. Do not have a conversation when angry. Good communications carries you far. You need to learn how to communicate.

10 Responses to HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN

  • THAT’S WHAT OUR PROBLEM IN SOCIETY THEN AND NOW MAKING FEEL LIKE THEM SPECIALLLLL OR LIKE A KING. WHAT HAPPEN TO US WOMEN WE MUST BE TREATED LIKE A QUEEN. WHY SHOULD US WOMEN BE SUBMISSIVE-EMOTIONAL-CARING-NAIVE-AND CARRY THE BURDER OF A MAN’S EMOTIONS. WE WOMEN NEED TO START LOVE OURSELVES AND EARN OUR SELF WORTH AND DIGNITY. WE AINT STOOGE TO NO MAN BUT FADA GOD. HOW ABOUT THE MEN BE MORE CARING AFFECTIONATE-CARING-SUPPORTIVE-AND FINANCIAL INDEPENDENT AND MAYBE WE ALL CAN GET ALONG. THANKS THE MAN WHO FEEL THAT HIS WOMEN SHOULD ACT A CERTAIN WAY PERCEIVED BY TRADITIONAL VALUE…HELLO IT THE NEW GENERATION SO EACH ITS OWN…MAYB MEN NEED TO LEARN HOW TO KEEP DEM OMAN AND MAYB NUFF A DEM NUH GET BUNNNNN….STR888…OH PLEASE WITH DAT MAN EGO SHYT….FEMINIST MOVEMENT STR888

  • DWRL says:

    Now with all that’s said LADIES remember IF HE’S NOT A KEEPER DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME “HE WON’T STAY” if he’s a serial CHEATER ExAMPLE OF WASTED TIME.

    Now WE TIRED A WAYS TO KEEP UR MAN POST. MEN WANT TO KNOW HOW TO KEEP THEIR WOMEN ALSO!!! The dick or your paycheck alone can’t keep a real woman that has her own.

  • You could do all of this and still get [email protected]#ed!!! Im no longer trying to keep a man. Just work on your own self esteem,pray, and cut the bull, and the right man will come to you

  • Quiet Storm says:

    @DWRL, I agree with your comment 101% especially di dick & paycheck part…..Nuff man nuh have a clue how fi treat a REAL woman.

    Ms. Met can we get a post about how to keep a real woman?

  • Str8 says:

    Met I seek ur opinion : Have a guy we are not exclusive but things are on and off. But a kind feel like am tired of his bullshit now over something last night. Went to his house to sleep. He had to leave for work at 5:30. He went to a party with his cousin so his cousin stayed over with a girl in the spear room. In the morning I got up to leave when he was ready for work, when i got to the door i see that his cousin and the girl were still there. Now my take is this couldnt he have said I can leave later cause his cousin was there whom i assume can lock the house up even though I got up to leave (didnt know cousin was there). So cousin and some chick which i know isnt cousin girlfriend can stay while he goes to work but i had to leave. So now he has been texting asking whats wrong cause i seem to have left pissed this morning. Should I leave it be and say nothing or express my feeling. Am so tired though of how things are. Should i just use this as my exit and not explained anything and allow him to figure things out. How would he know am upset I just got in my car and left speeding only which is the norm or he knows there is something to be upset about. WHAT U THINK PLEASE BCUZ I HAVENT RESPONDED TO HIS TEXT YET

  • Metty says:

    Yuh know at one point in time I said I would not stay over a guy’s place, its always better for them to come over and the time mi break mi rule disrespect happen as in the case here..You are pissed and of course but at that time me and that person was not boyfriend so what terms are you on with this guy? If he is your real man then there is something wrong, if a nuh ur man just dont go back there let him pay fi a motel or go by you. If a ur man now that means he is not seeing you as his woman and you really might want to re-evaluate the situation

  • Str8 says:

    I am not gonna claim he is my man truth be told. He says he is not seeing anyone but who knows. I am not seeing anyone either other than him. This is the first time this is happening because i sleep there all the time but i am usually the one who gets up and leave and he complains how i get up leave and not say anything to him when i do.SMH. I love him and really want to be with him but not like this. I also think birds of a feather flock together hence if u cld allow ur cousin to sleep there with some chick then thats say alot about u(him) as well. He knows how i feel about him to an extent and T think he is afraid of commitment cause every time he get close he pulls back. So do I explain about this morning or just give him a break and let things play out. (Even though I love him really dont wanna play a fool regardless)

  • Metty says:

    Oh a di cousin ting shake u up..I understand and would be worried but truth be told it seems like that is how they do but it would be best if you open your heart to other options and dont let your love for him restrict you because his feelings may not be restricting him

  • :siul well i have a man and i :heart: him but guess what anytime him gone such is life 10 ways how to keep your woman and make her happy.we dont get the treatment we deserve at times so guess what .if yu have a man and him a treat yu bad :tkp him someone is waiting for u

  • Str8 says:

    Thanks Met!!! respect ….

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